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A Nigerian lady has taken to social media to express her concerns about the changing attitudes of men in today’s society. According to her, there was a time when, if you went to a restaurant to buy food, a man would approach and offer to pay for everything.

She added that back then, even men who didn’t know you at all would walk up to you at a shopping mall, offer to shop for you, and even carry your basket around the store. But nowadays, she says, men no longer do such things — instead, they simply wait for you outside.

She also recalled how, in the past, men would often stop their cars to offer women a lift upon seeing them by the roadside. But today, she claims, such gestures of kindness have become rare.

She went on to lament how much things have changed in the country, reminiscing about 10 to 12 years ago when men were more willing to help women and showed genuine care.

Watch the full video to hear her heartfelt thoughts and personal experiences on this shift in male behavior.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OdOcdskW8IQ?si=7Cj3UyZyp1UbgiiP

Summary:

A Nigerian lady took to social media to lament the decline in how men treat women today. She recalled how, years ago, men would offer to pay for meals, help women shop, carry their baskets, and even offer free rides. She expressed disappointment that such acts of kindness have become rare, reflecting on how much things have changed over the past decade.

Men have finally understood the game women play and we have said " we ain't playing again ". So no more chivalry, no more flowers , no more Mr-nice . Henceforth, you'll be our competitors : if you punch us , we'll give you back a double dose ; if we take you out, we're splitting the bill 50/50.

Glimpsetv:
Summary: A Nigerian lady took to social media to lament the decline in how men treat women today. [b]She recalled how, years ago, men would offer to pay for meals, help women shop, carry their baskets, and even offer free rides. [/b]She expressed disappointment that such acts of kindness have become rare, reflecting on how much things have changed over the past decade.

Hopefully, this means the men are finally growing up, but I seriously doubt it!

It is what it is 😂

Double0h7:
I swear Nigerian women were enjoying in Nigeria! Out here in the west, I've never seen or spoken to any woman (other than sugar babies and the like) who have experienced what she is talking about 😂.
We've been programmed to reject such offers out of sheer shame! Offer to pay for my groceries, what do I look like a charity case!?! I've been programmed to take offence to such offers from complete strangers.

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In GegGeh's voice una go cry tire

I can't imagine myself after going all through all the day to day stress,I will then sit my asss down and be thinking of how to woo a woman who will now in turn turn down my proposal...the same somebody whom I'm so eager to help her life

No na

Less simps
In the next 10 years hopefully you will start paying groom price at this rate.

This one should understand that the Nigeria she knew 10-12years ago isn't the same Nigeria of today.

People are seriously suffering. Na person way chop belley full go remember to play father christmas role on top your matter.

Lol 😂

Attention seeker.
Anything to trend

Eyahh

Lo

Ok

Very good for them
I date character first, then face, silm, dark complexion , pointed breast, , hips, waist then ass in that order

The character of most girls of this generation is gutter mode, entitlement and zero appreciation and no loyalty.

They think that bad girl means rude girl, what we have are just bunch of junkies moving around in cheap clothes and no man is ready to buy an insult no matter how hornnyy he is, except of course he is a drug and alcohol damaged byproduct.

No time again.

DJ knack me Victony Kolomental!

Mtchewwwwwwwww

Change is constant

Na every lady Una dey call pretty?

Lady needed to give a massage.

Preferably married

The pay is very good.

Send PM if interested

Anything to trend 😉

8 years ago - good old days
Watch, 10 years from now this Tifnubu era will be seen as the good old days!

Men are getting wiser

We no gree de foollish again na.


Wetin come be the issue here now?

Glimpsetv:
A Nigerian lady has taken to social media to express her concerns about the changing attitudes of men in today’s society. According to her, there was a time when, if you went to a restaurant to buy food, a man would approach and offer to pay for everything.

She added that back then, even men who didn’t know you at all would walk up to you at a shopping mall, offer to shop for you, and even carry your basket around the store. But nowadays, she says, men no longer do such things — instead, they simply wait for you outside.

She also recalled how, in the past, men would often stop their cars to offer women a lift upon seeing them by the roadside. But today, she claims, such gestures of kindness have become rare.

She went on to lament how much things have changed in the country, reminiscing about 10 to 12 years ago when men were more willing to help women and showed genuine care.

Watch the full video to hear her heartfelt thoughts and personal experiences on this shift in male behavior.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OdOcdskW8IQ?si=7Cj3UyZyp1UbgiiP

And you took it upon yourself to relay the useless information to us?

Thanks to Nairaland. I can now no longer see your posts anymore.

When ever you go as a man,
Always avoid women
Nigerian women will bill you
My gas has finished
Urgent 2k
Men are wise now
No more Mr.Nice guy

Okay... How did women treat men in those "good old" days?!!

God will see you through