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I have tried so hard to understand this phenomena,people around me are always curious about my moves and decisions especially towards success and they seem to get envious and jealous when things are turning out good for me.
In my workplace I can bet you I am the most talked about person,not like I have money or any spectacular talent but any move I make goes viral,they will talk about it and whine me with it.
Recently I just moved in into a new apartment,now the issue I am having is in the street is the area boys,they all want to get close to me by fire by force,they keep looking for my trouble all the time I can sense they desperately want a fight with me but I use wisdom to follow them up,this is because the landlord gave me a space outside where I operate pos at night as my side hustle just at night.
sometimes they will flock my whole pos stand sitting on my chair and table making noise driving customers away I will just stand by and watch with my pos machine on my hand,I am new in the street so nobody to fight for me.the thing is this boys think any boy they see is a cultist,they are curious to know if I am a cultist at least that what I think.
No that I can't fight but I have stopped that a long time ago after I fought with a cultist in campus we both injured each other badly and the aftermath was deadly they threatened the hell out of me.

But you're still alive or are you a cultist also

Bookhub:
I have tried so hard to understand this phenomena,people around me are always curious about my moves and decisions especially towards success and they seem to get envious and jealous when things are turning out good for me.
In my workplace I can bet you I am the most talked about person,not like I have money or any spectacular talent but any move I make goes viral,they will talk about it and whine me with it.
Recently I just moved in into a new apartment,now the issue I am having is in the street is the area boys,they all want to get close to me by fire by force,they keep looking for my trouble all the time I can sense they desperately want a fight with me but I use wisdom to follow them up,this is because the landlord gave me a space outside where I operate pos at night as my side hustle just at night.
sometimes they will flock my whole pos stand sitting on my chair and table making noise driving customers away I will just stand by and watch with my pos machine on my hand,I am new in the street so nobody to fight for me.the thing is this boys think any boy they see is a cultist,they are curious to know if I am a cultist at least that what I think.
No that I can't fight but I have stopped that a long time ago after I fought with a cultist in campus we both injured each other badly and the aftermath was deadly they threatened the hell out of me.

Pause on the POS for nw till u Sabi area well.

It's a sad thing. Never do well, aimless street urchins that refuse to do something meaningful with their lives. So when they see anyone doing something with their own life they immediately get threatened and try to stifle you. Maybe you need to involve your landlord who gave you the place. One thing I do know about them is that they are cowards.
Still you must be careful when you handle them cause they are also very vengeful. Only God knows how much I despise them with every cell in my body.

As for being the most talked about person in your work place and every where you go... I sincerely believe you may be overthinking everything.

Maitunbi:
As for being the most talked about person in your work place and every where you go... I sincerely believe you may be overthinking everything.

I am very sure of this,people dey always chuk mouth for my matter.

You are a chosen one

My own be say they'll say I'm rich and I have money. And I'm pretending to be poor God the thing dey pain Sha but I deg pray make God bless me.

Honestly if I get I dey give but sometimes wetin people don do me en I wise up.When you see something new you will tell them but immediately they see something they will lock up me too I don dey lockup.

Let me give you sense, don't be a loner or an outcast.
And at the same time don't mingle with them too cos you're not one of them.
Know your boundary, look for their egbon or the senior ones among them and buy drink 4 them, don't give them money o just drinks or gift once in a while. it's better to be in their good books than bad book, And when you don't have say NO.
Don't flaunt your wealth and don't try to show that you have money cos you will regret.
Lastly,
greet people around you like your neighbours cos they will also help you incase you are in trouble.

Maybe you are too flamboyant in your dressing
Maybe you dress to impress
Maybe you draw unnecessary attention
Maybe you show that you are ladies guy
Maybe you try often to pick ladies they are jealous about.

I have that air around me too... But I usually intentionally tone certain part of me down just to avoid those low life street boys... Cos they like to associate with such personality like a parasite

So, Oga live a low profile.
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Then you don't have to greet them. When you spot they are cultist , why then do you give them face... Why?
Learn to act formal
You don't have to act friendly to everyone.
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I can stay in a place and nobody will know my package because I carry myself with purpose and seriousness...

You can't even expect me to greet u, na you go greet me.... Which I will answer formally. These are what I do when I sense peoples roving eyes and inability to mind their business... ... Cos Nigerians can be so unreasonably jealous and evil at heart....

Firebox123:
But you're still alive or are you a cultist also

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Did you own them something if not, behave as if they don't exist,if the threating is much for you, find one policeMan and discuss the issue with him,he will give you some steps to take,no that they can't offer you something good so discharge away from your side,na you they make the matter worse when you're thinking about them

Don't take my word as an insult, you thinking or having the feeling that you are the most talked about or people wanting to be around you or to know everything about you is a sign of mental illness or Anxiety. Every one has their own issues they are battling. Don't look at people too often to know their reaction towards you. Visit a therapist you need help