₦airaland Forum

helinues:
When you are mentally and financial stable

Are you married?

Marriage is not a function of age but it is primarily a function of maturity.
The main essence of marriage is PURPOSE and you can get married when you have discovered and started working your purpose.
Then you find a partner that complements or align with your purpose.

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For women:

23 - 28

Under 23: Immature due to underdeveloped frontal lobes especially the prefrontal cortex. Ask Gen Z.

@ 23: She must have graduated and have a career goal.
@28: She is experienced and mature to handle the rigours of life.

Above 30: She is challenging God But of course, there will be outliers.

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MERCHANDISER:
Men 33
Women 23

men 30
women 25
most 23 year old women no get sense..

BUGOFF:
Once you start developing yearnings and stirrings that seem to overwhelm good reasoning and better judgement towards your family and friends because of the opposite gender, it's time.




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u mean when u become a slave to ur emotions and lust?

MERCHANDISER:
Men 33
Women 23

This is actually okay, but 30/31 is ideal for a man.

InvertedHammer:
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For women:

Under 23: Immature due to underdeveloped frontal lobes especially the prefrontal cortex. Ask Gen Z.
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Why are you like this? 🤣🥵

The right age is the age you find the right person.

Helinues is 55 with no wife and kids 😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣

People still dey marry.

Being a while i heard of anything marriage though.

As man. Age of your account balance

MERCHANDISER:
Men 33
Women 23

With the cries from Nigerian men that their would-be wives shouldn't be "liabilities", 23 is too young for the average Nigerian woman to be a wife.

Greattha:
The moment you can take care of someone else without emotion or expecting anything in return.

This hits hard 📌

When you meet the right person ✔️....too many people out there are distractions and diversions.

25-50

I will love my native hen to be 27-30

When one is mentally and financially matured..

CaveAdullam:
Mid twenties is the best - male and female.

Mid twenties - Assuming growth, development, and nurturing is optimal: quality genes, quality food, quality society, and a sustainable environment for progress and civilization. If this optimal is absent - it's good men marry at least age 35 while women at least age 30. Anything above 30s becomes reproductive risk

This is solely based on nature and biology. Reproduction at an early age secures the best genes for the next generation and gives you time to rare your offsprings well.

Thanks.

The world economy and education system no wan understand. But tomorrow, they complain of low birth rates.

Marriage has different meanings to different people, in Nigeria it basically classified into Religions and or Regions, Muslims and Christians and or North and south.
In the North, sex and Marriage are inter related and as such Early Marriage where as in the south, Pr0sti2tion, adultery and fornication is not a crime and people are into sex early in their life hence they don't marry early.
Alhamdulillah for being a Northerner and a Muslim.

Marry at the tender age of 43 yrs old

TheWebbers:
Watch how the under 30 year old unemployed guys will flood this thread and tell you how marriage is scam and how women are useless and senseless and you shouldn't get married, instead spend your money on olosho.

As for the time one should get married, it depends on a lot of factors. For women, the factors aren't much. But for a man, hmmmmm. I won't say much.

For a man, it has nothing to do with age. But for ladies, anything from 20 is fine.

Age also play a big factor, in a working system a man should get married at most by age 30, imagine getting married at age 40 God helping you have your first kid at almost 41, at age 60 your first kid will be 19yrs. This is when both of you are favored with kids immediately. Have seen couple waiting up to 5 or 10years before getting their first child


We rise by lifting others

no right age but right framed of mind.

When you meet the right person

There's no right age.
There's only right time.

For Ladies from 24

For Guys from 27

AmalaAtiEwedu:

pocohantas
When?

There is no specific age once you are old enough. No one size fits all as our lives and paths are different. I recommend when you find someone who shares same marriage and family values with you. You two must be ready to fund these values, emotionally, physically and financially.

For a set of people who tend to despise their spouses, Nigerians are so obsessed with WHEN, rather than the quality of their marriages.

Marriage is not just something you tick from your bucket list.

Once the man get stable income to be able to feed a woman and pay children school feed ..as for women, when she don wise to carry baby and teach children morals she is ripe. Aside these two qualities, don't marry

45 no wife no job.
Still living with my parents

40- male
30- Female

Or

21- Male
18- Female

Man- by 20years old
Woman- younger