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Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by DemonSlayer: 9:17pm On Apr 23, 2025
Cocolatti:
Yes
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Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Kobojunkie: 9:19pm On Apr 23, 2025
Cocolatti:
Yes
So, tell us exactly how a familiar spirit ended up coming to do laundry and clean your home, not the home of others or even your neighbors. undecided
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Kobojunkie: 9:20pm On Apr 23, 2025
DemonSlayer:
➜You read the part where OP said she enjoyed doing laundry and said it helps her clear her head, didn't you?
That was when she was alive, though. He never said he saw her come back after her death to do laundry and clean his home. undecided

Also, why would a dead person need to come back to do laundry to clear her head? Of what? Maggots? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Cocolatti(m): 9:21pm On Apr 23, 2025
Kobojunkie:
So, tell us exactly how a familiar spirit ended up coming to do laundry and clean your home, not the home of others or even your neighbors. undecided
read the Ops story again you will have a clue
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by DemonSlayer: 9:23pm On Apr 23, 2025
Kobojunkie:
That was when she was alive, though. He never said he saw her come back after her death to do laundry and clean his home. undecided

Also, why would a dead person need to come back to do laundry to clear her head? Of what? Maggots? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Hilarious!

Can you blame her? It gets boring laying in that box doing nothing all day everyday.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Kobojunkie: 9:24pm On Apr 23, 2025
Cocolatti:
read the Ops story again you will have a clue
OP's actually never said he saw his dead girlfriend doing laundry or cleaning his house. You, however, claim you have seen a familiar spirit doing those things in your own home. So, go ahead and tell us more of what you saw. undecided
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Cocolatti(m): 9:29pm On Apr 23, 2025
Kobojunkie:
OP's actually never said he saw his dead girlfriend doing laundry or cleaning his house. You, however, claim you have seen a familiar spirit doing those things in your own home. So, go ahead and tell us more of what you saw. undecided
What do you want to know again?
It is my experience and not yours. The problem is you don't believe in familiar spirits and I do. We can keep arguing till 2031 and nothing will come of it.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Kobojunkie: 9:34pm On Apr 23, 2025
Cocolatti:
➜What do you want to know again? It is my experience and not yours. The problem is you don't believe in familiar spirits and I do. We can keep arguing till 2031 and nothing will come of it.
So, I first have to believe in these familiar spirits before you can then tell me of this experience of yours where you saw a live familiar spirit doing your laundry and cleaning your house? Isn't that convenient? undecided
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by shinaola21(m): 9:40pm On Apr 23, 2025
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Op make I send my address so that she'll come and watch my clothes and plate dat I've use for 2 month,I too lazy to do am na dis kain of spirit I like 😁

Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Cocolatti(m): 9:42pm On Apr 23, 2025
Kobojunkie:
So, I first have to believe in these familiar spirits before you can then tell me of this experience of yours where you saw a live familiar spirit doing your laundry and cleaning your house? Isn't that convenient? undecided
You claimed that the Ops experience is hallucination so sharing my experience won't change your opinion. Like I said earlier, you don't believe in it but I do. QED
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by DemonSlayer: 9:42pm On Apr 23, 2025
Kobojunkie:
It may seem that way, but he stopped short of doing that, leaving it up to you. Do you not see it? grin

Two possibilities here: OP either has some psychological issues which he refuses to address, or someone may, in fact, be visiting his home while he is away. I lean towards the first, though. undecided
I agree—you always have the most reasonable take, such a good head you've got on your shoulders. But could there be a third possibility where OP is just catching cruise?
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Kobojunkie: 9:43pm On Apr 23, 2025
Cocolatti:
➜You claimed that the Ops experience is hallucination so sharing my experience won't change your opinion. Like I said earlier, you don't believe in it but I do. QED
Oh, please! 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Cocolatti(m): 9:45pm On Apr 23, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Oh, please! 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Better
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Kobojunkie: 9:45pm On Apr 23, 2025
DemonSlayer:
➜I agree—you always have the most reasonable take, such a good head you've got on your shoulders. But could there be a third possibility where OP is just catching cruise?
There is that, of course. But given the fact that we are Nigerians after all, I think the story may be linked directly to either OP or someone around him. We like to pass on these dem-say-dem-say tales, which really are kinda sorta connected to someone down the line. grin
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by DemonSlayer: 9:50pm On Apr 23, 2025
shinaola21:
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Op make I send my address so that she'll come and watch my clothes and plate dat I've use for 2 month,I too lazy to do am na dis kain of spirit I like 😁
Ghost wey get work ethics pass the living. E reach to open business for her oo; Ghostina Cleaning Services Ltd ...your space, spiritually cleaned to perfection.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by shinaola21(m): 9:53pm On Apr 23, 2025
DemonSlayer:
Ghost wey get work ethics pass the living. E reach to open business for her oo; Ghostina Cleaning Services Ltd ...your space, spiritually cleaned to perfection.
Omo we go make money from am since say no be me dey wash am 😂

Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Ruke1991: 10:07pm On Apr 23, 2025
Infolenka:
One of my friends also suggested the same. Can you recommend where I can get the deliverance done?
Quit olosho patronage that's the corridor those demons used to infiltrate your life. Without that no deliverance is possible
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by 49cents(m): 10:22pm On Apr 23, 2025
Righteousness2:
Go and Embrace JESUS CHRIST.
Cry out for Mercy. Repent from your Sin, Believe and Surrender to JESUS CHRIST as your LORD and Savior.

Give yourself to Live for GOD and his World.
Look out for a Bible Believing Church were you will learn more of GOD and his World.
Your pastor lost his wife despite all the apron he made all of you wear all this years...
His son is always with Mopol in his jeep but you guys put on apron for protection...aren't you plain stupid really
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by honour7: 10:56pm On Apr 23, 2025
Infolenka:
I’ve never been the spiritual type. I don’t believe in ghosts, the supernatural. Or at least, I didn't’ until recently. Something strange has been happening in my house, and it’s making me question everything I thought I knew.

I lost my girlfriend in a tragic accident last November. She was on her way to a friend’s traditional wedding when it happened. I’m not seeing anyone currently, but I have hookup girls visit on the weekends.

Two months ago, I was in the sitting room watching a premier league match when I heard a strange sound coming from the bathroom down the corridor. It sounded like someone moving buckets and rushing tap, almost like someone was washing clothes. That was odd, considering I was home alone.

I got up and walked toward the bathroom. As I approached, the sound abruptly stopped. When I entered, everything seemed normal, except for the dripping tap. It was as if someone had just turned it off a second before I walked in. I assumed it was a plumbing issue and brushed it off. But it kept happening. Not once or twic, more than six times now. And always when I’m home alone.

What haunts me most is that this was the bathroom my ex girlfriend used to wash cloths. She once told me washing clothes helped her relax and helped clear her mind.

But it doesn’t stop there. Sometimes, I come home from work to find my bed made and my clothes folded neatly. At times, the entire house is spotless, like someone had just cleaned it from top to bottom. It got so crazy I installed security cameras to figure out what was going on. Strangely enough, once the cameras were in place, the activity stopped. I left them running for a month. Nothing.

A week after I removed them, everything started up again. My girlfriend was always the type to clean my house and make sure everything is spotless. That's why I think she is the one. I know I sound crazy but that's the only possible explanation.
At night, I hear footsteps in the corridor and living room. Once, while I was on a Zoom call, someone knocked on my bedroom door. I immediately exited the call out of fear . There was no one else in the house.

I’ve considered moving out, but it’s not so simple. I just renewed my rent in January, and with how crazy housing prices have gotten in Lagos, finding another place close to work feels impossible right now.

If you have any advice, I’d genuinely appreciate it. I just want some peace of mind one way or another.
I have seen this before, You two made a blood oat, am I correct, if so, you have to call your parents you all should go to the village and perform some rites to break it. If you don't, the other one i saw too, the guy later died when he got married to another person, you have to be careful and break it before entering into any other relationship or marriage.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by KillahPriest: 1:15am On Apr 24, 2025
shortgun:
There's nothing like ghosts that can interact with physical matter.
They can only speak to you, that is if you know what to do.
lol grin okay
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Kobojunkie: 1:31am On Apr 24, 2025
honour7:
➜I have seen this before, You two made a blood oat, am I correct, if so, you have to call your parents you all should go to the village and perform some rites to break it. If you don't, the other one i saw too, the guy later died when he got married to another person, you have to be careful and break it before entering into any other relationship or marriage.
You have seen it before because it happened to you, right? Can you please tell us exactly how the ghost came into your house, all the way from the grave, to your home with your house key, I presume? undecided
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by MrDoGood(m): 2:32am On Apr 24, 2025
You installed CCTV and later removed it. Who does that? Did you rent the CCTV? 😂
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Ruke1991: 2:39am On Apr 24, 2025
Ruke1991:
Quit olosho patronage that's the corridor those demons used to infiltrate your life. Without that no deliverance is possible
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by QuinQ: 3:11am On Apr 24, 2025
Scarfin:
Most of human beings have chosen ignorance because of fear and lies.
When someone dies they have a chance of taking their second body to return. This second body if it’s hurt or killed, doesn’t have another spare. You’re lucky. Welcome your girlfriend and enjoy life with her instead of harlots. With her second body, she has access to information that will turn you to a king among men, but it’s totally up to you because she loves you.
I don’t know what lies or religion grew you with fear, but next time ask her quietly to show herself to you that you won’t freak out. But first you must open your heart to learn what you didn’t know before and remove fear.
The person in your house is your girlfriend with her second body as designed by God. She loves you deeply. If she wants to hurt you, you’d be gone since. So welcome her.
Do you EVER sit down and ask yourself HOW people who told you all these things know it?
Just because something sounds good or logical doesn't mean it is true. Yet you believe it without any iota of questioning
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by kingthreat(m): 4:45am On Apr 24, 2025
Antwan9:
I need to experience this in one way or the other else, I'll keep believing they are fairytales.
Ask a real estate agent in outskirt areas for haunted houses. They will hook you up to one. Or live in areas close to mortuaries. Hope you have a wonderful experience. grin
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by BlackyOne: 7:30am On Apr 24, 2025
TemplarLandry:
It's her spirit. Probably she diẹd before her time. She sees you but you don't have spiritual eyes to see her.

Anytime you notice or sense her presence, be bold and tell her to go and rest because you're no longer in the same realm.

Remember to anoint your house by praying in a bowl of water then sprinkle. Spuritually, that water is the Bld of Jesus, contrary spirits can't stand it.
Nor go tell her waiting she go take vex for you ooo.

Just tell her say u need money wen pass Dangote own or you go break up with her ghost grin
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by papyjaypaul: 7:57am On Apr 24, 2025
Scarfin:
Most of human beings have chosen ignorance because of fear and lies.
When someone dies they have a chance of taking their second body to return. This second body if it’s hurt or killed, doesn’t have another spare. You’re lucky. Welcome your girlfriend and enjoy life with her instead of harlots. With her second body, she has access to information that will turn you to a king among men, but it’s totally up to you because she loves you.
I don’t know what lies or religion grew you with fear, but next time ask her quietly to show herself to you that you won’t freak out. But first you must open your heart to learn what you didn’t know before and remove fear.
The person in your house is your girlfriend with her second body as designed by God. She loves you deeply. If she wants to hurt you, you’d be gone since. So welcome her.
I like how this comment got another comment as reply

Naksu:
You want to welcome her? Does that mean you don't plan on settling down in future? Or do you intend on marrying a ghost. Have you thought about the implications.
It's when he wants to marry someone the world can see that he will know that ghosts have feelings too. She won't allow him enjoy life and only him can enjoy her company. Nothing goes for nothing. Either you enjoy her and her spirit world that only him can see or she destroys him till he joins her in the world beyond. Everyone else will see him as mad because he can see what they cannot see. What kind of life is that? You only live once, you only die once, choose one.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by Mom007(f): 8:18am On Apr 24, 2025
Infolenka:
One of my friends also suggested the same. Can you recommend where I can get the deliverance done?
Don't start looking for what is not lost, don't let fake pastors begin to milk you, or even open the door to more problems for you.

You CAN deliver yourself. Pray to God and ask HIM to forgive you for living a life of fornication with that young lady, who I assure you, is sleeping in death, awaiting her resurrection and judgement to the lake of Fire. Theres no more hope for her but there is still hope for you, because you are still living. Ask HIM to forgive you and help you forsake your sins and begin to live right for HIM. Also ask that HE drives out the opportunistic demons who are taking advantage of your culpability to torment you and invade your life, because my dear brother, those entities in your house are not your late gf but demons aka familiar spirits. Follow up with reading your Bible for at least 30mins to 1hr daily as a covenant between you and God. Always start and end with prayers. Do this and you will begin to experience a sudden shift in every aspect of your life.

Do not carry out any form of deliverance on yourself or your apartment if you know you are not ready to forsake the evil of fornication that brought you into this problem in the first place because as the bible said, demons tend to return to the places they were driven out from and if there is no Holy spirit living in that house upon their return, they invade that place with demons 7 times stronger than themselves and your fate would become worse than it is now.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by mecuries(m): 8:21am On Apr 24, 2025
TemplarLandry:
You have soul ties with her. You need deliverance bruh.
In order for gods of men to cash out, right?
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by DelilahMakinde(f): 8:22am On Apr 24, 2025
Scarfin:
Most of human beings have chosen ignorance because of fear and lies.
When someone dies they have a chance of taking their second body to return. This second body if it’s hurt or killed, doesn’t have another spare. You’re lucky. Welcome your girlfriend and enjoy life with her instead of harlots. With her second body, she has access to information that will turn you to a king among men, but it’s totally up to you because she loves you.
I don’t know what lies or religion grew you with fear, but next time ask her quietly to show herself to you that you won’t freak out. But first you must open your heart to learn what you didn’t know before and remove fear.
The person in your house is your girlfriend with her second body as designed by God. She loves you deeply. If she wants to hurt you, you’d be gone since. So welcome her.
Akudaya never show themselves to anyone in their previous life..... It will never happen. He needs deliverance.
Re: My Late Girlfriend Still Visits Me And I'm Losing My Mind by honour7: 8:27am On Apr 24, 2025
Kobojunkie:
You have seen it before because it happened to you, right? Can you please tell us exactly how the ghost came into your house, all the way from the grave, to your home with your house key, I presume? undecided
If you don't have problem, you can see were i wrote the person also died after marrying someone else.

To answer your question the guy before he died always says the wife visits him in his dream and at times falls into trance seeing the wife telling him he promised forever.
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