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Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Obavoh(op): 8:46am On May 03, 2025

Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built.

We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family.

The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I.

The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy.

I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife.

Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped.

I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness.

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Educationalserv: 8:50am On May 03, 2025

Obavoh:
Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built.

We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family.

The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I.

The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy.

I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife.

Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped.

I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness.

after 7 kids you never retire .

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Nobody: 9:07am On May 03, 2025

Educationalserv:
after 7 kids you never retire .

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Nobody: 9:07am On May 03, 2025

Obavoh:
Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built.

We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family.

The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I.

The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy.

I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife.

Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped.

I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness.

is tinubu part of your misfortunes angry

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Obavoh(op): 9:09am On May 03, 2025*

Sharpsharp00123:
u are a typical example of the saying that "the only thing that controls a poor man is his prick"

After 7 children n in abject poverty u are still thinking of touching your wife?

Don't u think of how u will get a better life n take care of your children?

Don't u think of your future and that of your children?

Thank you for the insult sir.

My wife and Children are living the best life I can give. We are not hungry we are not suffering.

I earn 150,000 Naira monthly and take good care of my family for your information.

See our dinner last night. None of my children goes to bed with an empty stomach

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Nobody: 9:11am On May 03, 2025

Obavoh:
Glory be to God

go get yourself a job and fix your life

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by emillysmigael(f): 9:26am On May 03, 2025

Obavoh:
Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built.

We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family.

The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I.

The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy.

I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife.

Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped.

I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness.

I really understand your frustration about this... I pray God blesses you more so that you can get a more suitable apartment.
You guys should manage for now, it is all a matter of time.

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Nobody: 9:51am On May 03, 2025

emillysmigael:
I really understand your frustration about this... I pray God blesses you more so that you can get a more suitable apartment.
You guys should manage for now, it is all a matter of time.

he should manage with 7 children for tinubu period

Just lol 😂

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Sharpsharp00123: 9:58am On May 03, 2025

Obavoh:
Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built.

We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family.

The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I.

The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy.

I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife.

Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped.

I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness.

u are a typical example of the saying that "the only thing that controls a poor man is his prick"

After 7 children n in abject poverty u are still thinking of touching your wife?

Don't u think of how u will get a better life n take care of your children?

Don't u think of your future and that of your children?

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Sharpsharp00123: 10:00am On May 03, 2025

emillysmigael:
I really understand your frustration about this... I pray God blesses you more so that you can get a more suitable apartment.
You guys should manage for now, it is all a matter of time.

that guy go still give him wife belle before d end of this year

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Hopss(m): 10:29am On May 03, 2025

please obavoh I beg you in the name of what ever you believe in, give your self a break from child bearing and concentrate on training your seven children.

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Dopeboy8701(m): 10:39am On May 03, 2025

Since u refused family planning, the bandits have help u plan ur family.

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by DeltaBachelor(m): 10:41am On May 03, 2025

lol. Suffer nor dey tire poor man

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Oloki: 10:44am On May 03, 2025

Educationalserv:
after 7 kids you never retire .

I tire o... 7kids in this regime and if care is not taking, he will still add another one.

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by jmoore(m): 10:48am On May 03, 2025

Obavoh:
Glory be to God

Hallelujah

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by ChybuzzDD(m): 11:07am On May 03, 2025

Firebox123:
is tinubu part of your misfortunes

Yes, the clueless and incompetent drug.lord is part of his misfortunes by running the country down.

I once came across some Arab men in Qatar with over 9 children each and they had no problems feeding their families and building houses.

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Jozilinn: 11:08am On May 03, 2025

Obavoh:
Thank you for the insult sir.

My wife and Children are living the best life I can give. We are not hungry we are not suffering.

I earn 150,000 Naira monthly and take good care of my family for your information.

See our dinner last night. None of my children goes to bed with an empty stomach

150k in these era is nothing my cousin sister's kids are paying almost 60k per term for school fees and you have 7 kids.
Are they going to school? Instead of sex try think of another thing if that you and your wife didn't make it obvious say una get konji the landlord wouldn't have intervened.

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by ChybuzzDD(m): 11:10am On May 03, 2025

Firebox123:
go get yourself a job and fix your life

He has a job already where he earns 150k/month

What's your own job?

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by azelab: 12:08pm On May 03, 2025

God will pave you through the challenges, my advise for you is that , allow your wife to also go into small business so as to relief the burden on you likewise try to get a room and parlour self contained even if it is little far away to your present residence...... So as to secure a low cost house to rent and it will also assist you to satisfy the nature.

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by LordIsaac(m): 12:47pm On May 03, 2025

7 Souls...+ your wife= 8! Behold the problem of Nigeria! Guy why?

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Houseofglam7(f): 12:50pm On May 03, 2025

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Nobody: 1:12pm On May 03, 2025

ChybuzzDD:
He has a job already where he earns 150k/month

What's your own job?

150k can manage 7 children in Nigeria now

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Ouchbabe(f): 1:14pm On May 03, 2025

Obavoh:
Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built.

We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family.

The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I.

The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy.

I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife.

Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped.

I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness.

I feel your pain sir, God will make a way.
I don't know about you but if I were in your shoes, the last thing on my mind would have been sex.

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Nobody: 1:21pm On May 03, 2025

Ouchbabe:
I feel your pain sir, God will make a way.
I don't know about you but if I were in your shoes, the last thing on my mind would have been sex.

can you be his second wife grin

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