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owobokiri:
➜Could be they're buying stuff for their baby

Imagine ooo!

Zanzibar1:
Generally women don't believe in helping men. Naa men Try help and impress them.

Try not to fall short of funds o

Learnt the lesson the hard way

DrAda:
I find it interesting that he is announcing to the entire world that he gave her 2000 dollars last week. Looks manipulative to me.
➜ Nevertheless, if she had the money, the least she could have done was to help pay for the groceries. It's only ten dollars.

That was his intention, hence the reason why the other guy didn't think to comment at all.

2. You don't have that friend who always seems to need a quick $5 or $10 from you but never remembers to pay you back?

owobokiri:
Could be they're buying stuff for their baby

Yeah but you can hear him say she is supposed to be my girl..and clearly she controls the relationship so that makes him a simp..because she has been doing him dirty for a long time and he still with her calling her his girl..see international embarrassment.

torqque7:
Obviously the guy is a SIMP na..the girl even saying she don't give a fvkc..

something wey I go don drop some of the things I pick.life no hard nah

Diswan is a learner o.
If u like buy private jet for her yesterday, and test herby trying to borrow money today, na day time u go know say everything wey u give woman u are in a relationship with, idi ti je (nyansh don chop am)!

Women don't have d same appreciation index like men. Las-las she go tell u, "izit bcus u bought me jet yesterday??"

As a matter of fact, the more a female likes you, d less she expects from you. So if you think you can buy her loyalty with money, you're on a long thing.

torqque7:
Obviously the guy is a SIMP na..the girl even saying she don't give a fvkc..

It's simp to be responsible? You mean you can't give woman money? Some if you here behind the internet and talk trash.

You can give ur woman money so long as you don't expect her to reciprocate your kind gesture, so that you don't get disappointed.

Women by nature are very very selfish. The only being a woman loves unconditionally is her children. She can tell her husband she doesn't have $1 but she can go to d ends of the earth to borrow $1 million for her son.

Women have been conditioned to believe that their responsibility belongs to their husbands and not the other way round.

If u as a man is interested in "returns on investment", then give to your male friends. They won't disappoint you in the day of trouble. Give only what you can afford to dash to a woman so as to avoid stories that touch like the man in this story.

yommen:
It's simp to be responsible? You mean you can't give woman money? Some if you here behind the internet and talk trash.

Our papa then get sense die.... simps recently na mugu

lowkeybahdguy:
Bro to bro.. All women are selfish. Women do not give unconditionally. Even world acclaimed mothers. Pray to never see proof of this statement.

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chibuikejohn:
Its not about wrong or right woman, women are naturally selfish in nature when it comes to their man. once she opens her legs for you she feels she has repaid any gesture. we are always on our own which is why you must save for days like this.

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RevenuesBoost:
➜She's been selfish from birth. A woman that's a giver will gladly help

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richie240:
You can give ur woman money so long as you don't expect her to reciprocate your kind gesture, so that you don't get disappointed.Women by nature are very very selfish. The only being a woman loves unconditionally is her children. She can tell her husband she doesn't have $1 but she can go to d ends of the earth to borrow $1 million for her son.
Women have been conditioned to believe that their responsibility belongs to their husbands and not the other way round. If u as a man is interested in "returns on investment", then give to your male friends. They won't disappoint you in the day of trouble. Give only what you can afford to dash to a woman so as to avoid stories that touch like the man in this story.

This is 2025, stop telling these obvious lies for check likes! Science has already proven that women are not born selfish by nature, nor are they rewarded by their brains when they attempt selfishness. Instead, it is the male brain that rewards selfishness.

https://www.today.com/health/brain-rewards-women-being-nicer-men-being-selfish-t117305

jetguy:
The worst thing that will ever happened to any man under this sun, is to meet (chose)a wrong woman as a partner

God abeg oo 🤦

Such stinginess from wives is very owinful

jetguy:
The worst thing that will ever happened to any man under this sun, is to meet (chose)a wrong woman as a partner

God abeg oo 🤦

A bad wife will cut your lifespan by half

Hehehehehe......the only time you can hear a woman reason logically in situations such as this is when her married son/brother is involved. Every thing she had stood for will be reversed sharperlly.

Why do you think mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law don't get along in almost all cases? It's because she fears the d-i-L will put her son thru the same hell she herself put all the men in her life through.

As the saying goes, "it's only a thief that best knows how to catch a thief".

I won't go back-and-forth with you. When your son marry na dt time your aiz go clear.

Kobojunkie:
......... This is 2025, stop telling these obvious lies for check likes! Science has already proven that women are not born selfish by nature, nor are they rewarded by their brains when they attempt selfishness. Instead, it is the male brain that rewards selfishness.

https://www.today.com/health/brain-rewards-women-being-nicer-men-being-selfish-t117305

Kobojunkie:
Spare me the bullsheet story telling— illogical cho cho cho! Again, This is 2025, stop telling these obvious lies for check likes! Science has already proven that women are not born selfish by nature, nor are they rewarded by their brains when they attempt selfishness. Instead, it is the male brain that rewards selfishness.

https://www.today.com/health/brain-rewards-women-being-nicer-men-being-selfish-t117305

richie240:
➜Hehehehehe......the only time you can hear a woman reason logically in situations such as this is when her married son/brother is involved. Every thing she had stood for will be reversed sharperlly. Why do you think mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law don't get along in almost all cases? It's because she fears the d-i-L will put her son thru the same hell she herself put all the men in her life through. As the saying goes, "it's only a thief that best knows how to catch a thief". I won't go back-and-forth with you. When your son marry na day time your aiz go clear.

Spare me the bullsheet story telling— illogical cho cho cho! Again, This is 2025, stop telling these obvious lies for check likes! Science has already proven that women are not born selfish by nature, nor are they rewarded by their brains when they attempt selfishness. Instead, it is the male brain that rewards selfishness.

https://www.today.com/health/brain-rewards-women-being-nicer-men-being-selfish-t117305

torqque7:
What does that have to do with him being a simp?did you even watch the video??and what will make you or anyone think that happened in Nigeria?What's your point?Abi simps are found only in Nigeria?

Are you insinuating that because they are in America so that gives her the right to treat him like shit and he swallows it as a simp that he is?smh..

So, in the man's position, what would you have done better?

saphiere:
Let me analyze this.
1. You impregnated a lady thus destroying her future.
2. You gave her 2000 dollars to take care of YOUR child and not herself.
3. You are asking her to lend you 10 dollars.

The lady has the right to lend you or not. It's her money not yours. Reminding her you gave her 2k in public only shows how dûmb you are.
I hope you tell the public that the 2k was for YOUR child upkeep not for the lady.

My only appeal to tinubu government is to legalize same sex marriage.

And who tell you the 10 dollar ain't for the baby stuff and who told the 2k is for the baby

Horrible attitude. They don't deserve shit.

Zanzibar1:
Generally women don't believe in helping men. Naa men Try help and impress them.

Try not to fall short of funds o

Aswear! My eyes don see chit. Just don't try to become broke. These women will drop you like you are a scalding hot potato..

spiSeyi:
Women are almost the same everywhere the little difference will be determined by the man.

But you see the black westerners ehn, esp the average black american women, they are a special breed. The whites are still much more manageable than them.

So never allow see finish as a man. If the man has given her just $600and keep $1,400 for rough days like this . The same woman would have given him much respect

Never allow any woman to see you finish give 1/3 if she ask for 1 in all you do

I tell you!
Na e fall hin own hand!

Women don't have the same appreciation index as men. If you like give her private jet, na d same eye wey she take look you when u gave her $100 she go still take look you when you buy her private jet.

If she nor rate you, she nor rate you. Money can't buy their loyalty.

ARISHEM:
When you are weak and shocked in this situation you begin asking everyone around who cares to listen if it’s wrong to ask your baby mama who you just gave N3.2m ( Nigerian exchange rate) to now pay just N16000 on what was just purchased.
It’s now he is aware she is an ingrate.

Its when his confused him hear his baby mama singing spitefully in his ears “I don’t give a fvck” while he is busy asking for opinions that he knows he has a liability as a baby mama.
A woman that says that kind of thing has already resigned her fate to become your baby mama and not your wife and so won’t care in this kind situations. He is the one that cares.

The kind of baby mama that will later accuse him abusive as a reason why she left the relationship and say she hate broke guys

I sometimes forget how useless naira is until convert, so $10 is 16k now 🤦‍♂️

advanceDNA:
I love women...them get sense and will use you every step of the way without remorse if u give them chance...na u go give urself brain


A lady was expecting birthday gift from her man...nigga asked her what she wanted and she said human hair sold for 900k....

nigga sent it to her....she was over joyful

......the only problem for her now is to buy the hair...because technically it's now her money and spending her 900k on a wig is suddenly no longer wise....

Chai.

Offpoint1:
I sometimes forget how useless naira is until convert, so $10 is 16k now 🤦‍♂️

And by conversion our minimum wage of N70,000 that states are struggling to pay is just a mere $44.

You are the outlier here, woman.
It can be likened to 'women and ovulation/menstruation'.

We cannot say that because of the few percentage of women who don't ovulate, then it's wrong to say women ovulate!

It's been engrafted into the DNA of the average woman that men must bear (all) their responsibilities. Even if she's making more than her man, her 'software' will still be whispering to her that it's nor her responsibility to help unladen her husband.

Your husband is just lucky to find your type!

RevenuesBoost:
I'm a lady and I and hubby share our money.
No hiding of cash.

I'm not a selfish person, that's the very reason he fell in love with me and married me in just three months.

Like I said, a giver is a giver

PlayerMeji:
Once a lady starts telling you she doesn't give a fukt.. Brother...

She's already told you all you need to know...

She's fukcing another man (other men) already.

jetguy:
The worst thing that will ever happened to any man under this sun, is to meet (chose)a wrong woman as a partner

God abeg oo 🤦

The worst thing is to be a simp under them and remain one!

DAramis:
I perfectly understand this man's situations though ours is different.

You will not know how painful it is till you are short of funds,had emergency that requires you to seek for little fund from external person /source.

What is 10 dollars for crying out loud? The man is not even asking for handout but rather a loan which I am sure he will definitely pay back with little token of appreciation.

He should take his L in peace and move on with his life. The worst he will ever do to himself will be to continue the relationship with her.

Women punish simps with reckless abandon...they worship non-simps! Don't pity him, he has sold her his dignity!

oluwaseyi0:
And who tell you the 10 dollar ain't for the baby stuff and who told the 2k is for the baby

I don't blame you I blame MTN who gives out free data

ARISHEM:
When you are weak and shocked in this situation you begin asking everyone around who cares to listen if it’s wrong to ask your baby mama who you just gave N3.2m ( Nigerian exchange rate) to now pay just N16000 on what was just purchased.
It’s now he is aware she is an ingrate.

Its when his confused him hear his baby mama singing spitefully in his ears “I don’t give a fvck” while he is busy asking for opinions that he knows he has a liability as a baby mama.
A woman that says that kind of thing has already resigned her fate to become your baby mama and not your wife and so won’t care in this kind situations. He is the one that cares.

The kind of baby mama that will later accuse him abusive as a reason why she left the relationship and say she hate broke guys

Reward of being a chronic simp! Women do not show mercy to weak men o....quote me daily!

EmperorIsaac:
➜Women punish simps with reckless abandon...they worship non-simps! Don't pity him, he has sold her his dignity!

The guy you are calling a simp is seen going back with the woman he argued with at Walmart, and will probably continue giving her $2000 for many months to come.

Kobojunkie:
The guy you are calling a simp is seen going back with the woman he argued with at Walmart, and will probably continue giving her $2000 for many months to come.

EmperorIsaac:
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You label him a SIMP here. And claim woman worship non-SIMPS. But the moment that, for lack of a better term, SIMP steps outside, he will flaunt the girl as his woman in front of the many so-called non-SIMPs who have no women/relationships unless you date each other, that is. Even the men behind him at the checkout no say the SIMP still has the woman. So?