I'm I A Simp? Or - Romance (2)

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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Raymondfayowole(m): 6:10pm On Apr 26, 2025

She probably found some else...best advise is learn from your mistsake and move on

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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by kevotek1000(m): 6:10pm On Apr 26, 2025

greenbrave:
Hello fam.

I was dating this girl, I really love her so much. She has my quality and all.

But recently, she BROKE up with me. Due to my own fault, yes it's me. I wasn't romantic and don't listen to her.

Now, this is just 3 day back. I can't seem to. hold myself.

I just want to know if it's okay to talk to. her about it.

You will heal with time...

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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by jayAjoku(m): 6:10pm On Apr 26, 2025

there are over 50 million women in nigeria dont stress yourself get another one.

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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by OfficialP: 6:12pm On Apr 26, 2025

People can no longer think for themselves, always looking for social validation.

Na WA o

Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by easytig(m): 6:14pm On Apr 26, 2025

You are not a simp but the most foolish simp ever known

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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Nobody: 6:17pm On Apr 26, 2025

easytig:
You are not a simp but the most foolish simp ever known

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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Chief2410: 6:19pm On Apr 26, 2025

Except it's your first relationship,else you should know bitches come and go.

greenbrave:
Hello fam.

I was dating this girl, I really love her so much. She has my quality and all.

But recently, she BROKE up with me. Due to my own fault, yes it's me. I wasn't romantic and don't listen to her.

Now, this is just 3 day back. I can't seem to. hold myself.

I just want to know if it's okay to talk to. her about it.

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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by greenbrave(op): 6:19pm On Apr 26, 2025

WebsiteMaster:
A girl you're dating left you because you're not romantic. Maybe that's true. If it's true then you're probably not romantic and might not satisfy her even if you try to pretend. You can't pretend for ever. Move on. Find someone who love you for what and how you are. Fullstop

This sink well.

Not just that, I really bleeped up though

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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Angelfrost(m): 6:20pm On Apr 26, 2025

Are you a simp?!!....

Well, how did Magneto (Ian McKellen) put it in X-Men when discussing with Charles Xavier...?!!

"Why do you ask questions which you already know the answers?!!".

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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by greenbrave(op): 6:20pm On Apr 26, 2025

OPICANTO2223:
Women dont break up with a man cos of the excuses you gave. They do when they find a better version of you. No woman leaves by mistake.

Be bold and let her go. Use power of silence and scarcity to regain your lost value.

Bet me, it's no greener at the other side she jumped to.

Thank you bro, I also thought so. So I didn't think the issues should checkout to break up

Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by DeepSight(m): 6:20pm On Apr 26, 2025

greenbrave:
Hello fam.

I was dating this girl, I really love her so much. She has my quality and all.

But recently, she BROKE up with me. Due to my own fault, yes it's me. I wasn't romantic and don't listen to her.

Now, this is just 3 day back. I can't seem to. hold myself.

I just want to know if it's okay to talk to. her about it.

Stay away for at least three months first, zero contact.

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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by greenbrave(op): 6:22pm On Apr 26, 2025

nairalanda1:
Well, if you are ready to hear criticism, do talk to her.

The problem is, women love it when men listen to them, when they feel like they communicating. When they tell them the minutae of the day and their man listens and acts like he is paying attention.

You are not a simp if you learn the skill of communication. It's not just useful in romance....your future kids, male friends, etc will thank you.

Yes, I just telling her to look at more realistic things

Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by greenbrave(op): 6:23pm On Apr 26, 2025

OfficialP:
People can no longer think for themselves, always looking for social validation.

Na WA o

I am not looking for a validation, but experience.

You don't just let people GO like that.

Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by BafanaBafana: 6:24pm On Apr 26, 2025

greenbrave:
Hello fam.

I was dating this girl, I really love her so much. She has my quality and all.

But recently, she BROKE up with me. Due to my own fault, yes it's me. I wasn't romantic and don't listen to her.

Now, this is just 3 day back. I can't seem to. hold myself.

I just want to know if it's okay to talk to. her about it.

If you follow comments here, you will be single forever. You admitted she has all what you want, you admitted what happened is your fault.
Go to her, apologize and try to make amends. There's nothing wrong in showing a girl love and care. Unless of course, you don't really love her.

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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by greenbrave(op): 6:25pm On Apr 26, 2025

BafanaBafana:
If you follow comments here, you will be single forever. You admitted she has all what you want, you admitted what happened is your fault.
Go to her, apologize and try to make amends. There's nothing wrong in showing a girl love and care. Unless of course, you don't really love her.

Thanks for the input. Appreciated.

I do really love her. Myself I am the type that send girls.

Fun fact: Other lady usually not make sense in my face, like I don't even like them

Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by cobby14(m): 6:27pm On Apr 26, 2025

move on...

greenbrave:
To be honest I am focused, even more.

It's just a matter between myself and her.

I mean it is okay to reach out.

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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Chief2410: 6:28pm On Apr 26, 2025

Beg a woman today and she will use it against you tomorrow.

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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by greenbrave(op): 6:32pm On Apr 26, 2025

Chief2410:
Beg a woman today and she will use it against you tomorrow.

Thank you Chief.

I wasn't gonna beg her though, not directly.

Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Chief2410: 6:36pm On Apr 26, 2025

Just go no contact.No text,no calls. She is expecting you to come begging. Do the opposite of what she expects.

greenbrave:
Thank you Chief.

I wasn't gonna beg her though, not directly.

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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Osanoghodua1: 6:39pm On Apr 26, 2025

Have you found Jesus son?

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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by FiveFootNinja(m): 6:41pm On Apr 26, 2025

greenbrave:
Hello fam.

I was dating this girl, I really love her so much. She has my quality and all.

But recently, she BROKE up with me. Due to my own fault, yes it's me. I wasn't romantic and don't listen to her.

Now, this is just 3 day back. I can't seem to. hold myself.

I just want to know if it's okay to talk to. her about it.

Talk to her say wetin happen?

That ship has sailed bro. Move on.

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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by almarthins(m): 6:41pm On Apr 26, 2025*

greenbrave:
Hello fam.

I was dating this girl, I really love her so much. She has my quality and all.

But recently, she BROKE up with me. Due to my own fault, yes it's me. I wasn't romantic and don't listen to her.

Now, this is just 3 day back. I can't seem to. hold myself.

I just want to know if it's okay to talk to. her about it.

Any time a girl or lady tells you, you re not romantic; just know that you re not a mumu she is looking for.

There is something a woman silently craves, power. And they can softly manipulate you with ur consent in the name of love.

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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Nobody: 6:42pm On Apr 26, 2025

greenbrave:
Thanks for the input. Appreciated.

I do really love her. Myself I am the type that send girls.

Fun fact: Other lady usually not make sense in my face, like I don't even like them

they don lock 🔐you be that😂

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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Exceed15: 6:43pm On Apr 26, 2025

She broke up with you because you don't listen to her? ... U r a simp!

Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by alizma: 6:43pm On Apr 26, 2025

greenbrave:
Hello fam.

I was dating this girl, I really love her so much. She has my quality and all.

But recently, she BROKE up with me. Due to my own fault, yes it's me. I wasn't romantic and don't listen to her.

Now, this is just 3 day back. I can't seem to. hold myself.

I just want to know if it's okay to talk to. her about it.

How old are you. At certain age, I consider certain things as ignorant, stupidity or simping, so to properly understand where you belong, your age matters

Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by AngelicBeing: 6:45pm On Apr 26, 2025

dkidd:
Unlove her fast

Lol 😂, at Unlove her, hehehe

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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Smithwilliams826: 6:45pm On Apr 26, 2025

greenbrave:
To be honest I am focused, even more.

It's just a matter between myself and her.

I mean it is okay to reach out.

Since it's okay to reach out, why are you reaching out to nairaland?

You don't want to accept other pple idea or opinion, why make it public?

Gerraaout of here. undecided

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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by gigabyte13: 6:51pm On Apr 26, 2025

Cool down
You will get over it
Just stop stalking her on all social media platforms.
If you are still stalking her in whatever ways, then you are more than a SIMP and it will be hard to get over.
Wakaaaaaassasaas

Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Zonefree(m): 6:53pm On Apr 26, 2025

To question your SIMPlicity is the first sign of a simp.

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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by ezeknov(m): 6:55pm On Apr 26, 2025

Una dey funny me for this thread oo grin

Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by OfficialP: 6:56pm On Apr 26, 2025

greenbrave:
I am not looking for a validation, but experience.

You don't just let people GO like that.

Yes you are.

If you feel you're, you don't want to be labeled a simp

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