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QuinQ:
It is a big favour. She risks pregnancy, reputation of looseness, biological clock, VD, etc.
What do men risk? Just brag to mates

advanceDNA:
Risk pregnancy....??
Since when did having babies become a bad thing...both man and woman want the child
Sex is enjoyedŕeeeeeeeeeeeeeee side is not doing the other a favour...

QuinQ:
Typical men's mentality! Who has to carry the baby for 9 months and nurses the baby, pregnancy complications and effects on body, etc? Your conly contribution is you enjoyed sex. That's it!

advanceDNA:
Lol....Frustration?? Are u trying to be hilarious or ur babe monitors ur comment on nairaland

U are viewing marriage like a piece of bread ..relationships are not black and white ..

..no one meets a woman and know from the start he will marry her...only desperate pple do that...people date and at some point decide to take it to the altar...

"...assuming everyone they meet owes them a marriage just because they agreed to date...." This is an expectation that blinds women and stop them from regularly assessing the relationship they're in to see whether it's taking them in the right direction.

More than half of the time, women are the ones guilty of ur so called time wasting...because they are the ones that will say yes to dating you for money, for sex, just for the fun of it because they don't have any one they can put some of their responsibilities on at the time....

You will hear them say..."i ddnt like him initially because he wasn't my spec...but I said because yes because he's nice, gives me gift" .....

.both men and women should set realistic goals, look out for red flags and stop assuming everyone they meet owes them a marriage just because they agreed to date....

advanceDNA:
Both party enjoys sex is mens mentality...??


How can u say u want a baby, to be a mother yet you say u are doing the man a favour..

If u don't want a baby...don't have sex and come am form victim and risk

QuinQ:
Who's saying anything about wanting a baby? The point is the risk from sex not equal AT ALL! A man can have sex and walk away and it ends there. A woman can't. You really ought appreciate a woman who opens her legs 4 you because she's risking a lot in doing so

advanceDNA:
Appreciate you for using my dîck to reach orgasm....?? U must be a comedian..

..if it's a that big of a risk, y'all won't be spreading legs everywhere