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Dogalmighty17:
Obavoh. You are doomed. After everything that happened to you, you've not taught yourself sense. After all the disrespect your wife and your people showed you it hasn't occurred to you that you are dealing with very dangerous people? You don't have a wife. What you have is a liability from a family of liabilities.

People who only show you love when you have money to spend are not people to be around with. Your wife watched as her mom carried a piece of fish from your food and your wife was okay with it? And you, having no dignity and self respect still went back to that home?

Na wa o. Your in-laws didn't see you finish. You saw yourself finish. Tueh!

004gist:
People budget and manage and 150k is a reasonable money depend on the state he is

Mom007:
Ah, na nairaland celebrity he be o... him story full here. We love him but he no dey hear word!

AVECDEO:
Oga leave the place already and go to a city to make a living.
When you balance send for your wife and children.
Your eyes never see anything.
If you have money for data then you can have money to move ahead.
Go abuja.

Obavoh:
The last time I visited my Inlaws my wife’s father and me ate from the same plate.

Distance really brings respect. I thank God almighty

Obavoh:
This was the biggest mistake of my life. We had no money and we had to depend on her parents for everything.

I received direct and indirect insults from her father, mother and even the last born of their household.

It got so bad that one day her mother served us soup and as we were eating, she dipped hand into my soup and took out the piece of fish inside and claimed she mistakenly added it to my plate. I cried that night.

I would work morning to evening on her father’s farm without pay. I swallowed everything with hopes that I will find a job and move us out.


Few weeks after we moved in, My wife started behaving funny. She would ask me for money to buy things which she knew i did not have.

When I told her I don’t have she would start quarreling with me. This is something that never happened under my roof.

Her mother began to control her. Since we moved into her parents house she never allowed me to touch her. I became so frustrated that I wanted to use the small money I had to rent a short time hotel for us so we could spend time together as husband and wife.

My Wife cried and accused me of wayward lifestyle. She reported me to her mother and they held a family meeting for me.

I became ashamed for lack of privacy and watching my life waste away. I finally packed my things and left. My wife or her family did not even beg me to stay.

Obavoh:
All thanks to God I was able to get a good job after I moved out.

I am now earning nothing less than ₦150,000 monthly.
I can buy what I want and eat well now.
I have gotten a place for my wife and children to stay. We are now living happily together.

All glory to God.

nifemi25:
Life is unpredictable.No matter how the situation maybe.. Moving your properties to your inlaws house if as If you moved your properties to a waste bin site... This is where see finish will start from..

Berankis:
I don't even know what to comment again. I am just coming from a ban. I still have 2more to expire today. I thought Seun wanted our ideas on how to promote Nairaland in the face of AI, little did I know he was only trying to apply Antispam bots, to be banning people for expressing their minds.
This one will drag Nairaland backward, nobody will tell him to do the needful with time...

Carndidlaydid:
Mad man you have no money you are staying at your in-laws place and you still have the guts to say you wanna touch your wife


Anyways iam happy for your family

Obavoh:
The last time I visited my Inlaws my wife’s father and me are from the same plate.

Distance really brings respect. I thank God almighty