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Chilipepper:
Nigerian lady shares why she can never send money to a man.

So your dad is saying you shouldn't send money to even your brothers when they are in need?

DeeScan:
How many of your sons bhas been collecting money from women ..


Na y your nyash flat..

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Na why you be like Wetin the gods don swear for

I have given you the attention you want, now scram

Gender equality people will always look for an excuse. Most of them have no problem receiving, only giving. As if she is adhering to everything her dad told her. Her business.

Starz825:
Cos your daddy believe say...

Once person na man.....he don automatically mean say money must fall from heaven for am...

Everybody with their principles

Me don lower my expectations on humans generally and on women particularly...

hahahaha for your sanity..ur last paragraph says it all

Sharpsharp00123:
➜If I talk Wetin Dey my mind that spam bot go ban me.I pity those who marry girls with very bad home training like this, this is d kind of woman that 5 million will b needed in d house n the husband will drop 4.95m n he will b exhausted n will turn to his wife to add d remaining 50k n she will say no even when having over 10 million in her account. This girl don't know how the das has damaged her now but will realize later when she marries the 4th husband n d marriage is still heading for divorce. With this mentality she can't keep a home cos she will never b supportive

Under the traditional marriage system in Nigeria, a man is the sole provider in the household. So, the man is under no obligation to help him with his provider responsibility in the same way the man is under no obligation to aid the woman in carrying out her submission and household responsibilities.

If a man wants a woman to contribute to the family finances, then he had better opt for court marriage, giving up on the master status that goes along with the traditional mindset, ensuring he is ready to share in all of the responsibilities formerly relegated to women in marriage.

Godsonkemz:
➜This is like saying that your dad doesn't wish you marriage . Because I've never seen a union where only one party contributes to it all the time.
➜ Your dad should marry you since he doesn't want you close to a man who may at some points need your support.

Wrong! As a traditional married woman, she is under no obligation to give her husband any of her money since the man is meant to be the sole provider in that set up.

There are lots of Nigerian women out there looking for women to take care of since the traditional marriage setup where the man sits as master and sole provider remains the most popular marriage model among Nigerian men.

omooba969:
➜You support your own man but advise against it in another person's relationship. This is witchcraft.

It is instead wisdom since she learned from experience that what she did was a major mistake on her own part.

Napter29:
➜I am regretting it, if you read slowly again I said I will never support any woman to do what I did. For a man to tell you that he can cheat as he is entitled to more than a wife . This is same person you are planning your future with , financing him even till now. After that statement from him, my eyes has opened. He only loved me for what he is benefiting. Now that the money isn't flowing like before this man doesn't care if I have even eaten .

I hope you have at least moved on from that toxic setup since then!

Kaido:
➜Any man that marries this lady, don marry wahala. Her father is a senseless man.

Lies! The Traditional marriage system in Nigeria glorifies this sort of reasoning, hence the reason why the father has his daughters focus on men who would tend to their needs and not men who would look to obtain from them.

Kobojunkie:
Under the traditional marriage system in Nigeria, a man is the sole provider in the household. So, the man is under no obligation to help him with his provider responsibility in the same way the man is under no obligation to aid the woman in carrying out her submission and household responsibilities.

If a man wants a woman to contribute to the family finances, then he had better opt for court marriage, giving up on the master status that goes along with the traditional mindset, ensuring he is ready to share in all of the responsibilities formerly relegated to women in marriage.

I no get strength to argue with yaba left patient.


Abeg dey your lane

Chilipepper:
Nigerian lady shares why she can never send money to a man.

Aunty no need to date any man, marry your father and let him take care of you .

Sharpsharp00123:
I no get strength to argue with yaba left patient.


Abeg dey your lane

ukaface:
Na why you be like Wetin the gods don swear for

I have given you the attention you want, now scram

If only I can use your attention cash out, it's basically useless ...

Is there any special treatment for men in the society that automatically guarantees that they will “have money “ ?



She will understand the pressures on men when she starts giving birth

Kobojunkie:
Lies! The Traditional marriage system in Nigeria glorifies this sort of reasoning, hence the reason why the father has his daughters focus on men who would tend to their needs and not men who would look to obtain from them.

That's bullshit and you know it. This archaic mentality is the reason why husbands/men die earlier in marriage.

Relationship is all about investing time, attention, financial support, emotional crap and some stuffs with each other.

If I decide to get married tomorrow (not interested), I won't depend on her but she must be compassionate & charitable kinda lady.

May the Universe save men from incompassionate & stingy leeches.

Kaido:
✓ That's bullshit and you know it. This archaic mentality is the reason why husbands/men die earlier in marriage.
Relationship is all about investing time, attention, financial support, emotional crap and some stuffs with each other.
✓ If I decide to get married tomorrow (not interested), I won't depend on her but she must be compassionate & charitable kinda lady. May the Universe save men from incompassionate & stingy leeches.

Who are you trying to aegh this one with? Me or your traditional systems and cultures? 😂😂😂😂😂

If you don't intend to share in house duties with your woman -- you think you can have your cake and eat it too--- , expect that you will only be setting yourself up for the same mishap that has befell many before you. 😂😂😂😂😂

Chilipepper:
Nigerian lady shares why she can never send money to a man.

"My mommy used to count the number of salt" kind of vibe.

Mariangeles:
Her daddy is a very wicked man.

send me 4k

Starz825:
Cos your daddy believe say...

Once person na man.....he don automatically mean say money must fall from heaven for am...

Everybody with their principles

Me don lower my expectations on humans generally and on women particularly...

you go marry?

myami:
you go marry?

Doesn't stop me