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Is This A Red Flag? by SirL0neWolf(op): 6:33pm On Jun 01, 2025
Ah and you’re not permitted to love them children more than me 🤣 they will grow up and leave us with ourselves 😂😂😂😅

I mean of course you should love your children to stupor but WE come first!

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I felt somehow reading this from her honestly especially the part of we coming first. Maybe I'm overreacting though. What do y'all think??
Re: Is This A Red Flag? by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jun 01, 2025
love YOUR children ?
Did I read right ? Or some typographical error from your end ?
Re: Is This A Red Flag? by advanceDNA: 8:52pm On Jun 01, 2025
SirL0neWolf:
Ah and you’re not permitted to love them children more than me 🤣 they will grow up and leave us with ourselves 😂😂😂😅

I mean of course you should love your children to stupor but WE come first!

⬆️
I felt somehow reading this from her honestly especially the part of we coming first. Maybe I'm overreacting though. What do y'all think??
So u don't see the sense in her comment ?

because the focus and love shifts totally to the kids once they arrive, spark in most marriages die out even if couple don't divorce ..

Like she said....love the kids you share... But keep the love btw you and your wife even stronger because she's right that kids will grow and leave....na una two go remain...
Re: Is This A Red Flag? by elmagnifico411(m): 9:11pm On Jun 01, 2025
advanceDNA:
So u don't see the sense in her comment ?

because the focus and love shifts totally to the kids once they arrive, spark in most marriages die out even if couple don't divorce ..

Like she said....love the kids you share... But keep the love btw you and your wife even stronger because she's right that kids will grow and leave....na una two go remain...
if he’s finding the it out to understand what’s she’s said, which happens to be the truth, what then is he doing in a relationship? He doesn’t even understand what “red flag” means.
Re: Is This A Red Flag? by Baronthecelebri(m): 5:16am On Jun 02, 2025
She might be right
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