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Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by ruffhandu: 11:47pm On Apr 14, 2025
virginprincess:
Werey man huh huh
Why didn't he at least proposed to her so she would know he is serious, most men think women are the same with them biologically, they don't know that women clock tick faster.
Now, he is pained because another man sharply did what he couldn't do in three years.
My own is that he should give her time to return the money he use to set her up instead of collecting the whole shop 😒😒
Haba, dis your verdict get as e be o. Which one be give her time? Did she hint the guy when she was double-dating? She should have told the man to define the relationship, if he is not still ready for marriage, then she should tell him she will be open to accept another man. But as it is, it is being wicked not giving up the businesses immediately.
Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by giacomogiovanni: 2:59am On Apr 15, 2025
Lovit:
Men should stop buying expensive things for Naija ladies they aren't married to

To a lady, once she just open her leg and you pour akamu once, she thinks she has paid you back even if na Lambo you buy for her
You are very correct with this observation. Why do many women think like this though? huh huh huh
Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by BluntCrazeMan: 4:27am On Apr 15, 2025
virginprincess:
Werey man huh huh
Why didn't he at least proposed to her so she would know he is serious, most men think women are the same with them biologically, they don't know that women clock tick faster.
Now, he is pained because another man sharply did what he couldn't do in three years.
My own is that he should give her time to return the money he use to set her up instead of collecting the whole shop 😒😒
The woman cannot take the best of both sides.

She should either leave the shop, or tell the new man to buy over the shop for her from the other man.
Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by advanceDNA: 8:21am On Apr 15, 2025
nairalanda1:
Well I am free to assume that this woman is not evil
.
If U know u are free to assume wateva u like ..why are u all over pple's mentions trying to counter their own opinion
Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by nairalanda1(m): 8:22am On Apr 15, 2025
advanceDNA:
If U know u are free to assume wateva u like ..why are u all over pple's mentions trying to counter their own opinion
Why do you hate women? Don't deny it, you hate women.

You don't have to hate women.
Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by advanceDNA: 8:34am On Apr 15, 2025
nairalanda1:
Why do you hate women? Don't deny it, you hate women.

You don't have to hate women.
Hate women?? U are just deflecting..... grin
The topic is about one woman who exploited a guy.......but if u want to make it about all women at least articulate a proper context instead of throwing around fallacy
Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by nairalanda1(m): 8:40am On Apr 15, 2025
advanceDNA:
Hate women?? U are just deflecting..... grin
The topic is about one woman who exploited a guy.......but if u want to make it about all women at least articulate a proper context instead of throwing around fallacy
NO I am not.

You automatically believed the woman was evil. You never saw the part where she waited for 3 years for the guy to propose to her. You never cared about the pressures she may be under.

So, that means you hate women. To you, all women are whores, whatever they do.

So, why do you hate women?
Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by advanceDNA:
nairalanda1:
NO I am not.

You automatically believed the woman was evil. You never saw the part where she waited for 3 years for the guy to propose to her. You never cared about the pressures she may be under.

So, that means you hate women. To you, all women are whores, whatever they do.

So, why do you hate women?
Automatically?? Do u do selective reading?? Or fallacy is just ur follow come talent....

She cheated..wasn't transparent because she obviously was dating multiple guys because proposal isn't what u pick up in a supermarket
So, justifying her cheating and exploitation with dating for three years is another fallacy.....

Pple date for much longer...if U are not on the same page with someone's dating plans..make it known....instead of stringing the person along for financial gains and later go with someone else and not still tell them...

Like I said...it absurd labeling a man that invest millions on a woman as u lnserious.
...if all he came to the table with was marriage proposal without money...u will still call him unserious because money is more important than making a woman lord of the rings....

So why is he still unserious when he has come up with the what's more important than mere proposal.....and that's why I pointed to you the possibility that she was using the guy all along while waiting for who she really wants to be ready........but hey! U called it automatic because somehow u do selective reading....
Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by nairalanda1(m): 9:48am On Apr 15, 2025
advanceDNA:
Automatically?? Do u do selective reading?? Or fallacy is just ur follow come talent....

She cheated..
There was no where in the post that said she cheated or slept with anyone else.

You are the one projecting your hate onto women here.

You expect a woman to be left hanging for a man? You probably don't know that women have biologic clock. We don't.

Why do you hate women?
Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by advanceDNA: 10:05am On Apr 15, 2025
nairalanda1:
There was no where in the post that said she cheated or slept with anyone else.

You are the one projecting your hate onto women here.

You expect a woman to be left hanging for a man? You probably don't know that women have biologic clock. We don't.

Why do you hate women?
Yawn...


A woman financial gaining from from a man is suddenly engaged to someone else yet u asking where in the post did it say shes cheating... U dialogue like a 7year old, throwing fallacies here and there...
Your points are always weak without objective reasoning.......and I don't mean it at as insult because that how you also fallaciously conclude paying more tax is Nigeria's solution. grin grin
Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by nairalanda1(m): 10:29am On Apr 15, 2025
advanceDNA:
Yawn...


A woman financial gaining from from a man is suddenly engaged to someone else yet u asking where in the post did it say shes cheating... U dialogue like a 7year old, throwing fallacies here and there...
Your points are always weak without objective reasoning.......and I don't mean it at as insult because that how you also fallaciously conclude paying more tax is Nigeria's solution. grin grin
See, you hate women. Admit it
Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by pansophist(m): 10:38am On Apr 15, 2025
When you engage in love, always be smart in the structures that underpins it.

In love, there is no refund, and when you proceed from this basis, you make sure that anything you give out, you are willing to let go.

If you intend to receive refund, then make sure you have a leash to get your investment back.

In this particular case, he can get his shop back if the rental agreements, and everything there in is in his name, and his girlfriend merely an occupant.

No point for unnecessary drama and argument if you always do your home work well.

Just tell her to leave your shop, and she will have no reason to stay, when she has no documents to prove anything.
Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by obynokoko: 10:47am On Apr 15, 2025
I pity men who foolishly invest their life savings or hard earned money on a girlfriend who will definitely leave you immensely she sees a higher bidder.that is foolishness
Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by advanceDNA: 12:01pm On Apr 15, 2025
nairalanda1:
See, you hate women. Admit it
Yawn!!
Guy ...all these comments u are dropping because wife or babe monitors your comment in nairaland won't give u any trophy...
Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by Mamaafrik1(m): 1:18pm On Apr 15, 2025
TUANKU:
As the ashawo wey born you no train you well na to dey insult random strangers on the internet you sabi. You go die soon and na hardship go end you.
You no get sense ,ashawa don't train a morally upright man who knows that a woman should reject all cash and kind of a man she is rejecting.


Grow up dindinrin n diro,you are the one raise by a mum who does what that lady did.
Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by Mamaafrik1(m): 1:19pm On Apr 15, 2025
TUANKU:
Since you can't make your comment without insults. Na the ashawo wey born you be mumu.
You will die a horrible death.
Oloshi............you remember morals when it favours you but look away when it involves others.
Onikuure
Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by Mamaafrik1(m): 1:20pm On Apr 15, 2025
Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by grandstar(m): 4:01pm On Apr 15, 2025
make the guy put ring on it. matter settlre cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by Gerrard59(m): 3:19am On Apr 16, 2025
Bookhub:
Nigerian men are the worst simps on earth, once they have little money they start looking for women to invest in and later complain they are entitled.
It is called cognitive dissonance. They buy the attraction of women yet complain that the women love money so much.
Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by Gerrard59(m): 3:30am On Apr 16, 2025
Tightpussy2024:
Don't mind the idiots supporting him. She would continued dating him for five or six years then when he sees a woman he wants,he will leave her and marry her within three months. Then monkeys here will be calling her evening newspapers and saying she should be accountable for spending time on a time waster or claiming it's a flaw on her character. What of the number of abortions she has done for him or the sex he has been enjoying all this years? If he were paying hook up girls per sex,the money for three years can build ten of the shops
Gerrar.d59
Well, it is his fault for spending money on a woman he is not married to yet wants her to be tied to him for a long time. It is another reason I am against any romantic relationship after one's first tertiary education that lasts for more than two years. It is very unfair to the women as women lose a lot in such. I cannot, at my age, start dating a lady who is 29/30 and keep it at that level for three years. Additionally, this is why it is better to be platonic friends with females rather than the concept of "see a lady today, collect number and begin to profess love". There has to be a level of friendship between both persons.
Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by DatNaijaGuy: 4:50pm On Apr 18, 2025
TUANKU:
The man is a dolt. If na me be the woman i go find area boys to throw the nuisance out of my shop. Wawa!
Na only you get access to area boys.
The man no get area.
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