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Jashub:
Why is the fault always from the man...why don't you clowns ever tell women how to behave like women and be intimate with their partners? Nonsense

Gbadugbakun:
I feel like kissing you right now for talking sense into his head.

Caaz:
Thank you Op....kisses.













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Its my husband duty to pamper me,care for me,Asked how my day went,spoil me with gifts.....because I m his priority.

tunnyl:
You never imagined you'd be asking yourself this question right?, but here you are. Marriage was supposed to bring stability, love, and lifelong companionship, yet the one thing you never saw coming is the slow withdrawal of intimacy.

At first, you make excuses for her. She is tired, stressed, adjusting. But as time stretches on, you start wondering. Is this what happened to my dad and other married men before they gave up and got side chics? Am I heading down the same path?

You try to fix things the right way. You plan romantic gestures, have deep conversations, and remind her how important intimacy is in marriage. But despite your efforts, nothing changes. Frustration sets in, and you start withdrawing emotionally. The thoughts get darker. Is this how it happens? Do men stray because they feel abandoned? Should I just accept that marriage means suffering in silence?

If you truly want to fight for your marriage without cheating, the solution is not temptation but effort. Cheating leads to guilt, broken trust, and deeper problems. Instead, focus on reconnecting.

Here are some ways to reconnect with your wife and strengthen your marriage:

1. Have open conversations without pressure or blame.

2. Show small daily affection like compliments and thoughtful gestures.

3. Help ease stress by sharing responsibilities and offering support.

4. Spend quality time together through dates, shared hobbies, and bonding moments.

5. Be patient and consistent instead of pressuring for immediate change.

Marriage is more than physical closeness. The key is understanding, connection, and rebuilding the trust that keeps love strong.

casualobserver:
You will learn!

Jashub:
Why is the fault always from the man...why don't you clowns ever tell women how to behave like women and be intimate with their partners? Nonsense

Double0h7:
I have a question for the men what happens when a man experiences ED or just grows old and can no longer do the do? Should his wife turn to local boys to do his job?

Double0h7:
I have a question for the men what happens when a man experiences ED or just grows old and can no longer do the do? Should his wife turn to local boys to do his job?

tunnyl:
You never imagined you'd be asking yourself this question right?, but here you are. Marriage was supposed to bring stability, love, and lifelong companionship, yet the one thing you never saw coming is the slow withdrawal of intimacy.

At first, you make excuses for her. She is tired, stressed, adjusting. But as time stretches on, you start wondering. Is this what happened to my dad and other married men before they gave up and got side chics? Am I heading down the same path?

You try to fix things the right way. You plan romantic gestures, have deep conversations, and remind her how important intimacy is in marriage. But despite your efforts, nothing changes. Frustration sets in, and you start withdrawing emotionally. The thoughts get darker. Is this how it happens? Do men stray because they feel abandoned? Should I just accept that marriage means suffering in silence?

If you truly want to fight for your marriage without cheating, the solution is not temptation but effort. Cheating leads to guilt, broken trust, and deeper problems. Instead, focus on reconnecting.

Here are some ways to reconnect with your wife and strengthen your marriage:

1. Have open conversations without pressure or blame.

2. Show small daily affection like compliments and thoughtful gestures.

3. Help ease stress by sharing responsibilities and offering support.

4. Spend quality time together through dates, shared hobbies, and bonding moments.

5. Be patient and consistent instead of pressuring for immediate change.

Marriage is more than physical closeness. The key is understanding, connection, and rebuilding the trust that keeps love strong.

Helpout12345:
Many women that are in that situation go outside too. It's not a new thing. It was there during our ancestors and it will continue to happen.

Vision101:
Of course....no harm in seeking help

tunnyl:
Here are some ways to reconnect with your wife and strengthen your marriage:

Jashub:
Why is the fault always from the man...why don't you clowns ever tell women how to behave like women and be intimate with their partners? Nonsense

Caaz:
Thank you Op....kisses.




So what you’re telling me is that a man should still be paying again for something he have already paid for and paying for everyday












Lolx.



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Its my husband duty to pamper me,care for me,Asked how my day went,spoil me with gifts.....because I m his priority.

Jashub:
Why is the fault always from the man...why don't you clowns ever tell women how to behave like women and be intimate with their partners? Nonsense

Gbadugbakun:
I feel like kissing you right now for talking sense into his head.

Kaymicheal852:
You’re very right , I deal with this by ignoring her completely, I start accept the fact that my sexual life is gone after some months into the marriage, , so we just become a room mate , always doing my responsibility but never try to get intimate with her , after some weeks she came running back and I rejected her few times, since then she never rejected me again, but now I’m even much less Hot and I hardly get hard , instead of looking for a side chick I just turn off my sexual urge


If side chick’s is what what works for you or maybe renting a call girl please do it , don’t let one daughter of eve frustrate your life , I’m just someone who doesn’t get hard when I have some other important things I’m doing , if not maybe I would have 2 side chicks already

Kaymicheal852:
You’re very right , I deal with this by ignoring her completely, I start accept the fact that my sexual life is gone after some months into the marriage, , so we just become a room mate , always doing my responsibility but never try to get intimate with her , after some weeks she came running back and I rejected her few times, since then she never rejected me again, but now I’m even much less Hot and I hardly get hard , instead of looking for a side chick I just turn off my sexual urge


If side chick’s is what what works for you or maybe renting a call girl please do it , don’t let one daughter of eve frustrate your life , I’m just someone who doesn’t get hard when I have some other important things I’m doing , if not maybe I would have 2 side chicks already

Caaz:
Thank you Op....kisses.










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Its my husband duty to pamper me,care for me,Asked how my day went,spoil me with gifts.....because I m his priority.