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bigpicture001:
Dat lady is gas not cheated yet... Sh is being worked on by a man... Dt is why I told oo, to stop the Mickey mouse game ND confront your wife...

Sh is. Not ur gf, tell her straight what's up ND how it will end for the two of u.. sh will quickly realize ND fall in line....

See, I have seen very very well behaved men who fall for ladies that are very charming ND good .. it will take the intervention of his wife to bring him back to his senses......

In marriage even one help the other, both work on the marriage not one person... I know what u wanted was a Nigerian way action..

Conclude in her

Beat her shege

Send her packing

Drag the children

Bar her from ever seeing the children... Etc

Omoh, life no b like that..

You are being realistic and that's realist act
But women are delusional and will want to play fast one

If you dig.....

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Oga the woman na your wife if you don't like what she's doing ya better tell her and warn her to be careful..

Only a jobless woman will have time for chatting..

bigpicture001:
Dat lady is gas not cheated yet... Sh is being worked on by a man... Dt is why I told oo, to stop the Mickey mouse game ND confront your wife...

Sh is. Not ur gf, tell her straight what's up ND how it will end for the two of u.. sh will quickly realize ND fall in line....

...u keep making it look like she's a puppet that can be controlled by any man......She's being worked on by a man because she allowed it
..... temptation at the end of the day needs our permission....

Person wey go hotel go fvck passed by many bus stops and traffic.....there is enough time to always so no to wrong doing....

.no one worked on anybody....it's the desire or lust in our heart that we all fall for once we refuse to build discipline against it.....

bigpicture001:
Stop doing detective in ur own home... Call her to order .... Women are like that once a while they get carried away, they are like babies.. u keep keeping them on track...

OP, this is the best answer to your question. End of discussion.

Why is your wife chatting with him in the first place? How did he got your wife's number? And lastly, why are you here on nairaland asking us, when your wife should be the one asking us ?

The very fact that you took it as your job to sort this out, instead of your wife knowing that she is crossing a very dangerous line, goes to show the kind of man that you are.

NEWBIN:
There is a man my wife has been talking to
The last time I checked, he messaged my wife with the heart ❤️ emoji. When my wife raised concerned about the use of the heart emoji the man replied that it was because he loved her. My wife indicated that she didn't want that emoji. Meanwhile she keeps chatting him and calls him regularly. Recently she told him that I had travelled. Can I trust my wife? What's your advice

She's about to cheat on you

NEWBIN:
➜There is a man my wife has been talking to
The last time I checked, he messaged my wife with the heart ❤️ emoji. When my wife raised concerned about the use of the heart emoji the man replied that it was because he loved her. My wife indicated that she didn't want that emoji. Meanwhile she keeps chatting him and calls him regularly. Recently she told him that I had travelled. Can I trust my wife? What's your advice

Why are you asking us these questions when you should be directing your concerns and questions at your wife? Only you two can decide whether it is time for you two to quit the relationship and move on to seek happiness elsewhere. It is OK to realize that you are no longer happy in your current relationship and are probably better off seeking happiness outside of it.

NEWBIN:
There is a man my wife has been talking to
The last time I checked, he messaged my wife with the heart ❤️ emoji. When my wife raised concerned about the use of the heart emoji the man replied that it was because he loved her. My wife indicated that she didn't want that emoji. Meanwhile she keeps chatting him and calls him regularly. Recently she told him that I had travelled. Can I trust my wife? What's your advice

Some of you are funny

NEWBIN:
There is a man my wife has been talking to
The last time I checked, he messaged my wife with the heart ❤️ emoji. When my wife raised concerned about the use of the heart emoji the man replied that it was because he loved her. My wife indicated that she didn't want that emoji. Meanwhile she keeps chatting him and calls him regularly. Recently she told him that I had travelled. Can I trust my wife? What's your advice

What is the purpose of the man in her life when she has you.

Na like so e dey start. The longer their relationship, the more vulnerable your wife becomes and just one day, she will loose guard and he will knack her stupidly.

At this point, he is gradually testing his boundaries and expanding them in her consciousness. Very soon, that love emoji will mean something to her. Women love attention and he is giving it to her in quantum!!

Not long, he will start asking to see her in person and not just chatting on phone. A harmless meeting after he gains her trust will over time turn to a fantasy of intercourse!!

Uproot this plant before it gains stand!!

Farrason:
➜What is the purpose of the man in her life when she has you. Na like so e dey start. The longer their relationship, the more vulnerable your wife becomes and just one day, she will loose guard and he will knack her stupidly. At this point, he is gradually testing his boundaries and expanding them in her consciousness. Very soon, that love emoji will mean something to her. Women love attention and he is giving it to her in quantum!! Not long, he will start asking to see her in person and not just chatting on phone. A harmless meeting after he gains her trust will over time turn to a fantasy of intercourse!! Uproot this plant before it gains stand!!

If a husband starts talking to a woman outside of his marriage, is it equally up to his wife to uproot the plant before it gains a stand? Will the wife also need to take it on herself to uproot every other plant around her husband?

Kobojunkie:
If a husband starts talking to a woman outside of his marriage, is it equally up to his wife to uproot the plant before it gains a stand? Will the wife also need to take it on herself to uproot every other plant around her husband?

I believe this question is open to all for insightful responses. Let's chill and wait.

Farrason:
➜I believe this question is open to all for insightful responses. Let's chill and wait.

Hold you! Earlier, you had insinuated that it is the husband's place to uproot all of the plants in his wife's life. Why do you not equally insist that the wife must do the same to those roots in her husband's life?

NEWBIN:
There is a man my wife has been talking to
The last time I checked, he messaged my wife with the heart ❤️ emoji. When my wife raised concerned about the use of the heart emoji the man replied that it was because he loved her. My wife indicated that she didn't want that emoji. Meanwhile she keeps chatting him and calls him regularly. Recently she told him that I had travelled. Can I trust my wife? What's your advice

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