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My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Infolenka(op): 1:55pm On Apr 23, 2025
I’ve never been the spiritual type. I don’t believe in ghosts, the supernatural. Or at least, I didn't’ until recently. Something strange has been happening in my house, and it’s making me question everything I thought I knew.

I lost my girlfriend in a tragic accident last November. She was on her way to a friend’s traditional wedding when it happened. I’m not seeing anyone currently, but I have hookup girls visit on the weekends.

Two months ago, I was in the sitting room watching a premier league match when I heard a strange sound coming from the bathroom down the corridor. It sounded like someone moving buckets and rushing tap, almost like someone was washing clothes. That was odd, considering I was home alone.

I got up and walked toward the bathroom. As I approached, the sound abruptly stopped. When I entered, everything seemed normal, except for the dripping tap. It was as if someone had just turned it off a second before I walked in. I assumed it was a plumbing issue and brushed it off. But it kept happening. Not once or twic, more than six times now. And always when I’m home alone.

What haunts me most is that this was the bathroom my ex girlfriend used to wash cloths. She once told me washing clothes helped her relax and helped clear her mind.

But it doesn’t stop there. Sometimes, I come home from work to find my bed made and my clothes folded neatly. At times, the entire house is spotless, like someone had just cleaned it from top to bottom. It got so crazy I installed security cameras to figure out what was going on. Strangely enough, once the cameras were in place, the activity stopped. I left them running for a month. Nothing.

A week after I removed them, everything started up again. My girlfriend was always the type to clean my house and make sure everything is spotless. That's why I think she is the one. I know I sound crazy but that's the only possible explanation.
At night, I hear footsteps in the corridor and living room. Once, while I was on a Zoom call, someone knocked on my bedroom door. I immediately exited the call out of fear . There was no one else in the house.

I’ve considered moving out, but it’s not so simple. I just renewed my rent in January, and with how crazy housing prices have gotten in Lagos, finding another place close to work feels impossible right now.

I don’t know what’s happening. I don’t know if I’m losing it or if something or someone is really still here with me. I never believed in ghosts. But now? I’m not so sure.
If you have any advice, I’d genuinely appreciate it. I just want some peace of mind one way or another.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by shortgun(m): 2:03pm On Apr 23, 2025
There's nothing like ghosts that can interact with physical matter.
They can only speak to you, that is if you know what to do.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by kellystone87: 2:04pm On Apr 23, 2025
lai lai mohamed
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by DemonSlayer: 2:06pm On Apr 23, 2025
Your girlfriend sounds like she was a helpful person while alive. May her soul rest in peace.

Someone is cleaning your house and doing your laundry free of charge and you're disturbed? I’d be thankful. I don’t believe in ghosts, but if they were real and some were friendly, I wouldn't worry about their activities—especially if they were benefiting me.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by TemplarLandry: 2:09pm On Apr 23, 2025
You have soul ties with her. You need deliverance bruh.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Infolenka(op): 2:11pm On Apr 23, 2025
TemplarLandry:
You have soul ties with her. You need deliverance bruh.
One of my friends also suggested the same. Can you recommend where I can get the deliverance done?
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Scarfin(m): 2:12pm On Apr 23, 2025
Most of human beings have chosen ignorance because of fear and lies.
When someone dies they have a chance of taking their second body to return. This second body if it’s hurt or killed, doesn’t have another spare. You’re lucky. Welcome your girlfriend and enjoy life with her instead of harlots. With her second body, she has access to information that will turn you to a king among men, but it’s totally up to you because she loves you.
I don’t know what lies or religion grew you with fear, but next time ask her quietly to show herself to you that you won’t freak out. But first you must open your heart to learn what you didn’t know before and remove fear.
The person in your house is your girlfriend with her second body as designed by God. She loves you deeply. If she wants to hurt you, you’d be gone since. So welcome her.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by lady25(f): 2:14pm On Apr 23, 2025
Infolenka:
One of my friends also suggested the same. Can you recommend where I can get the deliverance done?
MFM ....Mountain of fire and miracles.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by TemplarLandry: 2:17pm On Apr 23, 2025
It's her spirit. Probably she diẹd before her time. She sees you but you don't have spiritual eyes to see her.

Anytime you notice or sense her presence, be bold and tell her to go and rest because you're no longer in the same realm.

Remember to anoint your house by praying in a bowl of water then sprinkle. Spuritually, that water is the Bld of Jesus, contrary spirits can't stand it.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Infolenka(op): 2:20pm On Apr 23, 2025
Scarfin:
Most of human beings have chosen ignorance because of fear and lies.
When someone dies they have a chance of taking their second body to return. This second body if it’s hurt or killed, doesn’t have another spare. You’re lucky. Welcome your girlfriend and enjoy life with her instead of harlots. With her second body, she has access to information that will turn you to a king among men, but it’s totally up to you because she loves you.
I don’t know what lies or religion grew you with fear, but next time ask her quietly to show herself to you that you won’t freak out. But first you must open your heart to learn what you didn’t know before and remove fear.
The person in your house is your girlfriend with her second body as designed by God. She loves you deeply. If she wants to hurt you, you’d be gone since. So welcome her.
How can I welcome her? I can't even see the person doing all this
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by TemplarLandry: 2:21pm On Apr 23, 2025
Grace Nation @ Ojodu Berger. Or any other living church.

Infolenka:
One of my friends also suggested the same. Can you recommend where I can get the deliverance done?
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Scarfin(m): 2:23pm On Apr 23, 2025
TemplarLandry:
You have soul ties with her. You need deliverance bruh.
Deliverance from what or from who?
Jesus came to set the oppressed and possessed free.
Is he oppressed or possessed? He put camera and the person hides because she wants his peaceful consent before he can see her.
Her girl arranges her clothes, show her signs that she loves her and so on.
If Jesus had been born in Nigeria and died and rose in Nigeria, I’m 100% sure any Nigerian He appears to would have fled for their lives and gone for “deliverance”
What you need deliverance from is evil spirit that posses your body not someone trying to communicate and connect with you with good intentions.
You need deliverance from bad government and slave mentality too.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Scarfin(m): 2:25pm On Apr 23, 2025
Infolenka:
How can I welcome her? I can't even see the person doing all this
Good question.
Just speak. She will hear you.
Alternatively, just write it on a paper and paste on wall. Clearly tell her what you want. To show herself to you. But you have to remove fear first so she can believe you.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by opanco: 2:28pm On Apr 23, 2025
She's a good spirit that cares for you. Whenever it happens do not be scared. Mention her name tell her ur aware of her presence and you miss her. Tell her to rest well. Pray for her soul to find some peace. Take some alcohol and pour libation to the ground that her soul should find peace. That she should stop freaking you off. That she should be a layer of protection for you and wish you well. That she should rest well. From time to time pour libation and pray this prayer. It would stop
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Righteousness2(m): 2:36pm On Apr 23, 2025
Go and Embrace JESUS CHRIST.
Cry out for Mercy. Repent from your Sin, Believe and Surrender to JESUS CHRIST as your LORD and Savior.

Give yourself to Live for GOD and his World.
Look out for a Bible Believing Church were you will learn more of GOD and his World.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Scarfin(m): 2:38pm On Apr 23, 2025
opanco:
She's a good spirit that cares for you. Whenever it happens do not be scared. Mention her name tell her ur aware of her presence and you miss her. Tell her to rest well. Pray for her soul to find some peace. Take some alcohol and pour libation to the ground that her soul should find peace. That she should stop freaking you off. That she should be a layer of protection for you and wish you well. That she should rest well. From time to time pour libation and pray this prayer. It would stop
Since she’s a good spirit, why chase her away?🤷🏻‍♂️
What’s the gain in losing her and the loss in having her?
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Naksu: 2:38pm On Apr 23, 2025
You want to welcome her? Does that mean you don't plan on settling down in future? Or do you intend on marrying a ghost. Have you thought about the implications.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Juliearth(f): 2:53pm On Apr 23, 2025
Infolenka:
I’ve never been the spiritual type. I don’t believe in ghosts, the supernatural. Or at least, I didn't’ until recently. Something strange has been happening in my house, and it’s making me question everything I thought I knew.

I lost my girlfriend in a tragic accident last November. She was on her way to a friend’s traditional wedding when it happened. I’m not seeing anyone currently, but I have hookup girls visit on the weekends.

Two months ago, I was in the sitting room watching a premier league match when I heard a strange sound coming from the bathroom down the corridor. It sounded like someone moving buckets and rushing tap, almost like someone was washing clothes. That was odd, considering I was home alone.

I got up and walked toward the bathroom. As I approached, the sound abruptly stopped. When I entered, everything seemed normal, except for the dripping tap. It was as if someone had just turned it off a second before I walked in. I assumed it was a plumbing issue and brushed it off. But it kept happening. Not once or twic, more than six times now. And always when I’m home alone.

What haunts me most is that this was the bathroom my ex girlfriend used to wash cloths. She once told me washing clothes helped her relax and helped clear her mind.

But it doesn’t stop there. Sometimes, I come home from work to find my bed made and my clothes folded neatly. At times, the entire house is spotless, like someone had just cleaned it from top to bottom. It got so crazy I installed security cameras to figure out what was going on. Strangely enough, once the cameras were in place, the activity stopped. I left them running for a month. Nothing.

A week after I removed them, everything started up again. My girlfriend was always the type to clean my house and make sure everything is spotless. That's why I think she is the one. I know I sound crazy but that's the only possible explanation.
At night, I hear footsteps in the corridor and living room. Once, while I was on a Zoom call, someone knocked on my bedroom door. I immediately exited the call out of fear . There was no one else in the house.

I’ve considered moving out, but it’s not so simple. I just renewed my rent in January, and with how crazy housing prices have gotten in Lagos, finding another place close to work feels impossible right now.

I don’t know what’s happening. I don’t know if I’m losing it or if something or someone is really still here with me. I never believed in ghosts. But now? I’m not so sure.
If you have any advice, I’d genuinely appreciate it. I just want some peace of mind one way or another.
First of all, sorry for the loss of your girlfriend. It's obvious the bond between you two was strong, hence these occurrences. It's possible she has not come to terms with her current reality. Her soul is still bound to earth and would remain so until after 40 to 60 days. Whenever you notice such strange occurrences, you may want to nicely tell her that she is no more and needs to rest.


There seems to be a tie between you two. Thus, you can bring a man of God to pray over your house, break that tie and also talk to her spirit.


If any of her properties are in your house, please take them back to hers or dispose them. Also dispose any item that she is fond of.


Need I also add that moving houses would be a total waste of time.


All the best!
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Juliearth(f): 3:01pm On Apr 23, 2025
Infolenka:
How can I welcome her? I can't even see the person doing all this
Please disregard that comment. Don't welcome problems into your home.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Juliearth(f): 3:04pm On Apr 23, 2025
Scarfin:
Since she’s a good spirit, why chase her away?🤷🏻‍♂️
What’s the gain in losing her and the loss in having her?
God created snakes, Lions, etc. Do we welcome them into our homes because they are God's creations? The living and the dead do not operate on the same realm. Welcoming someone from the other realm would bring nothing but death. Op cannot bring her back to life, but she can claim his life so they can be together.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Babangidapikin: 3:12pm On Apr 23, 2025
Stop being Afraid, she is a friendly ghost, just acknowledge her presence when she is around and keep your cool ... She just need company, pending when she can move to the other side . It's possible you have an assignment to do on her behalf, like pray for her . That's why when people die, it's very important you pray for them immediately to be in the best place in paradise, instead of wailing or preparing for funeral.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Nobody: 3:21pm On Apr 23, 2025
Juliearth:
Please disregard that comment. Don't welcome problems into your home.
did you even know or ask him maybe he use his gf for ritual
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Rexymania(m): 3:45pm On Apr 23, 2025
Send me her picture let me see if I can pray for you
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Bruno3000(m): 3:47pm On Apr 23, 2025
Infolenka:
One of my friends also suggested the same. Can you recommend where I can get the deliverance done?
mfm
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Luckysbab: 3:52pm On Apr 23, 2025
Why exactly did you remove the camera you allegedly installed after just a month?

What was the motive for taking it out again?
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Coder2Client(m): 3:53pm On Apr 23, 2025
Hollywood movies have done terrible things on our minds.

I saw a movie last week "hunt in Connecticut" the story sounds similar to yours.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Infolenka(op): 3:53pm On Apr 23, 2025
Luckysbab:
Why exactly did you remove the camera you allegedly installed after just a month?

What was the motive for taking it out again?
To see if the weird happenings will continue
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Myrepublic(m): 4:07pm On Apr 23, 2025
Oga if you didn't kill her,then you have nothing to worry about. Sha don't go to any spiritual house,they will only chop your money for cleansing o. Just do personal prayers at mid night. After which,you call her name.. Tell her to rest in peace,and stop wondering.. Na untimely death,na why she dey wonder around... May her soul rest in peace

And if the camera will stop the drama,Oga put them back ..
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Dogalmighty17: 4:09pm On Apr 23, 2025
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Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Antwan9(m): 4:11pm On Apr 23, 2025
I need to experience this in one way or the other else, I'll keep believing they are fairytales.
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