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Connected1:
I have dated women and I currently don't have any nor want any in the next 5 years, I don't feel any attraction for her but I think she's confusing how I care about her for Love.

Because her Brother was even calling me his in-law when he saw me for the 1st time, omo I dae fear abeg.

And you will become successful and live longer.

But why u no wan kpansh her?

I perceive that this lady doesn't have yansh because why?

And op, you knew she was obsessed with you yet you accepted a link for a job from her don't you know it's another way of she tying you down? You now owe her a duty to keep the connection alive. Better reject that job if you want her completely out of your life. So much for not having yansh these days. Otherwise op must have collected his points like Liverpool all season.

Get out abeg, other people have more serious problems. Block her , block the job and have peace. Simple thing to do u come here dey disturb us

Oceanjagaban:
But why u no wan kpansh her?

She no get yansh na why. If she had this won't even be a topic. Op would have been enjoying his life since in silence.

U get sense and focus pass that other OP wey ask him babe "can u bear with me for 4 years?"...lol..The way u are standing ur ground is admirable.

lacasera14:
She no get yansh na why. If she had this won't even be a topic. Op would have been enjoying his life since in silence.

Na true!she no get Assprin

Do the calms, bro. LOLs! It's possible you are her man as revealed to her. Congratulations in advance

Eniti o ye kó kó epon fun kó gbe oju

Nonesense

You sef get ojukokoro
Your game finally caught up with you
Na wen she do you favour
You wan come back out....?
You think say you wise Abi...??
Na man dey do favour anyhow
Woman no dey do favour anyhow
Take it or leave it.

You don't want anything from her but you accept this favour from her right.
You dey joke
Na joke you dey
She go spoil show for you
You go think say na joke

So much drama. Smh.
This life ehn

She's desperate. It's a no no and turn off

Connected1:
I have dated women and I currently don't have any nor want any in the next 5 years, I don't feel any attraction for her but I think she's confusing how I care about her for Love.

Because her Brother was even calling me his in-law when he saw me for the 1st time, omo I dae fear abeg.

Cut her off completely, if she reaches you through a friend, block that friend. The problem you've been avoiding, if you fall into it you'll regret your life. Cut contact completely and face your life.

immortalcrown:
She is desperate and will soon visit a pastor or a dibia to use whatever to either convince or confuse you.

May she find genuine happiness at last.

Very true that's likely how it's all going to end up if he continues to have her close around him that type of babe is really very desperate and very determined she can go to any length to get what she wants.

Just tell her you're dating someone. She doesn't need to know who the person is as it's your personal business. Also limit communication. If she calls sometimes don't pick on time.

This is very sad and crazy 😢

You’re obviously sleeping with her and u expect her not to ne persistent with you

Oceanjagaban:
But why u no wan kpansh her?

dey play
Women won’t be disturbing you like dat if u Neva knack her b4
It’s either dey both had something b4 and wants it to continue or they are still currently knacking
Those questions she’s asking op are not asked from long distances, they are mostly after sex questions

jayAjoku:
bro she is trying to manipulate you and you are half way in her trap, tell her to Bleep off and dont worry about the job if they dont pay you, you can find a new job, she is playing on your emotions and is getting the best of you at the moment, consider your peace of mind as paramount in this situation and block her, unless you done Bleep am and you no wan tell us e no suppose hard to block her

Or he can even arrange a girl that will claim to be his serious girlfriend that will permanently chase her away most ladies are more scared of their own fellow female gender.

You are going mad for someone you claimed you don't have any feelings for ... Oga find another story tell ... Guy man dey run from free kitten I don't know whether you think you are talking to secondary school children

happney65:
Eniti o ye kó kó epon fun kó gbe oju

Nonesense

Connected1

Never, I repeat never marry a lady out of pity nor marry a lady who's using religion manipulation like the one she's using - telling you that God said, she saw this and that in her dream.

You may be surprise this lady Na confirm runs babe but she doesn't want to let go of you because no lady looks for an innocent and well coordinated man than a disguised street girl. Make sure you don't fall for it.

These kind of ladies later turn out to be demons

MaziObinnaokija:
*Singing Love wan tintin ❤️ love wan tintin . Give her a chance . Use CD to enter the oil rig oo .Dnt impregnated her now make she nor show u her true color..U can date her for 6 months/1 year to knw bout her/attitude first.



Marriage/relationship isn't by FORCE .If u too aren't interested in her,find somebody and she'll move on

Op, no matter what you do, don't take this advice, or any advice coming from this character.

29 years of age and unmarried is a kryptonite situation to women. Be patient until you start the job; immediately you get it, her brother's power or influence on it will be nullified.

dkidd:
Lol don't chase her away angrily oo
Omor this thing funny die but to U I know it's very painful cos I been there a lot. The greatest mistake U will make is to knack her for whatever reasons. The day U try it is the day U buy Ur own coffin in the matter. No try am!!!
She's evil and is working on U. She may use that job to frustrate U but don't react angrily unnecessarily, forget about her intentions they're just what she's obsessed with always let her know her boundaries gently but with authority.

No dey act like say U dey consider her proposal

No dey act like it's affecting U by showing any form of emotions (-+) when she brings it up

And do not hate her for wanting U at least try mask am make she nor conclude say U hate her.

Some girls the moment they start being with U, Ur already their property. Na God save U say U never knack na sorry for be Ur name

Op in whatever you do, follow this advice.

Wetin person no dey chop him no suppose dey use teeth share am

Dtruthspeaker:
Too Late!

Shebi, Men believe that God is talking rubbish and that it is their right to knack any woman wey make dia pissing tool stand. So uncle don die already, e no know.



So you no mind if evil wants you? Then you are not different from him

Self preservation. No pray to jam girl when carry ur matter as our politicians carry election matter.

Connected1:
I have dated women and I currently don't have any nor want any in the next 5 years, I don't feel any attraction for her but I think she's confusing how I care about her for Love.

Because her Brother was even calling me his in-law when he saw me for the 1st time, omo I dae fear abeg.

When be wedding make I come dance and eat jollof rice

Connected1:
I have a lot of women profess love for me, to be honest I don't even know how to ask a woman out again because they mostly do it these days but this lady in question don't want to take No for an Answer.

I don't need a woman's love, I need finances and connections.

Naybe your type is like magnet to them, the type that doesnt need their love but chases his dreams
In anycase she is doing this because she is desperate and she thinks you have money. There is no love calculation in most marriages, just stability and finances.

Allow the tree to mature before you axe it
My business and the girl you can pretend

Dtruthspeaker:
Bros, sorry o, I no believe you. You know how much you don bleed troway already?

Men no dey troway money for woman wey dem no penetrate. And from the way you still allow her hang around you, e be like say you dey collect release

Don't paint everyone with the same bad brush you paint yourself with.

Connected1:
A Coursemate Friend gave me the number of a certain girl about 3 years ago saying that she needed a friend to talk with, so I started getting along with her based on my easy going personality, so at a point she needed finance and myself not giving money anyhow I gave her my goods to sell and take the profit whilst she bring back my capital, she failed at it and I went to take back my goods, after that I bought goods for her to sell based on a business she said her friend told her about, the business failed and I barely got my capital I gave her.


I was doing the best I can for her but then she brought talks about having feelings for me and how she knows I do too but I kept hiding mine, so I shunned her about it, we quarreled and I deleted her phone number & blocked her everywhere, after a very short while, she began using her friends to call me and beg me, I completely ignored everything because i don't have any feelings for her nor am I even interested in sleeping with her when she offered me sex despite saying she was sacred about all that.

Alas I unblocked her when she lost her mum and she wrote me, I felt I needed to assist in consoling her by unblocking and chatting her up, then I offered some financial help too because both her parents are now gone and I told her not to bother me about dating her and focus on offers she receives which she agreed on, she's 29 and I understand time is telling on her.

Then some months got past and everything was going well, then she came again with the love jargon again and began saying how she prayed on the day I gave her money around when she lost her mum, she said she told God that whichever man she knows that sent her money is the one going to marry her and I was the only one who sent money and a huge one at that bla bla bla, I was infuriated and told her I unblocked her because she lost her mum, she kept explaining and I wasn't having any of it, then she agreed and swore not to disturb me about dating or marrying her I recommended she blocked me so that it will help her to forget about me but she never agreed.

We got talking again and living our lives until this week when she brought up issues about dating and marrying her again, how she saw me in her dreams that I was the one, how 2 other guys were asking her out and she prayed to God to know the right one and i suddenly appeared in her dreams, at this point I think I am sick of it and might go mad anytime soon if I continue like this, the reason I haven't blocked her everywhere this time around is because she gave me a job connect which one of her elder brothers was involved in as an exco member and I paid some money like others did only that it was cheaper so I have been hesitant, since it seems the job is about to taking shape and they may start paying this month or next, around 150k -200k for 2 weeks and I intend using it as a side hustle along side my business and normal job.

Please I need your advice, because whilst I have no intentions to date her or have sex out of pity, I can't just let this job opportunity go like that because I feel she may tell her brother to jeopardise the whole thing for me now if I chase her away angrily.

I will appreciate your inputs, regardless of how I feel about it.

Your first attempt of escape was the initial blocking and it was successful

Now because of her mom's death, you unblock her, gift her condolence money, went further to invest in her brother business, well you are close to he trap

The only way to escape is to avoid anything sex, once you can avoid her pulling you to sex, half of the problems is solved

The major thing now is that, you have to be ready to forfit that deal with his brother incase you don't get your profit and or your capital

That's when you will realize everything, but for now keep your to yourself discipline and avoid that sex if you know that you are not interested