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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by obatreasure: 1:28pm On May 03, 2025

After 7 children, you still wan show love to your wife. you better work toward a better life for the family

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Sharpsharp00123: 1:30pm On May 03, 2025

Obavoh:
Thank you for the insult sir.

My wife and Children are living the best life I can give. We are not hungry we are not suffering.

I earn 150,000 Naira monthly and take good care of my family for your information.

See our dinner last night. None of my children goes to bed with an empty stomach

ok

I hear u

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by papyjaypaul: 1:30pm On May 03, 2025

Is Super Story still on Thursdays? The landlord is jealous of the love though, a couple who bath together bond together.

I believe people who scare you when you can have many children are fear mongers. They have never been there. They are academic analysts. If you can take care of those kids, ride on sir. Nothing do you, na man you be. If dem do conference of Many Men, you and Elon go attend with your many children. You are a great man. You are fulfilling God's instructions to man. All those people, please ignore them. The only people you should listen to are those who have had 5 or more children like you. The world keeps wondering how you do it, that's the world we live in today. Lily livered generation that want to blame Tinubu or whoever is in power for their own irresponsibility when your parents had many kids fighting World Wars and recessions 🤡

God is faithful those who have faith in him. As long as you are responsible, you will keep providing for your family. I know this. Men are scared of marriage because of kids but it's those kids that will force them into becoming men, don't let fear be your enemy and comfort be your friend.

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Shidinky: 1:30pm On May 03, 2025

person dey find cashout lol grin

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Bobloco: 1:30pm On May 03, 2025

Firebox123:
is tinubu part of your misfortunes

Tinubu brings misfortune

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by VaginaAcademic: 1:31pm On May 03, 2025

Na God put you for that room make your children no reach 14 grin

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by RealityKings1: 1:31pm On May 03, 2025

Naa you be the real General Manager

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by 7arrows: 1:31pm On May 03, 2025

So what do you want us to do? I don't get it.

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Guyman02: 1:31pm On May 03, 2025

Educationalserv:
after 7 kids you never retire .

He is part of the problem from northern Nigeria. His wife is less than 28 years with 7 children and he wants to impregnate her again in one room apartment

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by RaptorX: 1:32pm On May 03, 2025

He said my Growing Family, so my guy is not done yet

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by SeaTrade(m): 1:32pm On May 03, 2025

Firebox123:
go get yourself a job and fix your life

He didn't ask you for anything.
And who says success/fulfillment has to be by your definition?
Allow people live their lives on their own terms.

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Sonofgod1990(m): 1:32pm On May 03, 2025

Obavoh:
Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built.

We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family.

The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I.

The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy.

I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife.

Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped.

I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness.

It's ok i feel your pain. I will help you with something so you can get 2 bedroom. God is your strength

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by VaginaAcademic: 1:33pm On May 03, 2025*

Obavoh:
Thank you for the insult sir.

My wife and Children are living the best life I can give. We are not hungry we are not suffering.

I earn 150,000 Naira monthly and take good care of my family for your information.

See our dinner last night. None of my children goes to bed with an empty stomach

water water soup guy stop fvcking on top 150k salary I earn more than that with 1 kid yet it's not enough let alone someone with battalion grin

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Smartwave: 1:33pm On May 03, 2025

Obavoh:
Thank you for the insult sir.

My wife and Children are living the best life I can give. We are not hungry we are not suffering.

I earn 150,000 Naira monthly and take good care of my family for your information.

See our dinner last night. None of my children goes to bed with an empty stomach

And you are in single room 😂?

Seven children + #150, 000, good life in a single room huh

?

I don't understand your definition of good life again.

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Guyman02: 1:35pm On May 03, 2025

donmixc:
immediately i see this thread on FP, I know it must be you. stop embarrassing the northerners, i can swear with my life you're from the south

He's from Benue State

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Coly2012(m): 1:35pm On May 03, 2025

The poster never said he wants more children, he is only tired of not having good and private time with the wife, Abe one can't enjoy his wife again without make her pregnant?

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Kobicove(m): 1:36pm On May 03, 2025

Please continue having kids like rats until you get to 14 grin

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by lexy2014: 1:36pm On May 03, 2025

Educationalserv:
after 7 kids you never retire .

Should having kids stop couples from having sex?

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by lexy2014: 1:37pm On May 03, 2025

Smartwave:
And you are in single room 😂?

Seven children + #150, 000, good life in a single room?

I don't understand your definition of good life again.

Did you read his initial post?

What is your definition of good life?

Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by QuinQ: 1:37pm On May 03, 2025

Educationalserv:
after 7 kids you never retire .

Kid number 8 loading... in one room!

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by kennisman(m): 1:37pm On May 03, 2025

He must be an Aboki man wink

Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Nobody: 1:38pm On May 03, 2025

Sincerely, adequate education will make one plan his future properly.

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by treatise: 1:38pm On May 03, 2025

Educationalserv:
after 7 kids you never retire .

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Nobody: 1:39pm On May 03, 2025

lexy2014:
Should having kids stop couples from having sex?

no, but he ought to have gone for family planning.

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by NybenSBF101(m): 1:39pm On May 03, 2025

I am imagining doggy style inside the bathroom. . You need privacy, save up and move to another house.

For those 'you never tire gang', touching his wife doesn't mean she will get pregnant.

I have two kids and I don't use since we got married for over 5 years

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by onuman: 1:40pm On May 03, 2025

Obavoh:
Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built.

We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family.

The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I.

The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy.

I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife.

Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped.

I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness.

Lost romance. You should be grateful that bandits spared your family.
Anyway, bandits are offshoots of Boko Haram fighting for a Nigeria to be governed with Sharia criminal laws; the same unconstitutional Sharia criminal laws adopted by the political and religious leaders of the 12 Sharia states in far Northern Nigeria.

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by GloriousGbola: 1:40pm On May 03, 2025

Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Guyman02: 1:40pm On May 03, 2025

Coly2012:
The poster never said he wants more children, he is only tired of not having good and private time with the wife, Abe one can't enjoy his wife again without make her pregnant?

That guy has been on Nairaland for years and people have advised him about family planning severally but he keeps popping out kids with his wife he married as under age after impregnating her as a secondary school student.
Many people here know his story and he used to post pictures of them before

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by lexy2014: 1:42pm On May 03, 2025

Sharpsharp00123:
u are a typical example of the saying that "the only thing that controls a poor man is his prick"

After 7 children n in abject poverty u are still thinking of touching your wife?

Don't u think of how u will get a better life n take care of your children?

Don't u think of your future and that of your children?

Where in his post does it suggest that he is living in abject poverty?

If you say "the only thing that controls a poor man is his prick", are you saying that rich men are celibate?

Where do all these jobless small girls and so called female celebrities get money to buy hair, expensive phones and to do butt lift?

Who are those they call "big gods"?

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Eriokanmi: 1:42pm On May 03, 2025

Sharpsharp00123:
that guy go still give him wife belle before d end of this year

...and a woman will never say no, once belle come. Our women are wonderful. They're never afraid, dunno why

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Procashtips(m): 1:42pm On May 03, 2025

I hope you are using protection during sex with madam?

Don't mind those asking you to stop making love to madam o but make sure you add no more baby to the current equation.

Lastly, what's the plan towards your 2 bedroom house? Do you plan going back?

Why not sell if its in a place worth it, then go to a safer place to build?

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