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To the Men who randomly stopped texting a girl after you used to talk to her everyday, why did you stop?

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Reciprocating vibe is very low

She’s very interested I’m sure of that Cus I hav my evidence but “playing hard to get is whack game”

She wasn't reciprocating the call and I guess she has many toaster

When you realize the energy you put into the matter has low return, you face important issues.

suppose to be my gf. I sent her 5k for d pocket she never called to acknowledge but instead was with a guy flexing I kept calling to know if seen then she picked and sounded funny I called again and phone was off from 9 till 2am I called she never picked till morning and said she was sorry. I said ok. and that was it.lol.

She was always calling me and expecting me to drive the conversation. Me whey no like long talk.

rampage101:
suppose to be my gf. I sent her 5k for d pocket she never called to acknowledge but instead was with a guy flexing I kept calling to know if seen then she picked and sounded funny I called again and phone was off from 9 till 2am I called she never picked till morning and said she was sorry. I said ok. and that was it.lol.

you for no send that money my G...

She and the guy go don use you laugh tire. Calling you mugu etc...

Well, sha use that phase learn. No send anybody any money again omo iya mi...

Kpele, take heart.

Babamide:
She was always calling me and expecting me to drive the conversation. Me whey no like long talk.

men are the drivers... You just dont like her.

Well i like her.

She don't feel me too much.

So I shay kini I reduce time with her and spend with the people who feel me more..

That kain thing.

Starboytwo:
men are the drivers... You just dont like her.

You can't drive a conversation with a boring person and most Nigerian girls are just that... boring. Even the ones that like you. So better to waste your time on something else than watering barren land.

Most girls can't have any intelligent conversation. All they know is social media and entitlement mentality. It's really sad to see the level of educational decay been paraded in public these days.

Babamide:
She was always calling me and expecting me to drive the conversation. Me whey no like long talk.

This is me ..


Do that to me and I'm gone

Starboytwo:
you for no send that money my G...

She and the guy go don use you laugh tire. Calling you mugu etc...

Well, sha use that phase learn. No send anybody any money again omo iya mi...

Kpele, take heart.

no b lie u talk. but na beer money so I mo feel am but I know say she go feel am wella and also I don lay d pipe severally.i dey plan give am bad one wen next we meet so I no wan show am my anger until we meet again.after that na bye bye for ever.

donogaga:
To the Men who randomly stopped texting a girl after you used to talk to her everyday, why did you stop?

If i don't feel any positive energy coming from her, I'll gradually withdraw from her.

To show am not needy or clinchy.

I got bored

Different experiences:
* 36 missed calls within an hour, even though I texted I was very busy. Madam, I dey owe you money ni??
* Can't hold intelligent conversations, apart from hair, make-up, hangouts. Is that all your life is about??
* Every chat ends up leading to, I need data, urgent money, etc. I be ATM??
* Always talking bad about most people around her like they're terrible people. No, adonbilivit! Check yourself dear.
* Generally the moment I realise you're not going to give me any other value beyond your body, I lose interest. You be ashy??

While trying to show how caring she was she asked me "have you ate" ?
Since then the zeal to chat her waned.