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Kobojunkie:
This isn't about rule books for marriage, but merely 5 suggestions on who to stay away from when considering marriage — red flags to note. So, are you telling us that those are not common-sense red flags that everyone, including yourself?
Huh?

Amumaigwe:
Obviously a sad woman. Teaching from her experience. Trashy post

press9jatv:
sincerely no danger in what she said. She’s very right

seunayantokun:
➜That advice could be a poison, because it may not be understood in context.
➜ Marriage is a covenant, not a contract or absolute freedom to do what you like. For Instance, while you are not expected to control your wife or husband, you've got to be in agreement with what you do with your finances and how you relate with the family each of you has come from. More so each of you has become part of each other's extended family.
➜ Everything should be done in love and peace.
➜ That's how you get rest and tranquility. But to give or live by rules and regulations, it's a recipe for disasters.

Kenelekan:
What do you know about common sense red flag in marriage?

Kenelekan:
When you get sense, come back and talk to me about marriage. You are repeating the same question I answered you on.

Kobojunkie:
Your statement was that you were telling girls....when the only girl you need to be talking to is your wife, whose particular character flaw you revealed.

2. Don't because you are not a savior to any lady out there, including your own wife, if you must know. Your woman's red flag is yours to bear since you wifed her regardlesss. Not everyone has the same red flag, and not every man has that particular issue as a red flag. Know this and gain wisdom!

Kobojunkie:
1. Won ti de! Always hiding their wickedness and ignorance behind spiricoco bullsheet!

1. Ol, boy! A covenant is a type of contract between two people, two nations, etc. Marriage is an agreement, hence a contract between two people — a man and a woman— as recognized by the state. An agreement has to be signed off on by both parties for it to be considered an agreement.

If a husband tells his wife how to eat, drink, live, make friends, or relate to her family, he is attempting to control her. If a woman tells her husband how to eat, drink, live, and make friends, or relate to his family, she is also said to be attempting to control him. If they both agree to this setup in their marriage, then they are said to agree. If, however, they do not both agree to this level of control over each other's lives, then what you have is a manipulative relationship, not love!


3. Control is not love but manipulation.

4. Peace in manipulation is not false peace but rather a storm waiting to happen.

seunayantokun:
Do your own will your own way, please.

stormborn28:
➜You always come here to yeah nonsense.. there is a saying that history repeats itself. The flaw you mentioned in my wife like a said is not only perculier to her. There are people who learnt and adjusted. Meaning they were able to change such flaws. So writing too much here here in order to argue with me is foolish

Kobojunkie:
It is peculiar to her because not all women are married to men who cook and clean. Stop pretending you are some sort of advisor or savior to other women. Focus on your wife and your problems.

Antichristian2:
See Legit Summary!

1. Anyone who attempts to take you away from your family…
2. Anyone who wants to have absolute control of the decisions you make….
3. Anyone who wants to decide how you spend your money or resources…..
4. Anyone who decides the kind of friend you have…..
5. Anyone that does not get happy at your progress…..

This one na error 404 o!

pastorarynzay:
➜No one should listen to her, any counsel that makes one the gender more important in carefulness in pick a partner is disastrous.

Antichristian2:
See Legit Summary!

1. Anyone who attempts to take you away from your family…
2. Anyone who wants to have absolute control of the decisions you make….
3. Anyone who wants to decide how you spend your money or resources…..
4. Anyone who decides the kind of friend you have…..
5. Anyone that does not get happy at your progress…..

This one na error 404 o!

Achor1111:
➜And these gibberish ...?

press9jatv:
she’s very right here

Kobojunkie:
Gibberish because to you, manipulation— the opposite of all listed— is instead your idea of what marriage is all about?

February30:
➜But, tell me why my husband would not tell me if my female friends are bad 😔? Her ideas needs balance.

Achor1111:
➜Shift pls

ppogba:
Being tied to the apron string happens each time a presumed or supposedly mature husband cries to his father for things as minor as resolving issues with his wife. It is when a wife still cries to her family house almost every weekend especially where they are in the same city for issues that can be resolved with a simple sorry or thank you.

I know what I am talking about very well.

Druss:
➜If anyone doesn't want number 3, they shouldn't get married. There must be someone in the family who gives direction on spending money else house won't grow.