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Starz825:
What's the worst that happened?

We are separated.

Not speaking up when something really matters out of fear of rejection, conflict, or discomfort

StoryHaven:
We are separated.

So sorry..

Stay strong bro

DemonSlayer:
One? How about I give you seven?

1. I regret not being consistent.

2. Not facing my discomfort avoidance early. That thief has robbed me blind—time, growth, grit, relationships.

3. Not mastering software engineering in my early twenties. I like to bite more than I can chew. Too many interests, Jack of all fvckin trades... Shoudav picked one skill, mastered it like a god, then move the next one.

4. Not paying attention in school. It was a village school, my teachers were awful, and it was easy. But village school or not, I had textbooks. I just didn’t put in my best.

5. Not being ambitious enough. Not building a business after school and the first two jobs. I would have failed, almost certainly but I also would have since learned what I'm learning now. My money game weak when I should’ve been moving mad.

6. Not buying Bitcoin when it was the price of suya.

7. And oh—I missed my japa window. When it was cheap and easy.

You're not alone in that 6 and 7. Regrets plenty but what to do? Don't ever let them hold us back.

Slimplush:
This is so me, the shit irritate me sometimes I will decide I'm not gonna do this anymore, check me next day, I'm unto it again!!

I please God and myself

I am the most important person in my life after God.

ufotty2001:
Marrying a religious woman is my biggest regret in life.

Abeg, why? Am dating one

tonychristopher:
Not having all my kids or children before 30 yrs


Never wait till millions come before you get married

Those who did it thought they made mistake.. Life no balance

I lost my job while my children were still in the universities and I sold my house in order to fund their education.( Public and Private Universities).
Now a tenant for years and unable to build another one again. Age is also not on my side, but God is still very faithful.

Invest in yourself, in your wife; when challenges come, na two of una go remain. Get sense

Chief2410:
no mind am....even dangote get him own regrets.the more you experience life,the more regrets you should have.

This is something 1 of my physiology lecturer told us some years back. To say you don't have regrets means you've not been living!!!

BeardedMeat:
Op didn't say you should give advice Juliet, he said tell us your experiences that others may learn.

Now, can you tell us your experiences or you want to send it to my DM?

I spelt these out in codes. I expect you to read between the lines to figure out the experience(s). Cheers!

benydy:
Marrying out of pity and also marrying a man older than me with ten years

What do you think is the ideal age difference between couples?


And what's the bad experience you had in marrying a man 10years older than you?

NSK4U:
Staked 1k plus odds sporty. Cashed out 22k out of almost 3milla game. Everything later came

Stake games with confidence and trust the process. Avoid cash out like plague

If you no cash out the game go cut..
They allocated special juju for that.

nickxtra:
A 2 nights quickies with a family female friend which resulted me being infected with a stubborn STD that am still battling with now. As if she knew what she did to me, she has not stepped her feet to our since then. I have not got close to my wife since for fear of infecting her.

...the infection normally scratches me around my private with offensive odour. I will appreciate any medication advice

Haa.... U b omo ale o

Marrying a JOBLESS woman.

Frustration and depression nearly kee me

chidi2003:
Many Nigerians can never learn - even in the next world.

By the time they start sharing 4k weeks before election, they'll surely vote for them again. Quite pathetic bro

JobAndVacancies:
she must have been really terrible

It was pathetic, it's an experience I wish it clear off my head.

LARRYOBRAIN:
Invest in yourself, in your wife; when challenges come, nz two of una ho remain. Get sense

Many people no go understand this... Thank God it happened earlier and my wife brain come correct if not, she been think say she be mother Teresa or mother Mary of everybody thinking that they will reciprocate when things turn upside down... But na shege banza they show am and laughed her... I reminded her of my warnings

My own be say, when you marry, move away from home and in laws. Don't stay in the same state with them, e get why.

EmperorIsaac:
Haaaa....is it the money aspect or generally?

Academics in Nigeria is not worth it. After PhD we still earn less than an entry level bank officer. You publish or you perish. It's a low life job.

Not taking my health serious. Not going for check ups

Marriage/falling in deep love

GiftofGod77:
For me it is that i did not follow Jesus quite as much i should. By following Him i mean obeying Him completely in every sense of the word. For obedience to His Word brings success, breakthrough, deliverance, wisdom, peace, security and life everlasting...

I know what i am saying because at 48 years today with four children and a lovely wife but things are not balanced i can share and advice alot

You see that thing called Procrastination…It’s a killer of destiny. Before you know it years have gone down the drain.

treatise:
Say that again. It
Beclouded unimaginable frailties that are now having horrible adverse consequences.

they can't think by themselves, they believe on their pastors than husband, they always believe that there is something negative that is chasing them, they don't believe on themselves.

imoh4king:
Abeg, why? Am dating one

they can't think by themselves, they believe on their pastors than husband, they always believe that there is something negative that is chasing them, they don't believe on themselves. If you are a man that is fill with ambitions and goals.. don't go for them they will destroy u.

Hahnemann:
She no gree give u doggy?

they can't think by themselves, they believe on their pastors than husband, they always believe that there is something negative that is chasing them, they don't believe on themselves.

bepositive11:
Why?

they can't think by themselves, they believe on their pastors than husband, they always believe that there is something negative that is chasing them, they don't believe on themselves.

YourGFsnatcher:
Most wicked women I met are the most religious. I can never be close to a religious woman, NEVER

they can't think by themselves, they believe on their pastors than husband, they always believe that there is something negative that is chasing them, they don't believe on themselves.

7arrows:
Realy? I'll like to hear small gist if you can flow.

they can't think by themselves, they believe on their pastors than husband, they always believe that there is something negative that is chasing them, they don't believe on themselves. If you are a man full of ambitions they will destroy it..

kaymart:
But people pray to marry religious spouse

they can't think by themselves, they believe on their pastors than husband, they always believe that there is something negative that is chasing them, they don't believe on themselves.

treatise:
Say that again. It
Beclouded unimaginable frailties that are now having horrible adverse consequences.

they can't think by themselves, they believe on their pastors than husband, they always believe that there is something negative that is chasing them, they don't believe on themselves.