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Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Starhearts: 4:15pm On Apr 23, 2025
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Give yourself to Live for GOD and his World.
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Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Starhearts: 4:15pm On Apr 23, 2025
Righteousness2:
Go and Embrace JESUS CHRIST.
Cry out for Mercy. Repent from your Sin, Believe and Surrender to JESUS CHRIST as your LORD and Savior.

Give yourself to Live for GOD and his World.
Look out for a Bible Believing Church were you will learn more of GOD and his World.
Who knack u hammer 🔨 4 head
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by kushercain: 4:18pm On Apr 23, 2025
Scarfin:
Since she’s a good spirit, why chase her away?🤷🏻‍♂️
What’s the gain in losing her and the loss in having her?
But would he be able to have another relationship? Wouldn't that lead to issues and maybe turn her from good to jealous evil tho?
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by sharpwriter(m): 4:46pm On Apr 23, 2025
Juliearth:
Please disregard that comment. Don't welcome problems into your home.
kiss kiss kiss
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by sharpwriter(m): 4:50pm On Apr 23, 2025
Antwan9:
I need to experience this in one way or the other else, I'll keep believing they are fairytales.
These experiences are real but not pleasant. When they start happening, you'll understand better the meaning of paranormal and real life horror movie grin
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by dederocs(m): 4:53pm On Apr 23, 2025
Mind over matter, your mind is playing tricks on you, it's because you are really fond of her.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by olamilekan9(m): 4:55pm On Apr 23, 2025
are you sure she is fully dead? try to find out, who knows she might be half dead half alive somehow
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Mrforexlord: 4:59pm On Apr 23, 2025
I'm buying old bids for my art work, bid must be very old as shown in the picture.

Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Luckysbab: 5:07pm On Apr 23, 2025
Infolenka:
To see if the weird happenings will continue
Just put it back.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Luckysbab: 5:07pm On Apr 23, 2025
Mrforexlord:
I'm buying old bids for my art work, bid must be very old as shown in the picture.
Bids or beads?
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by CJStarz: 5:28pm On Apr 23, 2025
Infolenka:
I’ve never been the spiritual type. I don’t believe in ghosts, the supernatural. Or at least, I didn't’ until recently. Something strange has been happening in my house, and it’s making me question everything I thought I knew.

I lost my girlfriend in a tragic accident last November. She was on her way to a friend’s traditional wedding when it happened. I’m not seeing anyone currently, but I have hookup girls visit on the weekends.

Two months ago, I was in the sitting room watching a premier league match when I heard a strange sound coming from the bathroom down the corridor. It sounded like someone moving buckets and rushing tap, almost like someone was washing clothes. That was odd, considering I was home alone.

I got up and walked toward the bathroom. As I approached, the sound abruptly stopped. When I entered, everything seemed normal, except for the dripping tap. It was as if someone had just turned it off a second before I walked in. I assumed it was a plumbing issue and brushed it off. But it kept happening. Not once or twic, more than six times now. And always when I’m home alone.

What haunts me most is that this was the bathroom my ex girlfriend used to wash cloths. She once told me washing clothes helped her relax and helped clear her mind.

But it doesn’t stop there. Sometimes, I come home from work to find my bed made and my clothes folded neatly. At times, the entire house is spotless, like someone had just cleaned it from top to bottom. It got so crazy I installed security cameras to figure out what was going on. Strangely enough, once the cameras were in place, the activity stopped. I left them running for a month. Nothing.

A week after I removed them, everything started up again. My girlfriend was always the type to clean my house and make sure everything is spotless. That's why I think she is the one. I know I sound crazy but that's the only possible explanation.
At night, I hear footsteps in the corridor and living room. Once, while I was on a Zoom call, someone knocked on my bedroom door. I immediately exited the call out of fear . There was no one else in the house.

I’ve considered moving out, but it’s not so simple. I just renewed my rent in January, and with how crazy housing prices have gotten in Lagos, finding another place close to work feels impossible right now.

I don’t know what’s happening. I don’t know if I’m losing it or if something or someone is really still here with me. I never believed in ghosts. But now? I’m not so sure.
If you have any advice, I’d genuinely appreciate it. I just want some peace of mind one way or another.
Use the Name and Blood of Jesus Christ and cover yourself and your environment. Don't let fear eat you up.
The Power in the Blood of Jesus Christ disperses every darkness.
Fear not!
Resist the devil and he will FLEE from you.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Starboytwo(m): 6:19pm On Apr 23, 2025
Ask for sure 5 odds if she truly love you...

As for me, na run I go run bro...
I no want see anything or hear anything abnormal. Ejoor.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Sirhush(m): 7:02pm On Apr 23, 2025
Babangidapikin:
Stop being Afraid, she is a friendly ghost, just acknowledge her presence when she is around and keep your cool ... She just need company, pending when she can move to the other side . It's possible you have an assignment to do on her behalf, like pray for her . That's why when people die, it's very important you pray for them immediately to be in the best place in paradise, instead of wailing or preparing for funeral.
good point ☝️
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by isan(m): 7:09pm On Apr 23, 2025
It's hallucination
Antwan9:
I need to experience this in one way or the other else, I'll keep believing they are fairytales.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by frozen70(f): 7:13pm On Apr 23, 2025
Infolenka:
I’ve never been the spiritual type. I don’t believe in ghosts, the supernatural. Or at least, I didn't’ until recently. Something strange has been happening in my house, and it’s making me question everything I thought I knew.

I lost my girlfriend in a tragic accident last November. She was on her way to a friend’s traditional wedding when it happened. I’m not seeing anyone currently, but I have hookup girls visit on the weekends.

Two months ago, I was in the sitting room watching a premier league match when I heard a strange sound coming from the bathroom down the corridor. It sounded like someone moving buckets and rushing tap, almost like someone was washing clothes. That was odd, considering I was home alone.

I got up and walked toward the bathroom. As I approached, the sound abruptly stopped. When I entered, everything seemed normal, except for the dripping tap. It was as if someone had just turned it off a second before I walked in. I assumed it was a plumbing issue and brushed it off. But it kept happening. Not once or twic, more than six times now. And always when I’m home alone.

What haunts me most is that this was the bathroom my ex girlfriend used to wash cloths. She once told me washing clothes helped her relax and helped clear her mind.

But it doesn’t stop there. Sometimes, I come home from work to find my bed made and my clothes folded neatly. At times, the entire house is spotless, like someone had just cleaned it from top to bottom. It got so crazy I installed security cameras to figure out what was going on. Strangely enough, once the cameras were in place, the activity stopped. I left them running for a month. Nothing.

A week after I removed them, everything started up again. My girlfriend was always the type to clean my house and make sure everything is spotless. That's why I think she is the one. I know I sound crazy but that's the only possible explanation.
At night, I hear footsteps in the corridor and living room. Once, while I was on a Zoom call, someone knocked on my bedroom door. I immediately exited the call out of fear . There was no one else in the house.

I’ve considered moving out, but it’s not so simple. I just renewed my rent in January, and with how crazy housing prices have gotten in Lagos, finding another place close to work feels impossible right now.

I don’t know what’s happening. I don’t know if I’m losing it or if something or someone is really still here with me. I never believed in ghosts. But now? I’m not so sure.
If you have any advice, I’d genuinely appreciate it. I just want some peace of mind one way or another.
At this point look no further, she is probably the one, trying to come and do her chores but being a spirit, she can't come back

I will suggest you visit her grave site with flowers and appeal to her that death have separated both of you and you want her to take this flower and stop frightening you as you have moved on that if it was possible, you could have prevented her death, but it happened far away from you.

If you don't know where her burial ground is, you can contact her parents and inform them of your experience, so that you can separate yourself from her

Very soon she may be coming for fun and you may loose guard and fall into it
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Treadway: 8:35pm On Apr 23, 2025
Lies.

There is no human being on this earth that would stay Ina house where weird shit was happening. Talk another one abeg.


The bed makes itself, and you're not in shock.

Nonsense and ingredients
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Kobojunkie: 9:00pm On Apr 23, 2025
Infolenka:
➜What haunts me most is that this was the bathroom my ex girlfriend used to wash cloths. She once told me washing clothes helped her relax and helped clear her mind.
But it doesn’t stop there. Sometimes, I come home from work to find my bed made and my clothes folded neatly. At times, the entire house is spotless, like someone had just cleaned it from top to bottom. It got so crazy I installed security cameras to figure out what was going on. Strangely enough, once the cameras were in place, the activity stopped. I left them running for a month. Nothing.
A week after I removed them, everything started up again. My girlfriend was always the type to clean my house and make sure everything is spotless. That's why I think she is the one. I know I sound crazy but that's the only possible explanation.
At night, I hear footsteps in the corridor and living room. Once, while I was on a Zoom call, someone knocked on my bedroom door. I immediately exited the call out of fear . There was no one else in the house.
I’ve considered moving out, but it’s not so simple. I just renewed my rent in January, and with how crazy housing prices have gotten in Lagos, finding another place close to work feels impossible right now.
I don’t know what’s happening. I don’t know if I’m losing it or if something or someone is really still here with me. I never believed in ghosts. But now? I’m not so sure.If you have any advice, I’d genuinely appreciate it. I just want some peace of mind one way or another
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Op, I am afraid the problem is not linked to your galfriend but to you; your mind merely uses the hallucinations to help you better cope with that which you probably aren't ready to deal with or accept. Please make an appointment immediately to see a professional mental health psychologist or psychiatrist. And work with the therapist to ensure you get past this trauma that seems to have taken control of you life this while. undecided
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Kobojunkie: 9:01pm On Apr 23, 2025
DemonSlayer:
➜Your girlfriend sounds like she was a helpful person while alive. May her soul rest in peace.
Someone is cleaning your house and doing your laundry free of charge and you're disturbed? I’d be thankful. I don’t believe in ghosts, but if they were real and some were friendly, I wouldn't worry about their activities—especially if they were benefiting me.
Thankful to a potential home invader? Are you for real? undecided
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Kobojunkie: 9:02pm On Apr 23, 2025
Infolenka:
➜One of my friends also suggested the same. Can you recommend where I can get the deliverance done?
So, because your friend said it, it must be true? Are you people OK? huh
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Kobojunkie: 9:04pm On Apr 23, 2025
opanco:
➜She's a good spirit that cares for you. Whenever it happens do not be scared. Mention her name tell her ur aware of her presence and you miss her. Tell her to rest well. Pray for her soul to find some peace. Take some alcohol and pour libation to the ground that her soul should find peace. That she should stop freaking you off. That she should be a layer of protection for you and wish you well. That she should rest well. From time to time pour libation and pray this prayer. It would stop
A good spirit because OP said rather than staying dead, she supposedly comes back to continue cleaning his house like some sort of slave? Are you people OK? huh
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Cocolatti(m): 9:05pm On Apr 23, 2025
Familiar spirit at work.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Kobojunkie: 9:06pm On Apr 23, 2025
Cocolatti:
Familiar spirit at work.
In 2025, you still believe in such nonsense? Kai! If we ask you for proof now, una go begin to spin dem-say-dem-say tales all over the place! 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by DemonSlayer: 9:07pm On Apr 23, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Thankful to a potential home invader? Are you for real? undecided
Kobo, she's a Ghost that does laundry and clean. How bad can that be? 🤷🏾‍♂️
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Cocolatti(m): 9:08pm On Apr 23, 2025
Kobojunkie:
In 2025, you still believe in such nonsense? Kai! If we ask you for proof now, una go begin to spin dem-say-dem-say tales all over the place! 🙄🙄🙄🙄
I also read your comment up there. What makes you think you are right and am wrong?
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Kobojunkie: 9:11pm On Apr 23, 2025
DemonSlayer:
➜Kobo, she's a Ghost that does laundry and clean. How bad can that be? 🤷🏾‍♂️
Op never said in his write-up that he ever in fact saw a ghost doing his laundry or cleaning his house, though. huh
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Kobojunkie: 9:12pm On Apr 23, 2025
Cocolatti:
I also read your comment up there. What makes you think you are right and am wrong?
Have you ever before met a familiar spirit and seen it doing your laundry or cleaning your house? huh
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by AgainstIslam: 9:12pm On Apr 23, 2025
Wow!
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Kobojunkie: 9:13pm On Apr 23, 2025
Treadway:
Lies. There is no human being on this earth that would stay Ina house where weird shit was happening. Talk another one abeg. The bed makes itself, and you're not in shock. Nonsense and ingredients
Goood point! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by DemonSlayer: 9:14pm On Apr 23, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Op never said in his write-up that he ever in fact saw a ghost doing his laundry or cleaning his house, though. huh
It is implied.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Kobojunkie: 9:16pm On Apr 23, 2025
DemonSlayer:
➜It is implied.
It may seem that way, but he stopped short of doing that, leaving it up to you. Do you not see it? grin

Two possibilities here: OP either has some psychological issues which he refuses to address, or someone may, in fact, be visiting his home while he is away. I lean towards the first, though. undecided
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Cocolatti(m): 9:16pm On Apr 23, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Have you ever before met a familiar spirit and seen it doing your laundry or cleaning your house? huh
Yes
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by DemonSlayer: 9:17pm On Apr 23, 2025
Kobojunkie:
A good spirit because OP said rather than staying dead, she supposedly comes back to continue cleaning his house like some sort of slave? Are you people OK? huh
You read the part where OP said she enjoyed doing laundry and said it helps her clear her head, didn't you?
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