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SamoraWarrior:
Aborting the children I should have had today when I was in the university with my girlfriend then in school, about six abortion... Today I'm close to 50yrs, no wife no kids... My greatest regret😭

na you wan be Abraham wetin do Solomon

Juliearth:
Never date a "broken man". Young lady, you are not a mechanic. If his parents couldn't fix him, what makes you think you could? (Same advise can apply to dating a broken lady too.


If he cheats once, leave and dont look back. They don't change. Same can be applied to women too


Be entangled with an emotionally intelligent man, else you would be frustrated into madness.


Do not form friendship or sisterhood/brotherhood at work. Do your job and go home.

Do well what is worth doing. Our deeds have a way of coming back to us.

Do not befriend people below your intellectual and emotional level, else you would be emptied. And completely drained out.

Chai

Overlooking bad attitude when I was dating my wife, thinking she will change

Nobody is coming to save you.

benydy:
Marrying out of pity and also marrying a man older than me with ten years

Regina Daniels comes to mind

ChybuzzDD:
Na you go study ye ye course nah

no be by yeye course. pray Nigeria doesn't happen to you.

ufotty2001:
Marrying a religious woman is my biggest regret in life.

Say that again. It
Beclouded unimaginable frailties that are now having horrible adverse consequences.

I served and was retained by a big bank in Nigeria, but I didn’t cultivate the habit of SAVING. I spent all I earned on cloths, travelling etc… Today I’m not doing badly, but I missed a good opportunity to build wealth early in life. My parents were ok and my girlfriend then was very ok too… no one was asking me for money. I was really good looking so didn’t have to spend much to get girls… (back then ooo) Things have changed now😂😂

Not having all my kids or children before 30 yrs


Never wait till millions come before you get married

obinna58:
I don’t know know what I could call regret, I regret nothing cos I’ve always tried my hardest doing things right

What could I possibly regret??

Oh I remember

I regret being born in Nigeria

you shouldn't regret that....no be you born yourself for Nigeria.

Don’t bring your wife abroad. Don’t try it

Never leave a well paying job or business to join the JAPA crowd... You will leave to regret it and don't ever travel or relocate at age of 40 upwards


You are on your own

Advising my guys to vote for Apc and buhari in 2015, not marrying an only wealthy daughter I met because she was my age mate and has a kind of k-leg

Regretted not starting my own business earlier in time ...stuck in salary job for a long time

drimzsmoke:
Baba no regret, dey there dey deceive yourself!!!

no mind am....even dangote get him own regrets.the more you experience life,the more regrets you should have.

Not learning a craft or trade before entering the university was a big mistake for me.though,I later learnt how to repair electric stove on campus in my 100l second semester,I had the extra cash I was craving for.

Student that could Barb hair , make hair, sew clothes , type projects on PC, do electrical, plumbing jobs etc were big boys and girls on campus. They had extra source of income different from what their parents gave them.

This present GenZ age. Before you gain admission into the university learn a computer tech skill . It will help you , you could even buy your dream car while on campus and even get your dream property .

Hezzyluv:
Falling in love to the extent of buying fone for a girl. Easy buy for that matter ooo. And the broke girl dey expect me to always call her.

No matter what you do, never date a completely brokgirl. Especially, when entitlement mentality come join the tin.

this is still better than marrying a non virgin

tonychristopher:
Regretted not starting my own business earlier in time ...stuck in salary job for a long time

how long were you on salary job

I was too soft, even when I should have been tough and avoid the abuse that came my way.

I just wanted friends, even the one I should have stamped out immediately or given the iron fist.

My God help me forget and forgive.

tonychristopher:
Never leave a well paying job or business to join the JAPA crowd... You will leave to regret it and don't ever travel or relocate at age of 40 upwards


You are on your own

there are only few well paying jobs in Nigeria, anything below 1m is not paying well

Parydelegate:
Voting APC

Many people regretted that too.

Not being serious with school and also hand work. I just dey with side hustle without any skills

Person wey never touch 10m go think sey e dey change life 😔

Peakdesign23:
1. Most opportunities won't come twice.
2. Nobody really cares about you.
3. Don't try to please anyone but God.
4. As a lady, if your blood group is anything O, like O+, O- do not hesitate to get married early because child bearing might be difficult in your late 20's and thirties. unless you don't really care about kids. Avoid abortion at all cost while you're young!
5. Avoid anything friends!
6. Just because someone is smiling with you doesn't mean that they love you, perhaps if you see what's in their heart, you'll forever avoid them.
7. Don't just assume that connection will come to you. Go out! Meet new people, anything good can come out of it.
8. Don't ever take your security for granted, wherever you live, make sure it's well secured, don't keep your pots of cooked rice or whatever close to your kitchen windows. Even the neighbours aren't to be trusted sometimes.
9. Whenever you call any electrician or anyone to come and fix something in your house, do not be so quick to leave, stay there with them and monitor every thing. Don't give them food, let them work and leave.
10. Never tell people your sources of income or what you earn, not even family members.


Let me stop here for now.

they said regrets not advise



Why do people have comprehension issues ?

Dohwho:
Don’t bring your wife abroad. Don’t try it

Why?

Watcharena:
there are only few well paying jobs in Nigeria, anything below 1m is not paying well

I am not talking about salary earners.... You mustn't earn salary you can creat jobs and earn well....

The world and riches are for entrepreneurs not for salary earners ....


You can't get rich abroad ! Take this from me

Dont displease yourself to please others AKA Selflove is not selfishness

Mine is getting married late.

Going to Uk for my masters

Going back to my "ex"
I regretted it big time, but am free from that witch now

Why the hell did I do that still remain the question I keep asking myself.

ufotty2001:
Marrying a religious woman is my biggest regret in life.

But people pray to marry religious spouse

afunmmy:
Leaving banking job for academics.

Haaaa....is it the money aspect or generally?