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Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by OKOATA(m): 7:33am On Apr 29, 2025
Impeccable5248:
It can be curtailed with iron based plants.
The sufferer would experience 90% relief from the crises associated with it.
DM me if you are interested in herbal medicine.
My Whatsapp number is on my profile.
Why dont you post it here. Something you would probably copy from twitter/x.
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by OKOATA(m): 7:42am On Apr 29, 2025
laivwire:
If she's truly healed. Glory to God.

We tried all possible options as well and there was a particular herbal medicine one man from Ilorin used to supply us back then which worked quite well in stopping the frequent crisis. We lost contact with him at some point.

We also tried other means too including decompresssion surgery. We were saving for a marrow transplant when he died. My close cousin actually had a marrow transplant (very horrible scars) but he died less than a year later even with the herbs, treatment in the Uk etc Just a random crisis like any other and all the painkillers could not stop the pain until he gave up on the bed right there.
Sorry about your cousin bro.

Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by OKOATA(m): 7:45am On Apr 29, 2025
haybhi1:
Meanwhile, dear people, please don't listen to 2elliot and Impeccable5248. Please, it's a plea.

Always go to hospital instead of herbal therapy. While some herbal therapies bring some management, cos they contain the API, >95% result in fatal cases.

Standard hospitals, especially tertiary hospitals like Teaching Hospitals, will take the necessary holistic approach necessary. Don't joke with lives of your loved ones, please.
They have been going to hospital and still died. Before the advent of the modern medicines people were mostly using the herbal and traditional. Even some modern medicines won't work.
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by SouthSouth1914: 7:51am On Apr 29, 2025
AllBlack:
Yeah. Your life is as simple as ABC that is why you can press your phone and tell people how they can go ahead and JUST REMARRY and have another child in the middle of a crisis.

Pray you never have to face constant medical battles in your life not to talk of having it a new marriage.
Person wey nor dey relationship, dey advice someone about marriage!! How ironic!! Just leave the guy… Na kids full NL
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by AllBlack: 8:10am On Apr 29, 2025
SouthSouth1914:
Person wey nor dey relationship, dey advice someone about marriage!! How ironic!! Just leave the guy… Na kids full NL
Walahi we will keep seeing such posts till the day SEUN OSEWA includes age restrictions to some topics just the same way he added religious restrictions to islamic posts (i am not against that).
It would make sense if when you want to create a topic, you indicate that THIS TOPIC IS FOR PEOPLE OF THE AGE OF 35 or 15 as the case may be so that when a person opens a thread and he/she is about to comment, he would be notified of the restrictions to avoid such childish insensitivities.
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by Lifestone(m): 8:29am On Apr 29, 2025
meetme01:
You just assumed that your defence mechanism and plans for marriage are the same. Don't, please. That ordeal alone for a public figure like her is unassummed.

That's her story. You have yours, I have mine. We can't always follow the same path to sweet memories if perhaps if will come.
My message is essentially for others to make rational and avoid emotional decisions.
There are possibly some people is such situation.
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by Lifestone(m): 8:32am On Apr 29, 2025
SouthSouth1914:
Person wey nor dey relationship, dey advice someone about marriage!! How ironic!! Just leave the guy… Na kids full NL
The problem with your likes is that you don't like those who say things without emotions. I have been in the business of marriage for decades. I know what I'm saying.
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by Lifestone(m): 8:33am On Apr 29, 2025
AllBlack:
Walahi we will keep seeing such posts till the day SEUN OSEWA includes age restrictions to some topics just the same way he added religious restrictions to islamic posts (i am not against that).
It would make sense if when you want to create a topic, you indicate that THIS TOPIC IS FOR PEOPLE OF THE AGE OF 35 or 15 as the case may be so that when a person opens a thread and he/she is about to comment, he would be notified of the restrictions to avoid such childish insensitivities.
I pity who listen to your advice if you ever do give. Emotions have never been good for reality. I'm probably older than you.
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by Natbrowny: 9:08am On Apr 29, 2025
rowland545:
Truly sad ...lemme just put this across if u r in a relationship and your partner is always in an out of the hospital....pls try to know ur genotype....i dont even know mine but i just assume i should b AA
U r assuming?
Do better
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by fitjenzy: 9:26am On Apr 29, 2025
Mcousin who was a sickler got married in 2014.

He and his wife honeymooned in Dubai where he suffered a crisis. Within a week or so, my cousin was dead.
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by almarthins(m): 9:47am On Apr 29, 2025
AllBlack:
Yeah. Your life is as simple as ABC that is why you can press your phone and tell people how they can go ahead and JUST REMARRY and have another child in the middle of a crisis.

Pray you never have to face constant medical battles in your life not to talk of having it a new marriage.
Na jjc be that guy! Him never see life
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by AllBlack: 10:09am On Apr 29, 2025
Lifestone:
I pity who listen to your advice if you ever do give. Emotions have never been good for reality. I'm probably older than you.
When you have no other cards to play, you bring age into the mix. That is a very weak hand and that is where you got it all wrong.
What do you know about age?
You are 96 and I am 69, I am 96 and you are 69; TIME DIFFERENCE.
Your time difference doesn't make up for your inadequacy. Being older is not directly proportional to being wiser. Let me school you.

You said you face reality, what is your reality? Is it the same with hers? Did you even consider all the barrage of circumstances that surrounded the younger Eucharia? Or you think REALITY is ONE SIZE FITS ALL?

- You are male and it is easier for a young male to move on to the next marriage even when he is still married, not to talk of after a breakup where he is no longer directly burdened by the child in question. Can the woman have the same liberty?

- Who wants to marry a single mother? Not to talk of a single mother with a child that gulps tons of money and all her attention? It even went as far as messing up her career. Do you even know how big Eucharia's career was?
Oya come and tell her how she made mistakes.

- You really need to pity those I give advice because you can't comprehend it. It is beyond you and your tunnel vision way of thinking that makes you believe everything revolves around your own tiny reality.

- There is a very mighty reason between EMOTIONAL reasoning and CIRCUMSPECTIVE reasoning. It is not my fault if you can not bring yourself to know the difference AT YOUR AGE. You still have some growing up to do.
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by Kobojunkie: 12:16pm On Apr 29, 2025
Lifestone:
➜Maybe you should read my comments again. It's still valid.
Emotions are our biggest problem as human.
How can suggesting remarriage as the solution to the guilt and pain—possibly shame as well —of knowing you are to blame for your child being deathly sick, and the mounting cost of medical expenses and care, be considered valid? undecided

2. Indeed, emotions are, and you should probably work on your emotional intelligence some, so you can better understand how they work and how remarriage cannot possibly be a reasonable solution to emotional and stress-related issues.
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by Lifestone(m): 1:15pm On Apr 29, 2025
AllBlack:
When you have no other cards to play, you bring age into the mix. That is a very weak hand and that is where you got it all wrong.
What do you know about age?
You are 96 and I am 69, I am 96 and you are 69; TIME DIFFERENCE.
Your time difference doesn't make up for your inadequacy. Being older is not directly proportional to being wiser. Let me school you.

You said you face reality, what is your reality? Is it the same with hers? Did you even consider all the barrage of circumstances that surrounded the younger Eucharia? Or you think REALITY is ONE SIZE FITS ALL?

- You are male and it is easier for a young male to move on to the next marriage even when he is still married, not to talk of after a breakup where he is no longer directly burdened by the child in question. Can the woman have the same liberty?

- Who wants to marry a single mother? Not to talk of a single mother with a child that gulps tons of money and all her attention? It even went as far as messing up her career. Do you even know how big Eucharia's career was?
Oya come and tell her how she made mistakes.

- You really need to pity those I give advice because you can't comprehend it. It is beyond you and your tunnel vision way of thinking that makes you believe everything revolves around your own tiny reality.

- There is a very mighty reason between EMOTIONAL reasoning and CIRCUMSPECTIVE reasoning. It is not my fault if you can not bring yourself to know the difference AT YOUR AGE. You still have some growing up to do.
You are the first to bring up age. With all your lengthy talk, you haven't indicated how your proposition could have help her or any other parents in such a difficult situation. You offer no path. You are all emotional reck.
Eucharia is well known figure in the Acting industry, she could still have make progress, she fell for the emotional trap. Another health Child would have healed her and make the burden better
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by Lifestone(m): 1:16pm On Apr 29, 2025
Kobojunkie:
How can suggesting remarriage as the solution to the guilt and pain—possibly shame as well —of knowing you are to blame for your child being deathly sick, and the mounting cost of medical expenses and care, be considered valid? undecided

2. Indeed, emotions are, and you should probably work on your emotional intelligence some, so you can better understand how they work and how remarriage cannot possibly be a reasonable solution to emotional and stress-related issues.
But you will agree with me that her mental health would have been better with another healthy child
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by Kobojunkie: 1:18pm On Apr 29, 2025
Lifestone:
✓ But you will agree with me that her mental health would have been better with another healthy child
I don't agree with you "marriage is the solution to mental health problems" crowd. There are grin grin mountains of evidence to suggest that people who are not mentally stable shouldn't even venture into such things as marriage or other complicated relationships until they have first removed the root problems. 🤔
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by Lifestone(m): 1:37pm On Apr 29, 2025
Kobojunkie:
I don't agree with you "marriage is the solution to mental health problems" crowd. There are grin grin mountains of evidence to suggest that people who are not mentally stable shouldn't even venture into such things as marriage or other complicated relationships until they have first removed the root problems. 🤔
Jus believe whatever suits, it's obvious you are just arguing for its sake
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by Kobojunkie: 1:39pm On Apr 29, 2025
Lifestone:
✓ Jus believe whatever suits, it's obvious you are just arguing for its sake
Even though you are free to live your particular life in ignorance, you are wrong to prescribe it to others. Some would go as far as to say evil! undecided
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by Nobody: 1:43pm On Apr 29, 2025
OKOATA:
Why dont you post it here. Something you would probably copy from twitter/x.
I am a trained botanist.
I am not even on twitter.
I don't intend to share some of my remedy on public space.
It has taken me years,time and money to perfect some of my herbal remedies.
Whosoever seeks help for his or her dis-ease must pay for my service.

I have been posting herbal remedies for two years now on NL.
Here is a link to the thread below

https://www.nairaland.com/8028404/re-aeons-home-naturopathic-medicine/8#135171355
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by RillJ(m): 3:18pm On Apr 29, 2025
SS Kids are lost case from day one.

Please take the advice seriously and do everything possible to avoid the trap.
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by 2elliot: 11:41am On May 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
For how long? When was the last time you laid your eyes on her, and how long has she been symptom-free? undecided
Roughly three years now free. I see her every now and then.
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by 2elliot: 11:44am On May 03, 2025
laivwire:
If she's truly healed. Glory to God.

We tried all possible options as well and there was a particular herbal medicine one man from Ilorin used to supply us back then which worked quite well in stopping the frequent crisis. We lost contact with him at some point.

We also tried other means too including decompresssion surgery. We were saving for a marrow transplant when he died. My close cousin actually had a marrow transplant (very horrible scars) but he died less than a year later even with the herbs, treatment in the Uk etc Just a random crisis like any other and all the painkillers could not stop the pain until he gave up on the bed right there.
Sorry to hear.
My niece is around 11yrs and has been free for about three years. I just hope that the hearing is permanent.
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by 2elliot: 11:56am On May 03, 2025
haybhi1:
Meanwhile, dear people, please don't listen to 2elliot and Impeccable5248. Please, it's a plea.

Always go to hospital instead of herbal therapy. While some herbal therapies bring some management, cos they contain the API, >95% result in fatal cases.

Standard hospitals, especially tertiary hospitals like Teaching Hospitals, will take the necessary holistic approach necessary. Don't joke with lives of your loved ones, please.
I am the last person you will tell that to.
I have had health issues, at a point I counted over 15 health issues in my body. From Benin, Abuja, Port Harcourt, Kogi state, my own state Bayelsa, I visited numerous hospitals in all of these states, both public and private. None of these hospitals solved even one of these problems. At the general hospital in Gwagwalada in Abuja, the Doctor even swore with her certificate that there was nothing wrong with me, just because she was tired of attending to me. There is no drugs I didn't use.
At UPTH in Port Harcourt, the doctor told me that I was going end up in wheelchair. So, I am the last person you will talk to about orthodox and Herbal treatments. I have tasted both and I saw the big difference. Today, I am still walking and agile is because of Herbal treatment and massages.
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by Kobojunkie: 3:16pm On May 03, 2025
2elliot:
✓ I am the last person you will tell that to.
I have had health issues, at a point I counted over 15 health issues in my body. From Benin, Abuja, Port Harcourt, Kogi state, my own state Bayelsa, I visited numerous hospitals in all of these states, both public and private. None of these hospitals solved even one of these problems. At the general hospital in Gwagwalada in Abuja, the Doctor even swore with her certificate that there was nothing wrong with me, just because she was tired of attending to me. There is no drugs I didn't use.
✓ At UPTH in Port Harcourt, the doctor told me that I was going end up in wheelchair. So, I am the last person you will talk to about orthodox and Herbal treatments. I have tasted both and I saw the big difference. Today, I am still walking and agile is because of Herbal treatment and massages.
You counted health issues wey no get names? It is very hard to believe a lot of these stories, you know, as there are many people out there who are in fact hypochondriacs. 🙄🙄

2. Why were you told that? What was the name of the illness that he insisted might do that to you? 😩😩😩
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by Kobojunkie: 3:18pm On May 03, 2025
2elliot:
Sorry to hear.
My niece is around 11yrs and has been free for about three years. I just hope that the hearing is permanent.
A child? Wow .. has her parents taken her to the hospital to verify that she is no longer a sickler or is the sickness merely lying low. I had a classmate in secondary school who has some very good years too. He eventually died of the illness after we all left highschool. undecided
Re: I Lost My Marriage, My Son And My Acting Career Because Of A Silly Mistake. by Neddyogu(m): 9:11pm On Jun 07, 2025
rowland545:
Truly sad ...lemme just put this across if u r in a relationship and your partner is always in an out of the hospital....pls try to know ur genotype....i dont even know mine but i just assume i should b AA
Don't assume.
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