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Technig4:
she might.

But then you wasted less.

Even more importantly, you WILL waste lesser.

Trust me bro, it ain't love if it ain't love. Been there, done that and seen enough.

Odogwu love no be love. Know when you're the one they love and know when it's the PROVIDER they love.

The bottom line is that she will still leave if she wants to, irrespective of if I spent too much on her or not. And I dont think its waste, some of us follow Robert Greene in his book where one of the laws says 'Always pay the full price'

Being cheap on a person I like is not my way of enjoying the relationship, I like to spoil my women, and if they leave, I lost nothing, because the happiness I get is when they are with ne, nothing is certain, their leaving is a constant possibility that I shouldn't fret about, because just as she can leave, I can leave too.

PresidObi:
The bottom line is that she will still leave if she wants to, irrespective of if I spent too much on her or not. And I dont think its waste, some of us follow Robert Greene in his book where one of the laws says 'Always pay the full price'

Being cheap on a person I like is not my way of enjoying the relationship, I like to spoil my women, and if they leave, I lost nothing, because the happiness I get is when they are with ne, nothing is certain, their leaving is a constant possibility that I shouldn't fret about, because just as she can leave, I can leave too.

wanted to say a lot but realised then it's your money and you can decide to spend it however you want.

Besides, there's no manual for how to live. So, do your things the way that seems right to you.

Personally, nowadays I try to see myself as the price. I try not to think in ways of "winning someone over". Instead, people must do things to win me over.

It's one of the hardest mental shift I've made in a while and so far, it's been a lonely road but I'm becoming good at it and somehow I'm beginning to see some people working hard to be in my life.

Very few people though, one or two girls, but I can tell you, it's way better than me working hard to keep someone.

You are the price.

Technig4:
wanted to say a lot but realised then it's your money and you can decide to spend it however you want.

Besides, there's no manual for how to live. So, do your things the way that seems right to you.

Personally, nowadays I try to see myself as the price. I try not to think in ways of "winning someone over". Instead, people must do things to win me over.

It's one of the hardest mental shift I've made in a while and so far, it's been a lonely road but I'm becoming good at it and somehow I'm beginning to see some people working hard to be in my life.

Very few people though, one or two girls, but I can tell you, it's way better than me working hard to keep someone.

You are the price.

I must admit you have a great point, you are making sense and I understand what you're trying to achieve. For some of us, it's much more fun doing the chasing. It's like buying a new car, or moving into a new house, your house. The feeling is supreme.

Of course I know it cannot last forever, but then nothing really lasts forever.

Maybe one day I will try this you method of being the price, but I fear it will feel awkward for me to see someone I like and start forming 'hard man' till someone else takes the price.

Got to the part of
"Went to another shop and got something expensive"




Well
Life's like a circle
We need your type more for example
So
It's your money fam
Do you

Happily slaving away with is own money just to get what in the end? Companionship or sex? Does any of that even worth it?