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Name one mistake you have made in life so someone else doesn't do it.

I suppose we actually learn from the mistakes of others.

Not getting married on time when I had the chance ( finance, looks, charisma, youth ). Now I am still a 47 year old bachelor *sobs*

Any single lady here ?

It's very okay go make mistakes. Sometimes, experience is the best teacher. But make your own no pass be careful.

When we were young and naive, most of us were actually very stubborn, made irrational decisions, perhaps we thought that life was supposed to be like that. Our parents flogged us, talked to us, advised us, some ignored, some listened. Some had nobody to advise them, some were orphans and life humbled them. Some were very rich and spoilt, they ended their lives with hard dr̃ûgs.

Life Na stage, we all have erred but the best part learn from it and to be the best version of ourselves and be happy. After all, life is short.

Having the resources to leave Nigeria in Buhari’s final year but squandering it instead. Now I’m stuck here n might have to sell my only asset and run to Asia 😭

Being a side chick... I wish things could've been done in an amicable way but yeah, it happened.

In as much as it takes two to tango, a lady will always be the one to bear the burden of it all.

I got beaten, poisoned, and even found myself spending a weekend in a police cell because of it... The lady properly dealt with me and gave me a lesson I'll never forget.

So ladies, don't be side chicks because you might never know, it might just cost your life.

Samantha125:
Being a side chick... I wish things could've been done in an amicable way but yeah, it happened.

In as much as it takes two to tango, a lady will always be the one to bear the burden of it all.

I got beaten, poisoned, and even found myself spending a weekend in a police cell because of it... The lady properly dealt with me and gave me a lesson I'll never forget.

So ladies, don't be side chicks because you might never know, it might just cost your life.

Yet, foolish people think side chicks get the "best part of the deal".
They're still the ones that mock and blame the wife for fighting the side chick.

Well, the guy did ended up upgrading me into a wife, but don't judge me okay? It happened and life goes on.

Personally, I'll never fight a side chick or even confront my husband about it upon finding out, there are many ways to deal with a cheating husband, you just have to learn to play your cards right.

And the girl is now behind bars for attempted murder.

Mariangeles:
Yet, foolish people think side chicks get the "best part of the deal".
They're still the ones that mock and blame the wife for fighting the side chick.

donogaga:
✓ Name one mistake you have made in life so someone else doesn't do it.
I suppose we actually learn from the mistakes of others.

I believe I have yet the make any mistake that is of significance.

You've got guts for sharing your story though.

Samantha125:
Well, the guy did ended up upgrading me into a wife, but don't judge me okay? It happened and life goes on.

Personally, I'll never fight a side chick or even confront my husband about it upon finding out, there are many ways to deal with a cheating husband, you just have to learn to play your cards right.

And the girl is now behind bars for attempted murder.

But I sometimes don't get it, why do some women always see the need to be fighting the other woman instead of the man? He'd have been the one who willingly stepped out of their relationship or marriage?

Mariangeles:
You've got guts for sharing your story though.

Samantha125:
But I sometimes don't get it, why do some women always see the need to be fighting the other woman instead of the man? He'd have been the one who willingly stepped out of their relationship or marriage?

Who says she cannot make everyone involved in the betrayal pay?
The truth is, nobody can tell a hurt woman how to feel, or who to fight.

Well, they mostly target the other woman instead of the man, who's the one who willingly brought in a third party into the picture.

Because chances are even if you manage to fight off the first side chick, he'd still get another one and the circle will keep repeating itself over and over again.

Anyways, let's leave it.

Mariangeles:
Who says she cannot make everyone involved in the betrayal pay?
The truth is, nobody can tell a hurt woman how to feel, or who to fight.

Kobojunkie:
I believe I have yet the make any mistake that is of significance.

small mistakes that you call insignificant,can cause a whole lot of damage

Celestialsword:
➜small mistakes that you call insignificant,can cause a whole lot of damage

None of the mistakes of my past have ever resulted in damages of the magnitude you describe, though.

Kobojunkie:
None of the mistakes of my past have ever resulted in damages of the magnitude you describe, though.

It means you are a docile personality

Celestialsword:
It means you are a docile personality

. I am afraid your comment makes no sense to as far as my personality. Reason it out yourself, and you will realize this even for yourself.

Kobojunkieee:
. I am afraid your comment makes no sense to as far as my personality. Reason it out yourself, and you will realize this even for yourself.

think deep

Celestialsword:
think deep

You would need to do the deep thinking here since your statement is what makes no sense as far as reality or my personality. Think carefully about it!

Kobojunkie:
You would need to do the deep thinking here since your statement is what makes no sense as far as reality or my personality. Think carefully about it!

let me put it better to your understanding.

If you're solitary,you don't mingle and socialize with people or doing things alone you would think you are Free from mistakes

That in itself is a mistake.No mortal on earth is above mistakes and there's nothing like small mistakes

Some mistakes you think are small will end up haunting you in future

Celestialsword:
➜let me put it better to your understanding.
➜If you're solitary, you don't mingle and socialize with people or doing things alone you would think you are Free from mistakes That in itself is a mistake.
➜ No mortal on earth is above mistakes and there's nothing like small mistakes.
➜ Some mistakes you think are small will end up haunting you in future

Docility is instead characterized by a tendency to be submissive to the suggestions of others. Having a docile personality does not imply a desire for solitude. So, this is confusion from your end.

2. As you rightly realized, being solitary does not insulate one from regrets or making mistakes. So, this point of yours is also moot. 😐

3. Well, since I never denied making mistakes in the past, this here also does not apply to me.

4. Now, to this, I think in a desperate attempt to seem smart, you stooped to projecting your delusions instead. If the some mistakes I made in my past have yet to haunt my future—the present —thus far, doesn't this then somewhat imply that I have yet to make those other some mistakes that, according to you, will end up haunting me in the future? Either that or the future where those other some mistakes will supposedly turn hauntings has yet to arrive for me at this point?😏