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Nyascobar1414:
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Woow, thank you..

Men miss out a lot in life till they die..
Women always wanna explore before getting married,but men are busy building their lives..
After having a source of income, he'll now subject himself to another life long service to the female in the name of marriage 😹.

Men are not appreciated enough..
In most cases he'll have sons that won't really value him,up until they become fathers, that's when they'll remember their dads...

Ignorance is evil😹..

Thanks for your point 👍

…and God help you if your wife is also a career woman. Between her job and her children, your needs get relegated!

Uchesis:
King Solomon was wise enough to know that one woman alone is not enough. Hence he had as many as he can....1000.


Before you talk of Solo, remember father Abraham?

How did King Solomon end?

[quote author=Gerrard59 post=135181378]Testosterone fuels a man's urge to have sex. Testosterone is what makes a man who he's.


And Estrogen is for cooking Egusi soup.

Maeve7:
Just because there are no decent men in your life and you can’t control your d.ck doesn’t mean everyone is like you and your people.

it's just a matter of time, I don't argue with dumb people

ValCon888:
Eating fried rice and chicken everyday no matter how delicious will get you tired. If one day you were offered garri and groundnut you will jump for joy.

Men easily get tired I don't know why

Valwezzy:
They don't cheat abroad?

How did you arrive at this? Any stats to back up your claim?

I don't need any stat to backuo what I didn't say.

MONEY247:
I was speaking with a lady colleague and she shared with me a story about her husband...
According to her she said she does everything, I mean everything for her husband...
From sexual needs to food to respect to whatever you can think of...to please him.

When she discovered/suspected he was cheating she went on to learn various sexual styles, even to the extent of watching pornography... just to make the bedroom game sweet for her husband....

This man still went ahead continuing the affair outside the marriage...
She threatened to leave the marriage and call it quits when he came back to his senses...
And became the family Man...
I can tell this woman is still beautiful, she keeps herself clean and classy....

My question is this, what makes a married man to commit adultery or cheat...
Just what...

Why men cheat can have a lot of reasons: some dudes are unhappy in their marriage, sometimes they're not getting enough sex or the kind of sex they want, sometimes is that their mind is twisted from porn...some dudes just love p*ssy so much that they can't think straight.

because ladies can't stop showing bwreast

YemyTemmy:
I beg to disagree .... I know a friend who is very disciplined and morally upright while single, got engaged to a seemingly disciplined and upright lady too... Along the line, he caught the sister cheating ( and got to know of her terrible past life too) , he forgave and went ahead to get married to her ..... The lady started showing some awful characters in marriage, now the guy is considering cheating as a means of getting stuffs of his mind Everytime the lady misbehave at home

He caught her cheating and still went on to marry her is the most stupid thing I have seen a disciplined man do. You can't know those past as still went on to marry her.
Let me give you a lesson if you are still single...
Love should not make you morally wrong things. Apply this and you will never marry wrong.

tiswell:
get married first before validating such incoherence

I'm married so I know what I am saying. Men or women who see red flags and still go ahead to marry such partners will face all manner of things.
Any man that can't keep to one girlfriend is prone to cheat in marriage.

jayvaliar:
It is encoded in their gene....it is a natural thing, but it takes discipline and the grace of God to avoid cheating.

Nonsense!

Bananapill:
I'm married so I know what I am saying. Men or women who see red flags and still go ahead to marry such partners will face all manner of things.
Any man that can't keep to one girlfriend is prone to cheat in marriage.

...and what happens when circumstances beyond the man's control arises from the woman,such as weaponizing sex, emotional black mail and disrespect


It's either you just got married newly or you dey disguise

lexy2014:
Off point

Are you married to a car? Yes or no

Don't worry, if a woman feels cheated on, the husband should marry a second wife., so that the feelings scan kukuma die.

Dandsome:
By nature men are not programmed to be with only one woman.
Even amongst animals, you will notice that it's one male to about 5 to 10 females.

That's why when you want to rear animals y9u bring more females to one male.

You can't cheat nature.

One man one wife is a "feminist" thing the white man brought to us by using religion to cover it up.

African men and men in general are not wired to be with one woman.

Now before you say "what if the woman cheats?", you should understand that in this case it's a man's world. Just like how when you hit a woman, the whole world will frown at you. That's a woman's world.

One funny thing is that women don't mind if you marry another wife, so far you make it known that's she's the queen mother and other cowives and sidechicks bow to her, she's fine.

Let me leave you with an illustration.

A key that can open many padlocks is a master key. A padlock that any key can open is useless.

Think about that.

If you are a Christian, have you never read the book of Proverbs? Two, are you an animal? If animals do it, then are you an animal? Aren't we supposed to be higher beings? Animals live in the bush. Why do you live in a house? If you can't cheat nature, why are you not living in the bush? If you can't cheat nature, why are you looking for modern medicine to extend your life? Why are you looking for cars to move from place to place? Nature gave you legs and stamina to move. Animals migrate on their own two feet; why do you need a car to migrate? You want to claim nature but refuse to live by nature. Nature says to live wild, why are you choosing to be civilised. Did nature give you technology? You want to modify other aspects of your life, but not your sexual urges, if you're going to live by nature do it in full.

You are right, religion and the white men brought the story of one man, one woman. Fantastic. If you don't want that, then you should not want anything the white men and religion brought. Don't want education, don't want modern medicine, don't want technology, haba, why are you even using a phone and wearing white men's cloth? Reject everything the white men and religion brought. Reject civilisation and go back to the old days and be polygamous wearing leaves and hide, working on your farm, and marrying 8 wives. You cannot eat your cake and have it. If you want to accept the white men's religion and teaching then do it in full and learn self control, you are a human being not an animal.

hush15:
Morals can’t erase biology and it doesn't mean the man is a weak man. The women they cheat with, what does make them too? It can only help regulate as all moral do buy it's just a guide for those that can follow. The only way to correct it is to allow men marry more than one partner as long as they can take up the responsibility that follows. If you can't, please just stick to one woman.

Which is biology? You knack your wife and you still look for holes where to put your prick despite the fact that you have a wife at home?

pocohantas:
It is how they drag every man into it. If they don't do that, how else do they keep conditioning Naija women to stay and pray for their wandering gbolas? 😂😂

Seriously. The audacity, it’s not even most men now, it’s all men. Weaklings.

Maeve7:
Seriously. The audacity, it’s not even most men now, it’s all men. Weaklings.

But if a woman wakes tomorrow to say ALL men cheat, they will resume another round of crying. One thing I have noticed with these ones is, they hate to think any woman has a happy marriage or good man. They would rather the shege goes round.

franchasng:
Whiteman created monogamy to control overpopulation in the world just as they created democracy. Naturally, humans don't practice democracy in community leadership just as the natural form of man don't practice monogamy.

White people didn’t create monogamy to control overpopulation, since the Catholic Church ordered monogamy in 1505 and the European population growth did not slow down until much later when they transformed from an agrarian society into an urban and industrial one.

Naturally, humans practise democracy, defined as the people having a say about how they are governed. The degree of democracy differs from one group to another and even over time in the same group based on their increasing understanding of the Social Contract. If Jews could oblige their Lord God of Israel to give them a king instead of being ruled by religious judges, then who is a mere mortal to disobey the wishes of the people he leads?

ValCon888:
Eating fried rice and chicken everyday no matter how delicious will get you tired. If one day you were offered garri and groundnut you will jump for joy.

Then why sign up to eat fried rice and chicken everyday...Not like anyone put a gun to your head to get married.

OP, you won't understand if you aren't married.
I didn't until I married last year.
I haven’t cheated nor will I cheat on my wife but I now see why married men cheat.
Marital stresses can cause quarrels and fights between spouses, and you can both not feel like doing it.
Your pregnant wife will hav all sorts of mood swings and health issues
Either of you can lose a loved one
Being broke as a husband and not being able to provide some needs will make your wife lock up
The list is endless

Samantha125:
Then we should change our marriage status into an open marriage... We agree to stay married to each other while seeing other people on the side and make it a no strings attached type of a situation.

What do you think?😃😃😃

This takes a large amount of emotional maturity and honesty that very few people have

blesdman:
Don't worry, if a woman feels cheated on, the husband should marry a second wife., so that the feelings scan kukuma die.

Are you married to a car? Yes or no

MONEY247:
I was speaking with a lady colleague and she shared with me a story about her husband...
According to her she said she does everything, I mean everything for her husband...
From sexual needs to food to respect to whatever you can think of...to please him.

When she discovered/suspected he was cheating she went on to learn various sexual styles, even to the extent of watching pornography... just to make the bedroom game sweet for her husband....

This man still went ahead continuing the affair outside the marriage...
She threatened to leave the marriage and call it quits when he came back to his senses...
And became the family Man...
I can tell this woman is still beautiful, she keeps herself clean and classy....

My question is this, what makes a married man to commit adultery or cheat...
Just what...

It's the taste of the kpekus that's the Koko,as a lady you can be neat, beautiful with good morals but if the man ever taste a sweeter kpekus ehn,lady just pray n endure ooh,n the man will never tell you this truth because no woman would take that kindly.

pocohantas:
He can easily divorce her and remarry or even stay single. Men do not benefit from marriage. So I don't see why a man would desperately clutch to a marriage to a woman who is weaponising sex. Nothing to address there. He should divorce her and remarry, stay single and enjoy himself OR marry a second wife. Own the polygamy with your full chest.

Well, it's those men who will stick to women who weaponise sex as it can never be me. As for divorce, I'm always open to it.

FameGlory:
How did King Solomon end?

“Songs of Solomon” - is this not from King Solomon.

To die and be forgotten vs to die, yet live forever?

pocohantas:
But if a woman wakes tomorrow to say ALL men cheat, they will resume another round of crying. One thing I have noticed with these ones is, they hate to think any woman has a happy marriage or good man. They would rather the shege goes round.

Yesterday the wife didn’t wear red bra, today it’s biology. Confused lot.

People(not just married men) cheat because they want to. It's a choice they choose to make.

It has nothing to do with who or what the other partner is or does. You cheat because you want to.

Gerrard59:
Well, it's those men who will stick to women who weaponise sex as it can never be me. As for divorce, I'm always open to it.

Denying ones spouse their conjugal right is actually a permissible reason for divorce. If more men explore it, maybe those wives would sit up.😈

drehdinho:
At what age did you marry if you don’t mind me asking 😊

34years old

Maeve7:
Which is biology? You knack your wife and you still look for holes where to put your prick despite the fact that you have a wife at home?

Like you said, holes are meant to be filled and that's why there is many of them more the prick that fills them. There is a reason why they are more women than men. It's like that from plants to animals since time memorial. A lion has more than one lioness. While there are single mates for life, life also accommodates those with multiple partners. Know that and know peace

hush15:
Like you said, holes are meant to be filled and that's why there is many of them more the prick that fills them. There is a reason why they are more women than men. It's like that from plants to animals since time memorial. A lion has more than one lioness. While there are single mates for life, life also accommodates those with multiple partners. Know that and know peace

To be as misinformed as you are should be a crime.