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Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by lexy2014: 5:22am On Apr 30, 2025
Gerrard59:
Something I could have written.

I am glad we're becoming more honest in our comments. Mind you, it is not a Nigerian thing alone, as it happens across the world. That is the basic biological makeup of men.
How is cheating the biological makeup of men?

What makes you think women don't have the same biological make up to cheat?
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 5:22am On Apr 30, 2025
lexy2014:
Who created man that way?

What is the status you are referring to?

What has status got to do with self control?
are you a man to start with? Only men will understand what I'm saying.
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by Babaken: 5:24am On Apr 30, 2025
flokii:
Bad habits.. that's the only logical explanation. It's either the man cheats or the wife cheats or both partners cheat.
Another reason might be change in taste.. a man that married lepa all of a sudden developed taste for curvy and hourglass-shape. What do you think will happen?
For my own understanding most married men and women cheat out of imagination just like you said.
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by Maeve7: 5:26am On Apr 30, 2025
ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
if opportunity present itself, the same man will throw morals away and cheat regardless of his status. Men generally are designed that way. Forget all the Holy holy things. All men 100% have tendency to cheat
Don’t think everyone is like you.
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 5:29am On Apr 30, 2025
Maeve7:
Don’t think everyone is like you.
are you a man to start with? Only men will understand internally that what I'm saying is the truth
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by mrksquare: 5:30am On Apr 30, 2025
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by Tunde25(m): 5:38am On Apr 30, 2025
Why do married women cheat?
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 5:40am On Apr 30, 2025
Maeve7:
Don’t think everyone is like you.
you are allergic to truth
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by lexy2014: 5:42am On Apr 30, 2025
ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
are you a man to start with? Only men will understand what I'm saying.
Since you call yourself a man and you understood what you said, then you should have no issues answering my questions:

Who created man that way?

What is the status you are referring to?

What has status got to do with self control?
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by lexy2014: 5:42am On Apr 30, 2025
ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
you are allergic to truth
What is the truth?
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by lexy2014: 5:43am On Apr 30, 2025
ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
you are allergic to truth
Since you are not allergic to the truth, how come you could not answer these questions I asked you?

Who created man that way?

What is the status you are referring to?

What has status got to do with self control?
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 5:47am On Apr 30, 2025
lexy2014:
What is the truth?
all men have tendency to cheat and will always cheat if opportunity prevents itself
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by Schprobs: 5:51am On Apr 30, 2025
MONEY247:
I was speaking with a lady colleague and she shared with me a story about her husband...
According to her she said she does everything, I mean everything for her husband...
From sexual needs to food to respect to whatever you can think of...to please him.

When she discovered/suspected he was cheating she went on to learn various sexual styles, even to the extent of watching pornography... just to make the bedroom game sweet for her husband....

This man still went ahead continuing the affair outside the marriage...
She threatened to leave the marriage and call it quits when he came back to his senses...
And became the family Man...
I can tell this woman is still beautiful, she keeps herself clean and classy....

My question is this, what makes a married man to commit adultery or cheat...
Just what...
Since the beginning of time tell me where real man have stay with a single ladies for the rest of the life

All these your unrealistic expectations from man it’s gullible, it’s nature man Most explore or be a sadist husband
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by lexy2014: 6:06am On Apr 30, 2025
ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
all men have tendency to cheat and will always cheat if opportunity prevents itself
Good. Then you should no problem answering my questions:

1. Who created man that way?

2. What is the status you are referring to?

3. What has status got to do with self control?

4. How did you arrive at your conclusion that "all men have tendency to cheat and will always cheat if opportunity prevents itself"?

5. Do all women have the tendency to cheat?

6. Are you married?
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by lexy2014: 6:07am On Apr 30, 2025
Schprobs:
Since the beginning of time tell me where real man have stay with a single ladies for the rest of the life

All these your unrealistic expectations from man it’s gullible, it’s nature man Most explore or be a sadist husband
How is it nature for men to cheat?

How many women did Adam stay with for the rest of his life?

Are you married?
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by Chukwudi4naija(m): 6:22am On Apr 30, 2025
Sharpsharp00123:
law of diminishing returns

Another thing is that men are polygamous in nature
Law of diminishing marginal utility rather.
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by pocohantas(f): 6:25am On Apr 30, 2025
lexy2014:
I didn't ask you for price tag

Should your wife also enjoy this variety?
😂😂😂😂 There is a price tag for everyone, which is the consequence of cheating _ most likely divorce. Abroad you part with some of the family wealth. Brings us back to my post. The major reason Naija men cheat without remorse is lack of consequence. Any other thing they say is TRASH.
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by pocohantas(f): 6:27am On Apr 30, 2025
Maeve7:
Or he is controlling himself because he has morals and is strong enough to live by them.
It is how they drag every man into it. If they don't do that, how else do they keep conditioning Naija women to stay and pray for their wandering gbolas? 😂😂
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by Uchesis: 6:27am On Apr 30, 2025
King Solomon was wise enough to know that one woman alone is not enough. Hence he had as many as he can....1000.


Before you talk of Solo, remember father Abraham?

grin grin
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by victme1(m): 6:28am On Apr 30, 2025
Please Stop calling it cheat, cheating.
It is laid. Getting laid.
That is what men wants.
Men don't cheat
Men wants to lay females
Nothing attached.
Just the winning feeling
The Trophy!
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by Buziness101: 6:40am On Apr 30, 2025
The average number of Cheating wifes is way higher than the number of Cheating husband's.... Do you agree ?
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by lexy2014: 6:41am On Apr 30, 2025
pocohantas:
😂😂😂😂 There is a price tag for everyone, which is the consequence of cheating _ most likely divorce. Abroad you part with some of the family wealth. Brings us back to my post. The major reason Naija men cheat without remorse is lack of consequence. Any other thing they say is TRASH.
Tnx sweetheart but Like I said I didn't ask for price tag
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by pocohantas(f): 6:47am On Apr 30, 2025
lexy2014:
Tnx sweetheart but Like I said I didn't ask for price tag
Lol. Of course you did not.
He just had to bring it in.😃
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by saintnegroid(m): 6:53am On Apr 30, 2025
MONEY247:
I was speaking with a lady colleague and she shared with me a story about her husband...
According to her she said she does everything, I mean everything for her husband...
From sexual needs to food to respect to whatever you can think of...to please him.

When she discovered/suspected he was cheating she went on to learn various sexual styles, even to the extent of watching pornography... just to make the bedroom game sweet for her husband....

This man still went ahead continuing the affair outside the marriage...
She threatened to leave the marriage and call it quits when he came back to his senses...
And became the family Man...
I can tell this woman is still beautiful, she keeps herself clean and classy....

My question is this, what makes a married man to commit adultery or cheat...
Just what... Are you married? If no, then get married you will know the answer. If yes, then you know the answer already
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by highchief1: 7:18am On Apr 30, 2025
eastOFwest:
I'll be blunt. Men cheat in Nigeria due to an oversupply of cheap puna. It's a supply and demand thing. Many Nigerian men are humble abroad because of the complexity involved in cheating. Hotel alone is real money.
depend the abroad when u Dey.
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by komekn(m): 7:23am On Apr 30, 2025
Why do married women break their marriage vows under Christian , Islamic principles and even according to African traditional religion CHEAT. ❓

Food for thought 🤔, Nigeria has the highest level 🎚️ of Paternity Fraud 🤥 (deliberately – misidentifies a man as the biological father )

Cheating in general is a Western construct not African and alien to our normal values, tradition and cultures.

Particularly when you consider that polygamy is an intrinsic part of African Nigerian heritage. Probably all of us are products of polygamy if not by immediate parents, then grandparents or great grandparents.
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by Ramanto(m): 7:28am On Apr 30, 2025
I told a friend that I don't cheat on my wife. He gave an "are - you - normal" look. At that moment I almost felt I was the bad person and he was the good one. But no, I came back to my senses.

I'm still gonna cheat in the long run though. I'm seeing the signs already
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by hush15: 7:49am On Apr 30, 2025
Maeve7:
A man has urges that he can control when he chooses to because he upholds strong morals. A weak man without morals can’t.
Morals can’t erase biology and it doesn't mean the man is a weak man. The women they cheat with, what does make them too? It can only help regulate as all moral do buy it's just a guide for those that can follow. The only way to correct it is to allow men marry more than one partner as long as they can take up the responsibility that follows. If you can't, please just stick to one woman.
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by YemyTemmy: 7:58am On Apr 30, 2025
Bananapill:
A disciplined bachelor will remain a disciplined husband.
I beg to disagree .... I know a friend who is very disciplined and morally upright while single, got engaged to a seemingly disciplined and upright lady too... Along the line, he caught the sister cheating ( and got to know of her terrible past life too) , he forgave and went ahead to get married to her ..... The lady started showing some awful characters in marriage, now the guy is considering cheating as a means of getting stuffs of his mind Everytime the lady misbehave at home
Re: Why Do Married Men Cheat? by Linkwire: 8:05am On Apr 30, 2025
I don’t know your lady colleague o, but I can categorically confirm to you that she’s not telling you everything . Marriage is where sex goes to die . E sure me say that her husband is sex starved . She go learn styles no mean say she no dey gatekeep sex . Women in marriage often think that sex should be once in 2 weeks and that if they try run am twice in 2 weeks then it’s a lot of sex . Again I no Sabi the lady o, but I am ready to drop 1 meter that she’s not telling the whole truth .
MONEY247:
I was speaking with a lady colleague and she shared with me a story about her husband...
According to her she said she does everything, I mean everything for her husband...
From sexual needs to food to respect to whatever you can think of...to please him.

When she discovered/suspected he was cheating she went on to learn various sexual styles, even to the extent of watching pornography... just to make the bedroom game sweet for her husband....

This man still went ahead continuing the affair outside the marriage...
She threatened to leave the marriage and call it quits when he came back to his senses...
And became the family Man...
I can tell this woman is still beautiful, she keeps herself clean and classy....

My question is this, what makes a married man to commit adultery or cheat...
Just what...
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