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Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by Toymax88(op): 7:58pm On Apr 24, 2025
Good evening, ma


Is it possible to file for divorce through Ministry of Women affairs and social inclusions?


I have been manipulated by my "wife", in quote because I didn't pay her bride price, I did an introduction and they collected an EMPIRE BASKET full of fruits

We had 3 children together but my wife is JOBLESS and DESTRUCTIVE at the same time (double tragedy) I had set up a business for her on 3 different occasions but failed, I even sold my car and gave her the money without taking a dime.

We had a misunderstanding on 26/11/2024 and she went to bring civil defense officers to my place of work, on 27th/11/2024 I sent her packing.

They are currently at BARIKA, UI second gate, Ibadan, living with the grandmother. I told her to enrol the children in public schools in IBADAN, I gave her #30,200 in addition to 50 exercise books, school bag, 5kg rice, SALLAH clothe, school sandals. The items were sent through a commercial driver but she lied. I went to IBADAN on 18/4/2025 only to discovered that the children are not in school, they are helping the grandmother to sell OGOGORO in her shop.

I knelt down and begged the grandmother several times, I left IBADAN around 7:20pm and arrived ILORIN around 11:37pm due to heavy downpour. The grandmother is not responding to calls from my family members, even as I speak

I went to SANGO police station but I was told to go to the ministry of women affairs and social inclusions.

A date has been fixed 5/5/2025. I want the children to be enrolled in public schools and I will be sending the necessary writing materials and school fees through the School principal and class teachers

Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by Nobody: 8:08pm On Apr 24, 2025
grin
Toymax88:
Good evening, ma


Is it possible to file for divorce through Ministry of Women affairs and social inclusions?


I have been manipulated by my "wife", in quote because I didn't pay her bride price, I did an introduction and they collected an EMPIRE BASKET full of fruits

We had 3 children together but my wife is JOBLESS and DESTRUCTIVE at the same time (double tragedy) I had set up a business for her on 3 different occasions but failed, I even sold my car and gave her the money without taking a dime.

We had a misunderstanding on 26/11/2024 and she went to bring civil defense officers to my place of work, on 27th/11/2024 I sent her packing.

They are currently at BARIKA, UI second gate, Ibadan, living with the grandmother. I told her to enrol the children in public schools in IBADAN, I gave her #30,200 in addition to 50 exercise books, school bag, 5kg rice, SALLAH clothe, school sandals. The items were sent through a commercial driver but she lied. I went to IBADAN on 18/4/2025 only to discovered that the children are not in school, they are helping the grandmother to sell OGOGORO in her shop.

I knelt down and begged the grandmother several times, I left IBADAN around 7:20pm and arrived ILORIN around 11:37pm due to heavy downpour. The grandmother is not responding to calls from my family members, even as I speak

I went to SANGO police station but I was told to go to the ministry of women affairs and social inclusions.

A date has been fixed 5/5/2025. I want the children to be enrolled in public schools and I will be sending the necessary writing materials and school fees through the School principal and class teachers
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by illicit(m): 8:19pm On Apr 24, 2025
Do you have a problem with people who sell ogogoro, that's what the woman who raised your wife sells, and now she is raising your kids...

Why are you worried?
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by adecz: 8:33pm On Apr 24, 2025
Your children don become 'area'.....




The background of a spouse is very key in
any relationship... 🤔
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by Toymax88(op): 8:42pm On Apr 24, 2025
illicit:
Do you have a problem with people who sell ogogoro, that's what the woman who raised your wife sells, and now she is raising your kids...

Why are you worried?
My children are not in school, they are helping her to sell OGOGORO in her shop.

They are not enrolled in schools
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by Toymax88(op): 8:43pm On Apr 24, 2025
adecz:
Your children don become 'area'.....




The background of a spouse is very key in
any relationship... 🤔
U understand my plight

They are not in any school in IBADAN, they are now SALES REPS in her OGOGORO shop
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by Bahamas95(m): 7:16am On Apr 25, 2025
Jobless/destructive and you still allowed her have 3children for you.......Are you ok at all?
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by Bruno3000(m): 8:44am On Apr 25, 2025
You ignored the Red flags. That's why you are in this mess. I just pity the innocent kids, may God be with them.
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by Adextomzy1: 8:47am On Apr 25, 2025
illicit:
Do you have a problem with people who sell ogogoro, that's what the woman who raised your wife sells, and now she is raising your kids...

Why are you worried?
They're not In school. Didn't you read that part?
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by SeeWahala: 8:58am On Apr 25, 2025
illicit:
Do you have a problem with people who sell ogogoro, that's what the woman who raised your wife sells, and now she is raising your kids...

Why are you worried?
So the kids shouldn't go to school again because their grandmother sells agbo-jeddi abi? cry
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by OboOlora(f): 10:23am On Apr 25, 2025
Werey say sales rep on top agbo, sales rep kor Marketing Executive ni lol
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by Cmanforall: 10:38am On Apr 25, 2025
Ok
Marriage these days is different from what it was in ge past.

Who/ what takes the blame?
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by AllBlack: 10:39am On Apr 25, 2025
Divorce
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by Fiscus105(m):
But it would have better if you go to family court straight. Many people don't know family court is existing. In family court, they would compel her to do the needful and if she fails, she might go to jail.

NB. Ministry of women affairs doesn't have power to compel her, they can only advice and if she fails, they will now ask you to charge her to family court.
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by KillahPriest: 10:40am On Apr 25, 2025
illicit:
Do you have a problem with people who sell ogogoro, that's what the woman who raised your wife sells, and now she is raising your kids...

Why are you worried?
what about the school he paid for ? Make una dey try reason sometimes na
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by TechBaron: 10:41am On Apr 25, 2025
Empire basket full of fruits... You haven't seen the typical Akwa Ibom marriage list yet..

Anyway, Chairman, You need to work on your finances.

If you had a solid means of catering for yourself and those kids, you would have ordered for them to be brought over to stay with you.

You can't send your children to Afghanistan to live with Talibans, and expect them not to learn how to make bombs.

You weren't married to the lady in the first place, so why seek divorce?

And meanwhile.. Stop this habit of calling women names after years of bliss. She wasn't DESTRUCTIVE when she was birthing children for you.

Learn to accept your mistakes and take responsibility!
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by Menclothing1: 10:41am On Apr 25, 2025
Alch sales red flag

Go and bring your children to ur house
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by EbereGod: 10:41am On Apr 25, 2025
embarassed

Wrong use of punctuation marks. Didn't know where the sentence actually ended and where there's a pause.Lol.

Managed to read through.

It's difficult to win cases like these.
5kg rice for 3 kidshuh
God Abeg o

Three kids no bride price? Irresponsible lifestyle.
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by Cmanforall: 10:42am On Apr 25, 2025
illicit:
Do you have a problem with people who sell ogogoro, that's what the woman who raised your wife sells, and now she is raising your kids...

Why are you worried?
Kids selling ogogoro will soon start taking it
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by PLATO1U(m): 10:42am On Apr 25, 2025
Go to Agidigbo FM and narrate your ordeal with Oriyomi Hamzat, that man is good at things like this.
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by edunaragold(f): 10:42am On Apr 25, 2025
Firebox123:
grin
this man why are u worried relax joor find another wife it's never too late , another wife will bring blessings,if them grow and understand better they will find u
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by GanagiBitrus: 10:43am On Apr 25, 2025
It's a very unpleasant situation.
You may have to concede on certain things especially for the sake of the kids.
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by luvme0702: 10:43am On Apr 25, 2025
Where you beating her, cheating on her? What did you do to her that made her bring civil defense corps to you? Sending 30k to her to use for 3 kids in this present economy would be difficult for her to manage. She has 3 kids for you and you're yet to marry her, that shows you are irresponsible. No matter how small the wedding would be, you should have just formalized it. Go and beg her for forgiveness and do the right thing.
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by Sharpsharp00123: 10:43am On Apr 25, 2025
illicit:
Do you have a problem with people who sell ogogoro, that's what the woman who raised your wife sells, and now she is raising your kids...

Why are you worried?
I don't know where u from ooo but in yoruba land, someone selling ogogoro or from that family is a red flag.

They always lack discipline, manners n they are lose coupled with that area

I know d op fears cos in no time those children will start misbehaving
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by osuofia2(m): 10:43am On Apr 25, 2025
sad
It's not too late for you, don't be blackmailed by those who will come here and blame you. You have tried your best. If she is not comfortable, let her stay in her mama house. The only challenge now is she refusing to send your kids to school. Go to the social welfare of the ministry of women affairs as advised by th police
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by Toosure70: 10:43am On Apr 25, 2025
Get your children back before you raise another terrorists for us again biko
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by tuhits(m): 10:43am On Apr 25, 2025
illicit:
Do you have a problem with people who sell ogogoro, that's what the woman who raised your wife sells, and now she is raising your kids...

Why are you worried?
sorry pls. Are you normal??
Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by iampeterben(m): 10:43am On Apr 25, 2025
illicit:
Do you have a problem with people who sell ogogoro, that's what the woman who raised your wife sells, and now she is raising your kids...

Why are you worried?
Your signature says it all. I guess you are a drunkard.
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