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She's been complaint of being broke for the past two months now. Just last week, she complained of how she and her mom only eat twice a day.

My I already gave her 25k mid this month, then when I received salary yesterday, gave her another 25k. But the money seems to not be enough for her broke ass..

She went ahead to post about her starting hookup on WhatsApp, when I confronted her, she said it was a prank and she was joking. Asking me that does she look like someone that can do runs? Lol. Told her point blank that they don’t write it of forehead and that she’s giving the vibe of coded runs lately.

We have dated for 3 years and I’m starting to think of cutting things with her. After all I’m more ready for marriage, but her brokenness and the fact that her parent depend on her despite her not having a job is making her delay me.

Think I need to find someone on my level atleast.

Need advise

She isn't working...

Her parents depend on her. And she in turn depends on you.

Are you sure she hasn't already been doing hookup without your knowledge? coughs


Is she in school? Whats her age? You are ready to settle down. If you feel you can't cope with the stress of dating a liability then it's best to dump her "broke ass"!

brain54:
She isn't working...Her parents depend on her. And she in turn depends on you.
Are you sure she hasn't already been doing hookup without your knowledge? coughs
Is she in school? Whats her age? You are ready to settle down. If you feel you can't cope with the stress of dating a liability then it's best to dump her "broke ass"!

She finished school, she’s going for NYSC next month. I’m trying to work it to Lagos so she can be with me.. but the vibes she’s giving make it seem like she running so coded runs.

She’s not a lazy person per se, it’s just the foolish thing she posts on WhatsApp.

babaYIBO:
She finished school, she’s going for NYSC next month. I’m trying to work it to Lagos so she can be with me.. but the vibes she’s giving make it seem like she running so coded runs.

She’s not a lazy person per se, it’s just the foolish thing she posts on WhatsApp.

As men we need to be ruthless and heartless like women. Never date or help a broke girl

These stoopid girls are not looking for husband,what they are looking for is "husbank"

I've made a promise to God that I'll never date a girl that can't do 50/50 in a relationship...

Her parents depend on her for upkeep while she takes care of them without having any visible means of livelihood.

Miracle no dey tire God

Firebox123:
As men we need to be ruthless and heartless like women. Never date or help a broke girl

These stoopid girls are not looking for husband,what they are looking for is "husbank"

I've made a promise to God that I'll never date a girl that can't do 50/50 in a relationship...

I understand this perfectly, but shes broke, not lazy and she is always looking out for opportunities to make legitimate money, this is why I constantly stuck my neck out for her. But I think it’s getting too wessier for her and her family these days and I just can’t stand a cheat.

I know what to do sha.

babaYIBO:
I understand this perfectly, but shes broke, not lazy and she is always looking out for opportunities to make legitimate money, this is why I constantly stuck my neck out for her. But I think it’s getting too wessier for her and her family these days and I just can’t stand a cheat.

I know what to do sha.

remember say all those hookup girl na another person gf too

Don't be pained if another man knack your gf also

Which sensible and responsible lady will put herself and hookup in the same sentence? Imagine telling the public she wants to start hookup and claiming it's a joke. Who joke with such irresponsible behaviour??Been broke isn't an excuse to venture into any illegitimate work. Unless you don't want to start little. Better be careful of who you want to wife to avoid "pls hide my identity or keep me anonymous "

https://www.nairaland.com/7626618/where-pick-runs-girl-around

https://www.nairaland.com/8153130/where-ashawo-house-dey-computer

Imagine your gf is on nairaland and see these two thread I just posted

Will she be happy 😁

Firebox123:
https://www.nairaland.com/7626618/where-pick-runs-girl-around

https://www.nairaland.com/8153130/where-ashawo-house-dey-computer

Imagine your gf is on nairaland and see these two thread I just posted

Will she be happy 😁

I’m paying her bride price, she’s not paying mine.

Besides, if she’s in long distance, I’ll have to cure konji elsewhere, reason why I wanted to bring her around.

Why should I wife an ashawo?

babaYIBO:
I’m paying her bride price, she’s not paying mine.

Besides, if she’s in long distance, I’ll have to cure konji elsewhere, reason why I wanted to bring her around.

Why should I wife an ashawo?

cos you're paying her bride price that means you should turn her to your slave

Definitely you're an sex addict

You're the main reason why she wants to do that hookup business

babaYIBO:
She finished school, she’s going for NYSC next month. I’m trying to work it to Lagos so she can be with me.. but the vibes she’s giving make it seem like she running so coded runs.

She’s not a lazy person per se, it’s just the foolish thing she posts on WhatsApp.

She has already started it before posting that on her WhatsApp status. Any girl child whom her parents depend on that has no real source of income in this present day Nigeria is already a sex worker. Or she probably works in an oil company's okpo department... Dey play U hear 😂

mardis:
Which sensible and responsible lady will put herself and hookup in the same sentence? Imagine telling the public she wants to start hookup and claiming it's a joke. Who joke with such irresponsible behaviour??Been broke isn't an excuse to venture into any illegitimate work. Unless you don't want to start little. Better be careful of who you want to wife to avoid "pls hide my identity or keep me anonymous "

She’s shown vibe of an irresponsible woman before and I think I overlooked because she has other responsible attributes, but I think i am being foolish for ignoring all these signs

Firebox123:
cos you're paying her bride price that means you should turn her to your slave

You can allow your wife Bleep around in the name of “she’s not my slave” when you get married.

Definitely you're an sex addict
You're the main reason why she wants to do that hookup business

Oh yeah I am. Aren’t you?

babaYIBO:
You can allow your wife Bleep around in the name of “she’s not my slave” when you get married.



Oh yeah I am. Aren’t you?

hope your friend never dey Bleep your so called gf

If not Interested in her again drop her contact please

Firebox123:
hope your friend never dey Bleep your so called gf

If not Interested in her again drop her contact please

Bleep off

babaYIBO:
Bleep off

sex addict

Since are parents depends on her for feeding and all, who then financed her education? Abi na you do that one also? So for solid 3 years you have been taking care of she and her parents? Money you where supposed to use in uplifting your financial status.

You can never go far in life with such girlfriend or wife because it will get worse when you 2 get married and it will be like an entitlement thing to her for you to care for her parents. And I'm sure you haven't done a quarter of what you have done for her to your own parents or siblings. Bro be wise

YOU PPL ARE SO CRIMINALLY MINDED.
because
YOU GIVE FINE NAMES TO YEYE THINGS
E.G YOU CALL CODED ASHAWO, HOOKUP
E.G YOU CALLTHIEFS IN GOVT, CORRUPT POLITiCIANS
E.G YOU CALL THIEFS OF CRUDE OIL ,OIL BUNKERERS
E.G YOU CALL MURDERERS /VAMPIRES ,BANDITS,TERRORISTS ETC.
GOD TAKE CONTROL

kenn4rill:
Since are parents depends on her for feeding and all, who then financed her education? Abi na you do that one also? So for solid 3 years you have been taking care of she and her parents? Money you were supposed to use in uplifting your financial status.

I did support, I never take full responsibilities. I’m careful enough not to take the role of a father.

She was doing petty business in school but that wasn’t even enough to cater for anything as she cries every now and then about needing funds.

You can never go far in life with such girlfriend or wife because it will get worse when you 2 get married and it will be like an entitlement thing to her for you to care for her parents. And I'm sure you haven't done a quarter of what you have done for her to your own parents or siblings. Bro be wise

I’m really scared now honestly, and her mom is already asking when I am going to come to visit her.

Oh yeah, my families are doing fine and I never neglect them for once.

Firebox123:
sex addict

Grow up

babaYIBO:
I did support, I never take full responsibilities. I’m careful enough not to take the role of a father.

She was doing petty business in school but that wasn’t even enough to cater for anything as she cries every now and then about needing funds.



I’m really scared now honestly, and her mom is already asking when I am going to come to visit her.

Oh yeah, my families are doing fine and I never neglect them for once.

how much you don spend on her sef

Bring proof and evidence here

babaYIBO:
Grow up

ordinary 25k way you give her since last year

Lol 😂

Firebox123:
how much you don spend on her sef

Bring proof and evidence here

50k monthly on average

Firebox123:
ordinary 25k way you give her since last year

Lol 😂

Grow up and stop whining oga

babaYIBO:
50k monthly on average

marry her since that's the bride price you have been shouting about

Lol 😂

Firebox123:
marry her since that's the bride price you have been shouting about

Lol 😂

Ok

Bro believe me that if you go broke tomorrow, this your girl and her mom will treat you like shit especially if the girl is financially balanced. Woman are not to be trusted they are very manipulative. They value you now because something dey your pocket. If you know you don't really want to wife her I will advise that you let her go, highest na cry she go cry for days and stop but if you really want her then stop complaining.

babaYIBO:
I’m really scared now honestly, and her mom is already asking when I am going to come to visit her.

Oh yeah, my families are doing fine and I never neglect them for once.

Run oooooo

Firebox123:
cos you're paying her bride price that means you should turn her to your slave

Definitely you're an sex addict

You're the main reason why she wants to do that hookup business

Isn't he her slave when he dish out money to her but she is his slave when sex with occurs.

babaYIBO:
Grow up

Leave that dude

Firebox123:
how much you don spend on her sef

Bring proof and evidence here

Your critical thinking skills is inversely proportional to your age