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pansophist:
The best way to get a wife is through referral (AKA arranged marriage).

Let someone you know, that you trust, and have your best interest at heart help you search for a wife. If you choose a wife yourself, you are more likely to choose base on wrong reasons.

A woman that you find attractive can easily pass as a good wife. Especially when she knows you want a wife, and she may act as a camouflage of a good wife-to-be.

With referral, there is something called ''third-party accountability''.The referral has a sense of accountability to the outcome of your union, and it is in his best interest for the the relationship to work.

Also, referrers can see things objectively, they know you, and your potential wife, and can vouch for the suitability of both parties. A referrers will not look for a wife through social media for you.

It most likely will be a girl they have known for long, and everyone knows who she is. So you will have no fear if you are marrying a repentant public property. Referral by design will filter the rubbishes out.

The area that you might have to compromise on is on attraction, because a referred wife might not make your preek stand

But in the end, we will all settle. It is up to you if you want a beautiful marriage, or a warzone because you married a lady with a big behind.

uchkochi:
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richmond500:
I disagree with ur number one point
Church is one of the best place to find decent ladies.

I also disagree with schools and professional event, these are the places to find a career driven woman that will help u soar. Events are the easiest place to find connections and a lady who attends professional events already has connections.

Also friends suggestions is not bad, my brother's wife was suggested to him by a friend and he married her as a virgin, very beautiful and well behaved

Nemesis0147:
So which place remain again

Kaczynski:
Go back to the village there are a lots of babes there , sweet plum and still fresh





find one mould am to your taste



or enter any of northern states christians full there , date any girl from the north . most of them never corrupt parse southern girls and they're very yummy


speaking from xp

Kobojunkie:
Focus on ensuring you are first a good husband material in order to better your odds.

pansophist:
The best way to get a wife is through referral (AKA arranged marriage).

Let someone you know, that you trust, and have your best interest at heart help you search for a wife. If you choose a wife yourself, you are more likely to choose base on wrong reasons.

A woman that you find attractive can easily pass as a good wife. Especially when she knows you want a wife, and she may act as a camouflage of a good wife-to-be.

With referral, there is something called ''third-party accountability''.The referral has a sense of accountability to the outcome of your union, and it is in his best interest for the the relationship to work.

Also, referrers can see things objectively, they know you, and your potential wife, and can vouch for the suitability of both parties. A referrers will not look for a wife through social media for you.

It most likely will be a girl they have known for long, and everyone knows who she is. So you will have no fear if you are marrying a repentant public property. Referral by design will filter the rubbishes out.

The area that you might have to compromise on is on attraction, because a referred wife might not make your preek stand

But in the end, we will all settle. It is up to you if you want a beautiful marriage, or a warzone because you married a lady with a big behind.

pansophist:
Yes, arranged marriage is good for men that work offshores, or men that lives abroad.

Of all the broken marriages that I knew of with Diasporeans who imported their spouse, their relationship either started online, or they met somewhere and just kicked it off.

There was no thorough background checks from those who knew her from when she was little. This is how lots of men marry problems without knowing.

pansophist:
The best way to get a wife is through referral (AKA arranged marriage).

Let someone you know, that you trust, and have your best interest at heart help you search for a wife. If you choose a wife yourself, you are more likely to choose base on wrong reasons.

A woman that you find attractive can easily pass as a good wife. Especially when she knows you want a wife, and she may act as a camouflage of a good wife-to-be.

With referral, there is something called ''third-party accountability''.The referral has a sense of accountability to the outcome of your union, and it is in his best interest for the the relationship to work.

Also, referrers can see things objectively, they know you, and your potential wife, and can vouch for the suitability of both parties. A referrers will not look for a wife through social media for you.

It most likely will be a girl they have known for long, and everyone knows who she is. So you will have no fear if you are marrying a repentant public property. Referral by design will filter the rubbishes out.

The area that you might have to compromise on is on attraction, because a referred wife might not make your preek stand

But in the end, we will all settle. It is up to you if you want a beautiful marriage, or a warzone because you married a lady with a big behind.

richmond500:
I disagree with ur number one point
Church is one of the best place to find decent ladies.

I also disagree with schools and professional event, these are the places to find a career driven woman that will help u soar. Events are the easiest place to find connections and a lady who attends professional events already has connections.

Also friends suggestions is not bad, my brother's wife was suggested to him by a friend and he married her as a virgin, very beautiful and well behaved

papyjaypaul:
➜Be a good person. Stop all these. A poster above said it. A good man can marry a bad wife too so stop sermomizing us on the sexes as if it's only men that go bad. There are bad and good men and women. Just be a good person.

yemmit90:
Olosbo full Church on Sunday, I know many of them in my area that don't joke with Sunday service.

Though, he got it wrong with school and professional events and friends suggestion. Friends suggestions are always the best.

Social media and match making are the worse of them all. That is where retire hookup girls look for husband.

movid:
A woman once said she married her childhood friend, they knew she each other in and out but still they were having issues when they got married and they later divorced. What if the woman comes from a background the man is desiring but the woman's behavior is out of it. She might be of good character when little till growing up but upon entering her husbands house, another story.

Love800:
Is match-making the same thing with arranged/referral marriage?

Love800:
This one is not arranged marriage. You are talking a different thing. Yes, they know eachother right from birth, but dem still marry with their emotions, feelings, which can be deceiving!
Arranged marriage allows both of you to grow individually, making you guys independent in taking decisions. Its not out of emotions, but involving knowledge, skills, trust and responsibility to the growth of the marriage!

Blitzking:
Looking for good wife na like playing 2 odds with your future..e fit enter and e fit cut.

uchkochi:
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richmond500:
I disagree with ur number one point
Church is one of the best place to find decent ladies.

I also disagree with schools and professional event, these are the places to find a career driven woman that will help u soar. Events are the easiest place to find connections and a lady who attends professional events already has connections.

Also friends suggestions is not bad, my brother's wife was suggested to him by a friend and he married her as a virgin, very beautiful and well behaved

“She’s really nice.” “She just wants a God-fearing man.” “I think you two would click.”

Translation: “She’s a ticking time bomb and we need someone to absorb the blast.”

malaria:
..Dear poster one can get a good wife In a club and a bad wife in a church, Another may find a bad wife on sm and a good wife in market . Life has no rules live yours the way you want it . Its all about choice

Nemesis0147:
So which place remain again