I have a niece who lives with me.She loves hanging out with boys(sometimes within her age or older men).And I will like to discuss the way of life with her cos as it is she needs someone to feed her with advice.She is just 17yrs and I think she is still a virgin.Share me your opinions or ideas on how to lecture her.

HammedOlanaija:
I have a niece who lives with me.She loves hanging out with boys(sometimes within her age or older men).And I will like to discuss the way of life with her cos as it is she needs someone to feed her with advice.She is just 17yrs and I think she is still a virgin.Share me your opinions or ideas on how to lecture her.

Whatever age the person marries. Virginity is not a sport.

Ladylite:


Whatever age the person marries. Virginity is not a sport.

I don't understand your drift sir

HammedOlanaija:

I don't understand your drift sir

Did your parents teach you that virginity should be lost before marriage?

Your topic and question is not really making any sense.

Came to book space...






And over to the person below me to

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Marriage is the only proper time and place to loose, and not necessarily loose, but give your virginity to your spouse.

........and i think she is still a virgin.


Okay ooo

Ladylite:


Did your parents teach you that virginity should be lost before marriage?

Your topic and question is not really making any sense.

Of course since you lost yours at the age 14

HammedOlanaija:

Of course since you lost yours at the age 14

At 9 by my dad.

Ladylite:


At 9 by my dad.

Wtf! Oh shit.....am really sorry for my previous comment

Ladylite:


At 9 by my dad.

This is really a huge case like it's beyond extreme.

Frankly speaking, no amount of preaching will stop her from having sex. Teenagers have a rebellious streak. So be more realistic in your approach & make sure you also touch on the subject of responsibility eg. The importance of protecting herself against unwanted pregnancy & STIs.

HammedOlanaija:
I have a niece who lives with me.She loves hanging out with boys(sometimes within her age or older men).And I will like to discuss the way of life with her cos as it is she needs someone to feed her with advice.She is just 17yrs and I think she is still a virgin.Share me your opinions or ideas on how to lecture her.

One should lose his or her Virginity the moment one is ready and stable enough to become a parent. Who ever is indulging in sexual intercourse without the intention of being responsible is mistaken. I know condoms and all sort of preventive measure is available but before diseases and family planning came in.

Sex was the moment you are able to be a mother of a father to a child. Materially, spiritually, mental stress and financially.

So you have to tell your little sis to make the analysis of these things and how ready she is concerning them.

Secondly, having sexual intercourse changes your social Psychology of how you relate with people, that aside the complexity of STD, STI and self worth must be accurately considered.

I didn’t stress on virginity in my write up because I just see it as a concept

Ladylite:


At 9 by my dad.

are you serious?

You have to caution her very well

Let her know that her virginity is the most valuable gift she is reserving for her future husband and the husband will respect her the more.

Virginity is not to be lost till your wedding night

for girl; wedding night and for boy; 22 yrs & above

that's your wedding night now irrespective of the age you get married.

no be private part dem dey call that place again ni or which kain generation be this oooooooo

Descorts:
are you serious?

This is the very first time I am going chat with someone that was raped.And not even by a stranger,her father wow!
Some fathers are wicked and even she still grew up with the abuse.And I don't even think that her father has been ever arrested for the crime he committed till date

personal59:
that's your wedding night now irrespective of the age you get married.

no be private part dem dey call that place again ni or which kain generation be this oooooooo

The person that called it private part is already died and has carried his private part definition to heaven.You don't seem to know this kids and that is the more reason why I need to lesson her irrespective of whatever it is she might bump into one of this young guys and I don't even think that's all right.And that's the more reason why I need someone else notion or idea

HammedOlanaija:

This is the very first time I am going chat with someone that was raped.And not even by a stranger,her father wow!
Some fathers are wicked and even she still grew up with the abuse.And I don't even think that her father has been ever arrested for the crime he committed till date

I still doubt if she was serious when she said that.

Descorts:
I still doubt if she was serious when she said that.

Exactly. That reply is sarcastic jare

Ladylite:


At 9 by my dad.

And I oop!

When so many ladies mouth have been disvirgined

I really wish I had someone that talked to me concerning this

HammedOlanaija:

Wtf! Oh shit.....am really sorry for my previous comment

And you think she is serious?

lastclaire4:


And you think she is serious?

Maybe I think she is serious,because she refused to comment on this section after she said that

HammedOlanaija:

Maybe I think she is serious,because she refused to comment on this section after she said that

She just got u. Do you want to hear from me?

lastclaire4:


She just got u. Do you want to hear from me?

That's crazy....it was like the most thunderous reply have ever gotten

HammedOlanaija:

That's crazy....it was like the most thunderous reply have ever gotten

Lol now you know. People can tell you things in different ways. Some may term it as rudeness.

lastclaire4:

Lol now you know. People can tell you things in different ways. Some may term it as rudeness.

Oh! I got it...That was what I thought at first
But I was like what if this was truly real....and I even went on to check her profile
She was talking about something pertaining to stuffs like that

Ehen.?

the Lord and Allah can never be wrong.

the Lord and Allah said keep yourself chaste till you marry and that sex is for married folks only, you said no and you're here asking questions.

na you Sabi o. please go and fvck if you want to. it's your body. doesn't matter whether 14 or 34. have fun if you want to.