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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by QuinQ: 2:05pm On May 03, 2025*

donmixc:
yes

Firebox123:
ignore that moniker

Who do I believe now?

I think I'll go with the first guy. Obavoh's stories have to be mostly cleverly made-up with a tiny grain of truth. Nobody who has his income and time constraints will have the time and phone to be doing all these postings. Simply NOT possible

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Sagefromtheeast: 2:09pm On May 03, 2025

Family planning

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by jayce232: 2:13pm On May 03, 2025

Before I opened the thread, I was certain it must be the op grin

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Emeskhalifa(m): 2:13pm On May 03, 2025

Oloki:
I tire o... 7kids in this regime and if care is not taking, he will still add another one.

The wife is to be blamed. If the husband doesn't know when to stop, what about her?

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Emeskhalifa(m): 2:18pm On May 03, 2025

7arrows:
So what do you want us to do? I don't get it.

It won't be a bad idea to help them pay for a room and parlour even if na for 1 year. So that the man will be able to raise some money to pay up for subsequent years

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by simpleseyi: 2:19pm On May 03, 2025

Educationalserv:
after 7 kids you never retire .

Person dey retire from fuccking? It’s till death nah. But as for his 7 kids, that’s how people nurture poverty

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Coly2012(m): 2:21pm On May 03, 2025

Hahahahah so the guy na family section customer, what a 21st century hole piper

Guyman02:
That guy has been on Nairaland for years and people have advised him about family planning severally but he keeps popping out kids with his wife he married as under age after impregnating her as a secondary school student.
Many people here know his story and he used to post pictures of them before

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Roozay007: 2:23pm On May 03, 2025

All in do time. Try to save and move to a two room or better still rent out your house in the village. Life can only get better from here on out.

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Twoclans(f): 2:26pm On May 03, 2025

If I write what is in my mind nairaland will delete my comment . angry

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Seyi8750: 2:26pm On May 03, 2025

Educationalserv:
after 7 kids you never retire .

people get mind

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by VicM6: 2:28pm On May 03, 2025

Obavoh:
Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built.

We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family.

The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I.

The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy.

I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife.

Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped.

I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness.

7 kids....abeg u wan sell them for Temu or Jumia ni.......Nawa o, later now u go blame one government administration for ur misfortune....
It's okay, continue.....a lame man never learns

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Hyper80(m): 2:30pm On May 03, 2025

Obavoh:
Thank you for the insult sir.

My wife and Children are living the best life I can give. We are not hungry we are not suffering.

I earn 150,000 Naira monthly and take good care of my family for your information.

See our dinner last night. None of my children goes to bed with an empty stomach

are you sure your wife and 7 children are living the "best life" with your #150k?

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by FearlessYoruba: 2:31pm On May 03, 2025

In all these your problems, your prick still dey rise? grin

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Y2k2024: 2:37pm On May 03, 2025

That's life, may God see you thru bro

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Englishisamust: 2:39pm On May 03, 2025

Dopeboy8701:
Since u refused family planning, the bandits have help u plan ur family.

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by tishbite41(m): 2:44pm On May 03, 2025

donmixc:
immediately i see this thread on FP, I know it must be you. stop embarrassing the northerners, i can swear with my life you're from the south

It is your first sentence for me
grin

It was the same feeling I had and I was absolutely correct

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Agentsalt: 2:44pm On May 03, 2025

lexy2014:
Should having kids stop couples from having sex?

The only sensible comment here

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Angelfrost(m): 2:45pm On May 03, 2025

Jozilinn:
150k in these era is nothing my cousin sister's kids are paying almost 60k per term for school fees and you have 7 kids.
Are they going to school? Instead of sex try think of another thing if that you and your wife didn't make it obvious say una get konji the landlord wouldn't have intervened.

Out of curiosity... What does "cousin sister" mean?!!

Is she the sister of your cousin?!!

If that's the case, then why not just say "my cousin"?!!

When and how did such poor grammar become so common place among Nigerian youths, even the educated ones?!!

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Bar1941(m): 2:48pm On May 03, 2025

7 children, only you?

People dey try oooo

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Kizolalah82: 2:49pm On May 03, 2025

Hmmm boss 7 for this economy plenty o.

But in as much you don’t beg to feed them.
May God provide for you ✅

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by buzmanjohn(m): 2:49pm On May 03, 2025

Romance after 7 children grin

Obavoh:
Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built.

We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family.

The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I.

The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy.

I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife.

Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped.

I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness.

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by yemre: 2:52pm On May 03, 2025

Firebox123:
150k can manage 7 children in Nigeria now

@20k per head monthly (feeding, clothing, toiletries, medicals, education...and many more!

I pray God opens your eyes to see the implications of what you have done so you will be able to stop childbearing and focus on generating more income, empowering your wife to contribute financially to the family fortune and concentrate on giving the seven children sound education.

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by porthouse7(f): 2:54pm On May 03, 2025

Obavoh:
Thank you for the insult sir.

My wife and Children are living the best life I can give. We are not hungry we are not suffering.

I earn 150,000 Naira monthly and take good care of my family for your information.

See our dinner last night. None of my children goes to bed with an empty stomach

150k with 7 children and wife, are you sure you are ok with suck income? Abi na weekly

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by alyarmouk(m): 2:54pm On May 03, 2025

😁😁. I for like see your face... 7 kids and romance still dey ur dictionary

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by uzomakanaki(m): 2:54pm On May 03, 2025

Did you just say, you're taking good care of your family of 7kids with 150k salary?

Obavoh:
Thank you for the insult sir.

My wife and Children are living the best life I can give. We are not hungry we are not suffering.

I earn 150,000 Naira monthly and take good care of my family for your information.

See our dinner last night. None of my children goes to bed with an empty stomach

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Singhabele: 2:56pm On May 03, 2025

Obavoh:
Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built.

We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family.

The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I.

Suprise u still looking 4 opportunity to nack in ur one room. U should loose election if wat u say is true u need go out and hassle and change d story

The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy.

I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife.

Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped.

I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness.

Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Osanoghodua1: 2:57pm On May 03, 2025

What state is this if I may ask?

I guess Benue or Plateau?

May God intervene, you can try renting 2 rooms, even if they are passage house so you can be getting maximum pleasure from your wife. You should ensure to go for family planning or be using protection

May God intervene in your case in Jesus name.

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Rexymania(m): 2:57pm On May 03, 2025

You too like toto....me in duh tire

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by DMCY: 2:57pm On May 03, 2025

Obavoh:
Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built.

We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family.

The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I.

The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy.

I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife.

Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped.

I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness.

7 kids

Omo! How do you guys cope?
In this 9ja 7 kids?? Omo mehn! You gats retire from birthing kids o, cause the economy is not favorable at all…

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Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by DIVINEEVIDENCE: 2:57pm On May 03, 2025

Obavoh:
Thank you for the insult sir.

My wife and Children are living the best life I can give. We are not hungry we are not suffering.

I earn 150,000 Naira monthly and take good care of my family for your information.

See our dinner last night. None of my children goes to bed with an empty stomach

Baba which state are you in?

I'll really love to know your state if 150k can comfortably take care of a family of 9 people for a month.

You sound like a very responsible man.

Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Rexymania(m): 3:00pm On May 03, 2025

Firebox123:
150k can manage 7 children in Nigeria now

I'm earning close to that amount, but I can tell you it difficult to run it with my wife and I, including our son

Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by Hueyreckless0007: 3:00pm On May 03, 2025

With the situation of the country, a reasonable person shouldn’t have more than 2 kids.

Ure talking of 7 kids, living in a one room apartment? Must you bring them to this world to suffer? Nawa for you oga.

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