xendra:
mctheww... if she was d one you met tattered, with bad skin and wearing rags will you go for her.... don't expect people to do for you what what you won't do for them.

Curvinus:
Learn to play by the rules bro. Women are biologically hard wired to detect a man with the best genetics for procreation or the one who can consistently bring home the proverbial beacon. This is as result of millions years of genetic coding and you cannot simply wish away this firmware by feeling sorry for yourself or bitching about its impropriety.

In the case of Naija, most families are poor and the girls are both pressured and conditioned to seek out a man with the prospect of greener pastures.

If you don't have money, at least you should try to be the best version of yourself by going to the gym and dressing smart.

xendra:
mctheww... if she was d one you met tattered, with bad skin and wearing rags will you go for her.... don't expect people to do for you what what you won't do for them.

FuckTheM0ds:
It is with great sorrow and lugubriousness that i create this topic due to the egregious behaviour of our teenage girls and adult ladies in nigeria.
Well here goes my story:
i actually met up with this girl, she is of an immense beauty though. She was my junior colleague back then in school cos we studied the same course.
I met her yesterday in the noon and i called on her, greeted her but she pretended as if she never knew me all because i was tattered and unkempt in my appearance.
Ever since i left school, i have been in the hustling field. My skin has been exposed to the destructive ultra violet rays of the scorching sun and i lost all my freshness and virtually became as dark as a charcoal (dont laugh me pls cos it shall be well with the righteous).
So i was cutting grass and weeding the overgrown weeds for a neighbour and this girl i stated earlier passed by, i had to approach her and re-introduced my self again to her and transport her brain back to memory lane and even though she remembered but you could see the way she observed my body, skin, dressing, hair, side face, cheeks, legs, finger nails, toes and all the parts of my body to deduce if i am "fresh, rich and handsome" and when she observed that from my looks i have really hustle and suffered, she snubbed me and refused giving me her contacts and majestically walked out of me.
I was befuddled by her abysmall and appaling behaviour, i was downcasted and i later summed up courage.
This was a girl that used to have a pre-ference, pre-disposition and predilection for me but now she snubbed me all because i aint fresh again.
Conclusively, i really wanna confirm my assertions by adducing that all naija girls are the same due to their low mentality.
Does she think that its over with me? There is still a bright and luminous future ahead. Seeing a young guy with potentials trying to hustle for a low standard of living doesn't necessarily means that its over with him. Girls take note

UIA04:
Pheww

And and the ranting continues....


@op are you just realizing that people women bow to the rising sun

payman:
madam abeg wen do u intend to get sense?keep supporting d stupid girl's actions u hear.i can bet my left ball that d guy even earns more than ur daddy...if u knw u knw

xendra:
who born dis one you just wake up I doubt you even know how to read, how much more comprehend

payman:

knowing hw to read isnt so important to me,neither is comprehending...and as for who born me,na confirm olosho like u.bt the fact that u r able to read my previous comment and even reply me shows that i hav been able to express myself well to a numbskull.for me,that is a great achievement. i can never wish for more

xendra:
mctheww... if she was d one you met tattered, with bad skin and wearing rags will you go for her.... don't expect people to do for you what what you won't do for them.

whisper to your ears, telling you how BEAUTIFUL you are.

xendra:
obviously ......SMH

Tombrown3:
Naija girls will never get sense!

I blame poverty and the kind of environment they are brought up and things they see on Nollywood though.

That reminds me of a final year chic I had an affair with when I was in first year, just because I told her I was a graduate and waiting for clearance.


Lol,

Long story short,

that girl has been asking me what am still doing in school till now.


NB: when I approached her, her first question was "what level are you? " so I packaged the lie instantly, thanks to my final year roomy who helped me finish work.

Nonsense people.

NevetsIbot:
dude.... Relax. Free the babe. When you are well to do... You'll be fresh again. Those kind of girls end up being the wife of a 'wife beater'

Biglittlelois:



What you said doesnt correlate, op is talking about physical appearance, your own is you lied to get a final year student, now what has poverty, environment and nollywood movies got to do here be sincere to yourself, if the girl was the tattered looking one, would you look at her, or approach her??