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Kriklande:
cheating mode.

leetylee:
Females… lol ☕

luminouz:
Well, she did give you a HEADS-UP.

Not just yours!!!
🙂🙂🙂

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ElasmoBranchii:
A woman choosing to sleep with a man who turns her on is also rooted in hypergamy. You neglected one aspect of the duality of women's mating strategy, specifically the alpha fucck part of the equation.

The alpha ensures good genes for long term survival of her offspring, the beta provider ensures resources for long term survival of her offspring.



Peace.

ICTcadet:
Dumbest comment on this thread so far.

Dabronze:
This is very funny 😃

Skepticus:
At the bolded, a girl/woman can be truly "in love" with you, though it is extremely rare to find such but when you do, count yourself extremely lucky. Here, my definition of finding a girl who is truly "in love" is not the nigerian man's "definition" of a woman that is truly in love with him. Most of them (Nigerian guys/boys/men) know NOTHING about females' truest attraction nor leadership in relationship. I'll get to that later.



At the bolded, I saw the whole discussions and drama that happened in relation to the paternity fraud trend on Social Media. What i found very worrying, that escaped the attention of most people on the issue of paternity fraud is that NIGERIA as country was mentioned (the only country in Africa) in ALMOST every documented research done on the issue of paternity fraud worldwide. The ones done in Nigeria put it between 50 - 75 percent of women giving birth to babies who are fathered by men who have no genetic connection to these babies. I saw one TEDx talk research putting it at a conservative 30 percent.

The disturbing point of these researches proves that a high number of Nigerian men (poor, middle-class, rich, old, middle-aged, and young) are mostly SIMPs who are also highly ignorant of the nature of women, and that Nigerian women (from the south to the so-called "prudish" north) are highly promiscuous or a terrible combination of both.

If you are a Nigerian man in the "business of promiscuity" whether as a gigolo, pim.p. player, religious leader (some religious leaders like pastors, imams, and those in secular leadership positions like CEOs use it to great advantages in getting women attracted to them) or just an average "fuûck boy", you'll slay a lot of pûssies (single, about-to-be-married, married, pregnant, divorced etc) easily because of the ignorance of the average Nigerian guy on what women do or are capable of doing.

I remember sharing the link of a Nigerian guy who revealed his escapades with so-called "decent" married women earlier on this thread. There have been many threads on front page of Pastors, Imams, Native doctors sleeping with women of all status and background without the knowledge of their boyfriends, fiances and husbands. I have had some personal experiences in this "promiscuity" too, and like most men who have been in my shoes, they stay off marriage because they see the nonsense that modern women are made of. I don't trust a woman telling me "Good morning ". I'll go outside to confirm of it is truly morning time. Like someone said earlier on this thread, most of those Saturday Marriages are just men saving hoes.

Ubunja in his miseducations and miseducashins, has revealed some of these, but the "moral" posturing (which includes some red-pillers) and blue-pill conditioning of nigerian men is so strong that the underlying message of these miseducations and miseducashins fly over their heads.

Parizz:
Is this redpill really working on men? I opened my tiktok and discovered a gal I knew as a hookup gal is married. Her husband was beside her and the two were having fun like nothing happened

Parizz:
Is this redpill really working on men? I opened my tiktok and discovered a gal I knew as a hookup gal is married. Her husband was beside her and the two were having fun like nothing happened

Parizz:
Is this redpill really working on men? I opened my tiktok and discovered a gal I knew as a hookup gal is married. Her husband was beside her and the two were having fun like nothing happened

Spiritualizt:
What's it about gals talking about their Ex relationships? didn't ask, not really in sexual relationship with her, not met her physically too, just calls as we work together.

Kipaji:
This is one of the major reasons why most men are desperate to get into a relationship and while being in a relationship.
There was a time when I thought that men that are more desperate than women for relationships are just wimpy beta simps with low to no self-esteem, low to no self-love, who pedestalize women (generally low-quality women by the way) and who don't have an abundance mindset. But I eventually realized that the reality is more complex than this.


Suppose that tomorrow you wake up in an unknown remote city, speaking an unknown language, and with no access to electricity.
You have no possessions, no connections, and no means to reach the outside world.
Then, your belly starts disturbing you. You need to eat.
You resort to begging as you don't have any other choice (except stealing).
Days pass, your situation doesn't get any better. You are just getting used to it.
Now, as a beggar, how will your attitude be towards food?
Like any other beggar out there, you will most likely cherish any piece of food you can get. If someone throws dirty food your way, you will check how dirty the food is before throwing it away. If someone gives you food in a disrespectful manner, you are still going to take it and eat it. If someone asks you to do some humiliating or embarrassing stuff for a meal you are likely to do it, because you don't when you will get food again.
You can't afford to have an abundance mindset, because you are not in abundance and your urge to eat does not give a fvck about your mindset.
If you are too proud, you will probably die out of hunger,

See, most men are beggars in the sexual marketplace.
They can have all the mindset they want, the reality is that most of them are invisible and undesired by women.
It's so rare for them to receive anything from women (attention, sex), that the day it happens to them, they are overtly excited and are inclined to simping. For similar reasons, most men can't realistically afford to have an abundance mindset. Sure, there are many women out there. But how many of these women want you (except for money/stability)? You can lie to yourself that a lot of women want you, but reality will catch up to you.

I believe that the men who can afford to not be desperate simps in relationships with women are
1) men who are dealing with women who genuinely like them (i.e., who find them sexually attractive)
2) men who are dealing with women on a transactional basis (prostitutes, escorts, also some married women (marriage can be argued to be nothing more than acculturated prostitution))
3) men that are OK being single and sexless forever if it means not having to degrade themselves via simping, chasing, pandering, jestering, performing, betabuxxing, cuckolding, disrespect, etc.

Akano5:
Thank you for your input, I have learn a lot here

monerozi5590:
She ain't over her ex yet. She still has feelings for him.

Kipaji:
That's one of the reasons why I stopped being so judging of desperate simps. Like thirsty slaves in the Sahara, they are excited for every drop of women's attention/sex/energy/interaction they can get. Even if it comes with disrespect, excessive demands, and a lot of compromise, he can't really afford to be choosy, can he?
As I said, one of the three categories of men that can avoid this downgrading situation is men who hold their self-esteem, respect, dignity, principles, masculinity, and authenticity higher than sexual access.

Kipaji:
That's one of the reasons why I stopped being so judging of desperate simps. Like thirsty slaves in the Sahara, they are excited for every drop of women's attention/sex/energy/interaction they can get. Even if it comes with disrespect, excessive demands, and a lot of compromise, he can't really afford to be choosy, can he?
As I said, one of the three categories of men that can avoid this downgrading situation is men who hold their self-esteem, respect, dignity, principles, masculinity, and authenticity higher than sexual access.