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Final Word:

You’re not crazy for wanting a wife.

You’re just searching in amusement parks, hoping to find a queen.

Marriage is not about vibes. It’s about verification.

She’s not what she posts. She’s what she protects, pursues, and preserves.

Stop getting scammed by packaging.

Date with eyes open.

Marry with blueprint.

Or cry with court papers.

uchkochi:
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Blitzking:
Looking for good wife na like playing 2 odds with your future..e fit enter and e fit cut.

Nemesis0147:
So which place remain again

Blitzking:
Looking for good wife na like playing 2 odds with your future..e fit enter and e fit cut.

richmond500:
I disagree with ur number one point
Church is one of the best place to find decent ladies.

I also disagree with schools and professional event, these are the places to find a career driven woman that will help u soar. Events are the easiest place to find connections and a lady who attends professional events already has connections.

Also friends suggestions is not bad, my brother's wife was suggested to him by a friend and he married her as a virgin, very beautiful and well behaved

Rexymania:
You post problems you no give us solutions. Na where we go see good wife?

uchkochi:
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uchkochi:
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Nemesis0147:
So which place remain again

pansophist:
The best way to get a wife is through referral (AKA arranged marriage).



The area that you might have to compromise on is on attraction, because a referred wife might not make your preek stand

But in the end, we will all settle. It is up to you if you want a beautiful marriage, or a warzone because you married a lady with a big behind.

Kobojunkie:
Bullsheet! 🙄🙄🙄

You forget there are records of many such arranged marriages to men abroad that ended in tragedy. 🙄🙄

Kobojunkie:
Arranged marriage/Match-making/Referral marriage is how many Nigerians abroad got their brides. This is including the church crowd - Deeper life, RCCG, and co, utilize that arrangement well. 😂😂😂😂😂

I know one particular couple I happened to have gotten close with some years ago, and I can tell you that I would wish such a disconnected union on anyone I love. I would people fall in love and out of love Jejely!

Rexymania:
You post problems you no give us solutions. Na where we go see good wife?

uchkochi:
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1M2CnrXY9W/

pansophist:
The best way to get a wife is through referral (AKA arranged marriage).

Let someone you know, that you trust, and have your best interest at heart help you search for a wife. If you choose a wife yourself, you are more likely to choose base on wrong reasons.

A woman that you find attractive can easily pass as a good wife. Especially when she knows you want a wife, and she may act as a camouflage of a good wife-to-be.

With referral, there is something called ''third-party accountability''.The referral has a sense of accountability to the outcome of your union, and it is in his best interest for the the relationship to work.

Also, referrers can see things objectively, they know you, and your potential wife, and can vouch for the suitability of both parties. A referrers will not look for a wife through social media for you.

It most likely will be a girl they have known for long, and everyone knows who she is. So you will have no fear if you are marrying a repentant public property. Referral by design will filter the rubbishes out.

The area that you might have to compromise on is on attraction, because a referred wife might not make your preek stand

But in the end, we will all settle. It is up to you if you want a beautiful marriage, or a warzone because you married a lady with a big behind.

icankel:
I totally agree with you even though my cousin married from a night club about 13yrs ago yet no sign of pregnancy

Love800:
Is match-making the same thing with arranged/referral marriage?

uchkochi:
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1M2CnrXY9W/

richmond500:
I disagree with ur number one point
Church is one of the best place to find decent ladies.

I also disagree with schools and professional event, these are the places to find a career driven woman that will help u soar. Events are the easiest place to find connections and a lady who attends professional events already has connections.

Also friends suggestions is not bad, my brother's wife was suggested to him by a friend and he married her as a virgin, very beautiful and well behaved

richmond500:
I disagree with ur number one point
Church is one of the best place to find decent ladies.

I also disagree with schools and professional event, these are the places to find a career driven woman that will help u soar. Events are the easiest place to find connections and a lady who attends professional events already has connections.

Also friends suggestions is not bad, my brother's wife was suggested to him by a friend and he married her as a virgin, very beautiful and well behaved

Nemesis0147:
So which place remain again

pansophist:
The best way to get a wife is through referral (AKA arranged marriage).

Let someone you know, that you trust, and have your best interest at heart help you search for a wife. If you choose a wife yourself, you are more likely to choose base on wrong reasons.

A woman that you find attractive can easily pass as a good wife. Especially when she knows you want a wife, and she may act as a camouflage of a good wife-to-be.

With referral, there is something called ''third-party accountability''.The referral has a sense of accountability to the outcome of your union, and it is in his best interest for the the relationship to work.

Also, referrers can see things objectively, they know you, and your potential wife, and can vouch for the suitability of both parties. A referrers will not look for a wife through social media for you.

It most likely will be a girl they have known for long, and everyone knows who she is. So you will have no fear if you are marrying a repentant public property. Referral by design will filter the rubbishes out.

The area that you might have to compromise on is on attraction, because a referred wife might not make your preek stand

But in the end, we will all settle. It is up to you if you want a beautiful marriage, or a warzone because you married a lady with a big behind.

Kobojunkie:
You actually believe an arranged marriage is the solution you need in this day and age? Una no dey ever learn... that na una major problem. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

You better go and ask people in the North, who have been engaging in that kind of marriage without break for at least the last 200 years, how that particular option has been going for them when it comes to finding good wives.