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Juvenile delinquency all I see here

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Very soon your wife will cut off your konji and we'll see the news here

Keep flowing with the drama you hear?
Your news go.soon be here

PresidObi:
I think you set up the pregnancy test pictures to provoke your wife, then you're playing it to complicate matters by not telling your parents and other of her relatives the truth, because you want to turn the tables on her later and sack her.

You're tired of your wife and is just setting her up because you kjow she will blow her top, then you will use it as an excuse to leave her for another woman.

So you can think clearly like this? If na partisan politics now it becomes the opposite

shinaola21:
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Very soon your wife will cut off your konji and we'll see the news here

Keep flowing with the drama you hear?
Your news go.soon be here

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unzend:
Hello everyone, I need your opinions on this issue that’s causing some interesting situation at home.

I’ve been working fully remote for two years now, taking care of the kids and managing the house after moving into a state in Nigeria from Lag. (I was hybrid before and go to Lag weekly before- not easy). Last Friday, my wife came back home from Lag - we stiĺl maintain our house there cos she works there , and everything just went upside down.


I stepped outside to take get somewhere, and she checked my phone (we’re recently being locking phones). She saw a pregnancy scan on my phone that mentioned something about “breech presentation.” The thing is, this scan isn’t mine! It belongs to my Farm worker’s wife. He showed it to me while talking about her condition, and I took a picture to keep it for him for hospital records and future reference. That’s all.

When my wife saw it, her mood changed instantly. She started asking me tough questions, but I gave vague answers cos I knew her tendedncy to have persismistic thoughts and conclusions. Haha! She concluded I got another woman pregnant. Before I knew it, she called my mum, then my dad. That same evening, my dad came over to comfort her. From his expression, it looked like he also thought I messed up. I just excused myself and left the room.

Now, my mum and dad have called me, saying they’re disappointed and telling me to repent from “adultery.” I got upset and told them I’m a grown man who can make my own choices, and I haven’t done anything wrong.

She informed all my in-laws and says my FIL is really angry.

The while situation has sent my wife into a spiral—she’s paranoid, heartbroken, and acting sick. She’s telling me to pay off this “woman,” block her, and never speak to her again. I told her I won’t do that cos the woman may have being her!

Right now, I’m just letting things sit to see how it plays out, but the tension between us is heavy. My wife is not herself, and my parents are treating me like I’ve sinned. She even acted up to the point She was prophesying my Downfall cos of my Adultery. Like in the spirit the 30 minutes straight. I just dey shake my head.

What's your opinion about this, I plan to keep it on for as long as I can withstand the drama.

You are y typa guy bruv.....Since she had asked the relevant questions and you have answered "sincerely" but she somehow still believed what she wanted to believe, let the game continue......I am a tough player too, cos you won't sha go and admit what you didn't do, but you see that "convinction" wey she want, she no go get am so freely.....leggo bro!

unzend:
Hello everyone, I need your opinions on this issue that’s causing some interesting situation at home.

I’ve been working fully remote for two years now, taking care of the kids and managing the house after moving into a state in Nigeria from Lag. (I was hybrid before and go to Lag weekly before- not easy). Last Friday, my wife came back home from Lag - we stiĺl maintain our house there cos she works there , and everything just went upside down.


I stepped outside to take get somewhere, and she checked my phone (we’re recently being locking phones). She saw a pregnancy scan on my phone that mentioned something about “breech presentation.” The thing is, this scan isn’t mine! It belongs to my Farm worker’s wife. He showed it to me while talking about her condition, and I took a picture to keep it for him for hospital records and future reference. That’s all.

When my wife saw it, her mood changed instantly. She started asking me tough questions, but I gave vague answers cos I knew her tendedncy to have persismistic thoughts and conclusions. Haha! She concluded I got another woman pregnant. Before I knew it, she called my mum, then my dad. That same evening, my dad came over to comfort her. From his expression, it looked like he also thought I messed up. I just excused myself and left the room.

Now, my mum and dad have called me, saying they’re disappointed and telling me to repent from “adultery.” I got upset and told them I’m a grown man who can make my own choices, and I haven’t done anything wrong.

She informed all my in-laws and says my FIL is really angry.

The while situation has sent my wife into a spiral—she’s paranoid, heartbroken, and acting sick. She’s telling me to pay off this “woman,” block her, and never speak to her again. I told her I won’t do that cos the woman may have being her!

Right now, I’m just letting things sit to see how it plays out, but the tension between us is heavy. My wife is not herself, and my parents are treating me like I’ve sinned. She even acted up to the point She was prophesying my Downfall cos of my Adultery. Like in the spirit the 30 minutes straight. I just dey shake my head.

What's your opinion about this, I plan to keep it on for as long as I can withstand the drama.

You don’t look serious about life to me.

Why playing with fire when you know it can kill?

You need to tell your wife the truth because situation like this can make a woman do the unthinkable. Do the right thing, don’t get yourself poisoned or killed.

Seems you like drama or what will I call this one nah You're joking with fire, by the time you might wish to come clean with the whole thing, madam might have ghost you one side..dey play, small children getting married

The only way to bath and be clean in this matter is to bring the pregnant woman and her husband to the house to clear the matters.... Or else.... You never see anything oooo brother

unzend:
Hello everyone, I need your opinions on this issue that’s causing some interesting situation at home.

I’ve been working fully remote for two years now, taking care of the kids and managing the house after moving into a state in Nigeria from Lag. (I was hybrid before and go to Lag weekly before- not easy). Last Friday, my wife came back home from Lag - we stiĺl maintain our house there cos she works there , and everything just went upside down.


I stepped outside to take get somewhere, and she checked my phone (we’re recently being locking phones). She saw a pregnancy scan on my phone that mentioned something about “breech presentation.” The thing is, this scan isn’t mine! It belongs to my Farm worker’s wife. He showed it to me while talking about her condition, and I took a picture to keep it for him for hospital records and future reference. That’s all.

When my wife saw it, her mood changed instantly. She started asking me tough questions, but I gave vague answers cos I knew her tendedncy to have persismistic thoughts and conclusions. Haha! She concluded I got another woman pregnant. Before I knew it, she called my mum, then my dad. That same evening, my dad came over to comfort her. From his expression, it looked like he also thought I messed up. I just excused myself and left the room.

Now, my mum and dad have called me, saying they’re disappointed and telling me to repent from “adultery.” I got upset and told them I’m a grown man who can make my own choices, and I haven’t done anything wrong.

She informed all my in-laws and says my FIL is really angry.

The while situation has sent my wife into a spiral—she’s paranoid, heartbroken, and acting sick. She’s telling me to pay off this “woman,” block her, and never speak to her again. I told her I won’t do that cos the woman may have being her!

Right now, I’m just letting things sit to see how it plays out, but the tension between us is heavy. My wife is not herself, and my parents are treating me like I’ve sinned. She even acted up to the point She was prophesying my Downfall cos of my Adultery. Like in the spirit the 30 minutes straight. I just dey shake my head.

What's your opinion about this, I plan to keep it on for as long as I can withstand the drama.

You are waiting until she has high blood pressure. And after that end the drama.

unzend:
I plan to keep it on for as long as I can withstand the drama.

Don't you people have kids What is the effect of your prolonging the drama going to have on your kids or your wife's mental health

If she commits suicide in this her state of mind, do you realise that you will RIGHTLY be blamed for her death

If your hands are clean as you assert, all you should have done is to invite your farm worker and his pregnant wife and present them as proof to your wife.

It's not fair for you to toy with your wife's mental health like this as people's brains are wired differently and what seems like child's play to you may cause a full scale nervous breakdown for others.

Do you really love and value your wife's mental health

What stopped you from telling your wife about this farm worker's wife and her condition if you truly love and care about your so called wife?!

Exactly

nifemi25:
Why not speak the truth and let your wife mind be at rest ...

Maybe he just wants to torture his wife because I don't get what game he is playing.

eniolorunfe:
Wondering why someone would want to keep up with this kind of “drama”. What do you seek to gain? Na wa

He's probably bored, remember he's a remote worker and remote workers are usually bored

If this story is real I advice you get antidote for otapiapia and keep it somewhere within reach.

unzend:
Hello everyone, I need your opinions on this issue that’s causing some interesting situation at home.

I’ve been working fully remote for two years now, taking care of the kids and managing the house after moving into a state in Nigeria from Lag. (I was hybrid before and go to Lag weekly before- not easy). Last Friday, my wife came back home from Lag - we stiĺl maintain our house there cos she works there , and everything just went upside down.


I stepped outside to take get somewhere, and she checked my phone (we’re recently being locking phones). She saw a pregnancy scan on my phone that mentioned something about “breech presentation.” The thing is, this scan isn’t mine! It belongs to my Farm worker’s wife. He showed it to me while talking about her condition, and I took a picture to keep it for him for hospital records and future reference. That’s all.

When my wife saw it, her mood changed instantly. She started asking me tough questions, but I gave vague answers cos I knew her tendedncy to have persismistic thoughts and conclusions. Haha! She concluded I got another woman pregnant. Before I knew it, she called my mum, then my dad. That same evening, my dad came over to comfort her. From his expression, it looked like he also thought I messed up. I just excused myself and left the room.

Now, my mum and dad have called me, saying they’re disappointed and telling me to repent from “adultery.” I got upset and told them I’m a grown man who can make my own choices, and I haven’t done anything wrong.

She informed all my in-laws and says my FIL is really angry.

The while situation has sent my wife into a spiral—she’s paranoid, heartbroken, and acting sick. She’s telling me to pay off this “woman,” block her, and never speak to her again. I told her I won’t do that cos the woman may have being her!

Right now, I’m just letting things sit to see how it plays out, but the tension between us is heavy. My wife is not herself, and my parents are treating me like I’ve sinned. She even acted up to the point She was prophesying my Downfall cos of my Adultery. Like in the spirit the 30 minutes straight. I just dey shake my head.

What's your opinion about this, I plan to keep it on for as long as I can withstand the drama.

Since you are on the safe side, bounce it and move on, wish we are close neighbors, let's have some cool bottles and proteins ....

But the next move is to bring the guy and the wife for a dinner like attention,....remember to bring your Mum and Dad along since they are now involved, then break the news for them all ....and laugh it loud...

But for now, enjoy the Bollywood movie.....

Ilekokonit:
Don't you people have kids What is the effect of your prolonging the drama going to have on your kids or your wife's mental health

If she commits suicide in this her state of mind, do you realise that you will RIGHTLY be blamed for her death

If your hands are clean as you assert, all you should have done is to invite your farm worker and his pregnant wife and present them as proof to your wife.

It's not fair for you to toy with your wife's mental health like this as people's brains are wired differently and what seems like child's play to you may cause a full scale nervous breakdown for others.

Do you really love and value your wife's mental health

Hmmm quite a good one but having a wife who can't trust me is also a mental health issue to me, because her breaking down , inshort it seems like the story is not real ....

Dis one wan use he hand destroy him marriage(home)

This is how manipulative do when they get bored 😂

Dogalmighty17:
You plan to keep it for long as you can withstand the drama? And yet you are sleeping in the same house? Dem done pour you hot water before?

Good point and she will have the legal defence of extreme provocation and psychological torture.

He doesn't realise that hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

unzend:
Hello everyone, I need your opinions on this issue that’s causing some interesting situation at home.

I’ve been working fully remote for two years now, taking care of the kids and managing the house after moving into a state in Nigeria from Lag. (I was hybrid before and go to Lag weekly before- not easy). Last Friday, my wife came back home from Lag - we stiĺl maintain our house there cos she works there , and everything just went upside down.


I stepped outside to take get somewhere, and she checked my phone (we’re recently being locking phones). She saw a pregnancy scan on my phone that mentioned something about “breech presentation.” The thing is, this scan isn’t mine! It belongs to my Farm worker’s wife. He showed it to me while talking about her condition, and I took a picture to keep it for him for hospital records and future reference. That’s all.

When my wife saw it, her mood changed instantly. She started asking me tough questions, but I gave vague answers cos I knew her tendedncy to have persismistic thoughts and conclusions. Haha! She concluded I got another woman pregnant. Before I knew it, she called my mum, then my dad. That same evening, my dad came over to comfort her. From his expression, it looked like he also thought I messed up. I just excused myself and left the room.

Now, my mum and dad have called me, saying they’re disappointed and telling me to repent from “adultery.” I got upset and told them I’m a grown man who can make my own choices, and I haven’t done anything wrong.

She informed all my in-laws and says my FIL is really angry.

The while situation has sent my wife into a spiral—she’s paranoid, heartbroken, and acting sick. She’s telling me to pay off this “woman,” block her, and never speak to her again. I told her I won’t do that cos the woman may have being her!

Right now, I’m just letting things sit to see how it plays out, but the tension between us is heavy. My wife is not herself, and my parents are treating me like I’ve sinned. She even acted up to the point She was prophesying my Downfall cos of my Adultery. Like in the spirit the 30 minutes straight. I just dey shake my head.

What's your opinion about this, I plan to keep it on for as long as I can withstand the drama

This is the silliest thing to do.
Guy, you don't know what you're doing.
You think you're catching cruise with this.
You may be destroying your home.
Don't play this kind of pranks with women. Their brain are not wired to understand this.

By the time you realize what you're doing, she may become very sick that she may live forever with.
She may lose trust in you that even when you tell her the truth she will no longer believe. She will think you're trying to cover up.
She may also start picking interest in other men to revenge. And once she starts, her love for you will drain out.

You're supposed to explain in details whose scan that was and why it is in your phone. Reassure her that you'll not do such a thing like getting a woman outside her pregnant.
And not this your "I'm an adult and can do whatever you want" attitude.

If you truly respect your wife and the marriage, you wouldn't be letting her feel bad with this kind of s!lly joke of yours.

Probably, she is yet to have her own child and you're wounding her heart with this kind of thing.

Finally, what kind of respect do you have for your parents, especially you father. You couldn't even open up to them but just brush them off with you bn an adult. You are arrogantly s!lly.
You think that the world revolves around that small chicken change you're making.

Let me tell you this for free:
Family is everything.

Tell them that you went to drop some documents with her. Rain started falling so you had to sleep over at her house. You now found yourself on top.

delugadou:
Please don't play games. She might be tempted to cheat in revenge. If you want drama, look for another way to do it.

What if she listens to the devil and poisons you? There's a story about a lady who killed her children because their father cheated.

And the devil sabi when to whisper thoughts of murder into the heart of an aggrieved wife or husband when they are at their lowest ebb of dealing with mental torture from their spouse.

GboyegaD:
What do you want to gain by setting up yourself in flames? Tell the truth and let everyone have their peace.

No be everybody like peace o. Some people actually thrive on chaos but this type of chaos IF true is unfair to the wife's mental health.

lomprico:
You gi pesin belle? Yes or No?

Because you can't watch your parents and inlaws being pained and not tell them the truth.
And your wife cannot just go ahead and report you without you giving her the impression that you did it.

Or you are just a psychopath that enjoys seeing people in pain.

Good question.

If what you wrote here is true, you are very childish and dumb.

Tell your wife the truth abeg.
You whine your wife still won do same here

Because you are innocent doesn't mean your actions are not destroying your marriage. What your wife is going through isn't drama, and what could happen next is entirely on you.

Is this civil war or ww3?




Oti wọ gau.

Remedy:

Go and buy a big goat, pepper soup ingredients, use some parts for barbecue, the other for pepper soup. Go and put the sacrifice to a joint where guys relax after daily work. Pray that they accept the sacrifice. Then, listen to their gist after they have consumed the offering. Don't forget to give them good, chilled drink to go along. The gods are not taking palm wine again. Look for moderate Champaign of the range of hmmm, ₦250,000 and a little above, ten bottles. Don't forget toothpicks, and the rest.

When boys accept the sacrifice, listen to the wisdom that comes out of their mouth.
Tell your wife at 3:00 a.m.
She will believe and forgive you.
Peace be unto you.