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Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by ChybuzzDD(m): 3:06pm On Jun 09, 2025
helinues:
Read and comprehend and stop sounding like an illiterate
See this one. Read and comprehend what??

The thread is asking about traits people inherited from their parents....

And your response is: "Cheating in relationship".
This means you're telling us you inherited cheating in relationships from your father.

The other things you wrote about finding it disgusting is not a denial of your first response that you inherited cheating.
Haven't you seen thieves who found their stealing habits disgusting but couldn't help it huh

I believe you're just learning to construct sentences without thinking about their full meanings.
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by MikeofKd(m): 3:11pm On Jun 09, 2025
janetbassey:
How are you so sure you are a good person?
It's usually people outside of yourself that can attest to that after engaging with you.
Well I know I'm a good person cause I've helped a lot of people in need , coulda just minded my business but I helped anyways.

And I don't go around telling stories of pple I helped , I'm only saying this here cus it's a faceless forum.
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by Seunomobo: 3:14pm On Jun 09, 2025
EmperorIsaac:
Perfectionist tendencies...from my dad!
Perfectionist are narcissist
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by MikeofKd(m): 3:15pm On Jun 09, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Nonsense claim! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Being an arsehole to others is not logical but pure arseholery that stems from having terrible social and emotional intelligence. Stop going around lying that you possess the gift of logic when you don't. 🥱🥱🥱🥱
I'm more emotional intelligent than you tho.
I'm also quite logical than you , you seem not to understand the difference between logic and emotions , your emotional that's why you are spitting all these curse words in the first place , I'm logical that's why I'm giving u a reply without any curse words.
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by Celestialsword: 3:16pm On Jun 09, 2025
Genetic traits cannot be erased , it's in the blood and inside your bones,

If you noticed it,you can only control it through discipline
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by Kobojunkie: 3:29pm On Jun 09, 2025
MikeofKd:
✓ I'm more emotional intelligent than you tho.
✓ I'm also quite logical than you ,
✓ you seem not to understand the difference between logic and emotions ,
✓ your emotional that's why you are spitting all these curse words in the first place ✓ I'm logical that's why ✓ I'm giving u a reply without any curse words.
Your claims vehemently deny this claim of yours. undecided

2. Again, your very own confessions clearly reveal you are far from logical in your dealings. undecided

3. My understanding of the difference between emotions and logic isn't the problem here but your lack. undecided

4. Stating a fact DOES NOT suggest that one is being emotional. But you wouldn't realize this because you probably think emotions are dirty things that you should consider beneath you--- even though you are clearly ruled by them from your earlier claims of being cold --, right? 🥱🥱🥱

5. Again, there is absolutely nothing logical about the way you approach your emotions or the way you confess you treat others. 🥱🥱🥱🥱
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by Meself: 3:57pm On Jun 09, 2025
I don't know both
Nothing for me to say
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by sparko1(m): 3:59pm On Jun 09, 2025
IBenardoo:
I am too reserved, and i dey mind my business. This one is definitely my dad's
Mine is worse, got both from my dad, reserved and a stoic.

I practically have to stay away from people if not, they can use the hell out of me, with me complaining.
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by Ibehchizzy: 4:07pm On Jun 09, 2025
Quick to anger like my dad
And stubborn like my mom
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by Kobojunkie: 4:08pm On Jun 09, 2025
Ibehchizzy:
Quick to anger like my dad
And stubborn like my mom
Most of these people posting are learned traits, many of them bad habits, that can be unlearned by those disciplined enough to want to do so. 🥱🥱🥱🥱
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by TERFAU(m): 4:11pm On Jun 09, 2025
Sucking my mouth.
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by Fghhkcffjkvvhjj(m): 4:12pm On Jun 09, 2025
My own plenty sha;
1) I don't know how to make friends and always a reserved Guy.

2) I find it very hard to air my opinion or say my mind when having a discussion in the midst of people so that I won't appear dumb or foolish.

3) I can't have a face to face conversation with a female without feeling Nervous even when I have gotten some compliment from them about how handsome I look.
But I don't like them at all and have been struggling really hard to overcome them all.

My mata long abeg.
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by Double0h7(f): 4:13pm On Jun 09, 2025
I'm critical of myself and others. I'm working on changing that from the inside. The nicer I am to myself, the less judgy I am about the people around me. I'm a work in progress until my last breath so 🤷‍♀️
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by Ojigho1: 4:19pm On Jun 09, 2025
Mine is forgiving and forgetting. I no dey forget anything. My head dey upload the matter. 30 years down the line,I go remind you with clarity.
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by Kola5281(m): 4:19pm On Jun 09, 2025
Stuttering from my late mom
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by Double0h7(f):
Ojigho1:
Mine is forgiving and forgetting. I no dey forget anything. My head dey upload the matter. 30 years down the line,I go remind you with clarity.
You should could work on that! Resentment is known to lead to tumours.
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by janetbassey(f): 4:36pm On Jun 09, 2025
MikeofKd:
Well I know I'm a good person cause I've helped a lot of people in need , coulda just minded my business but I helped anyways.

And I don't go around telling stories of pple I helped , I'm only saying this here cus it's a faceless forum.
Hmm okay. If you say so.

I hope you find a nice well mannered girl to keep you happy. Take care. 😊
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by Kobojunkie: 4:39pm On Jun 09, 2025
janetbassey:
➜Hmm okay. If you say so. I hope you find a nice well mannered girl to keep you happy. Take care. 😊
You will not send yourself but someone else's daughter in with that immature being? How cruel can you be? undecided
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by EmperorIsaac(m): 4:39pm On Jun 09, 2025
Seunomobo:
Perfectionist are narcissist
The word "narcissim" was coined and defined by humans. Plus it is a Social Science concept, meaning it's subjective. I hope you are careful enough to glean the subtle message...if not, don't bother mentioning me again.
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by saphiere(f): 4:58pm On Jun 09, 2025
QuinQ:
Many women complain of this when in reality they're NOT as kind and self-sacrificing as they think!
Congratulations to those 'many women '
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by QuinQ: 5:13pm On Jun 09, 2025
saphiere:
Congratulations to those 'many women '
On the whole women are more "heartless" than men but they usually see themselves as kind, caring, and self-sacrificing
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by femi4: 5:35pm On Jun 09, 2025
IBenardoo:
I am too reserved, and i dey mind my business. This one is definitely my dad's
I don't beg, never begged, in fact don't know how to beg


A lecturer asked us to come and beg him for marks, others but I refused to turn my 68 to 70. I don't take nonsense...n that's from Dad
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by saphiere(f): 5:38pm On Jun 09, 2025
QuinQ:
On the whole women are more "heartless" than men but they usually see themselves as kind, caring, and self-sacrificing
Congrats to them
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by Nobody: 5:41pm On Jun 09, 2025
saphiere:
Yes. Being too kind with people. I got this from my mum. Putting others before me. And this has made people use my head.
Lol I had to check if ur the same saphiere of Nairaland and it's u. Also ur signature lol are u going soft or what... wonderful grin
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by iykololo(m): 6:00pm On Jun 09, 2025
helinues:
Cheating in relationship

Not for once I caught my dad cheating or flirting.

Cheating is disgusting to me
grin guy man
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by QuinQ: 6:08pm On Jun 09, 2025
saphiere:
Congrats to them
Smile. Let's give then a big clap
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by QuinQ: 6:10pm On Jun 09, 2025
dkidd:
Lol I had to check if ur the same saphiere of Nairaland and it's u. Also ur signature lol are u going soft or what... wonderful grin
Most women think same. They like deceiving themselves cheesy
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by Starboytwo(m): 6:19pm On Jun 09, 2025
Amebo I guess. From my mum, she don't do side talks.

I'm really not interested if it's non of my business... Walahi talahi.

Case example, Was playing football yesterday, all of a sudden there was some commotion outside the gate and almost everyone rushed out blah blah... Na only me dey on top field they jug ball... I was not interested in the least what's happening outside...
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by stevups(m): 6:31pm On Jun 09, 2025
I'm too reserved like my father. Then my son is copying what I did when I was small. Scrubbing my pen*s. How do I correct him? Can someone help?
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by saphiere(f): 6:39pm On Jun 09, 2025
QuinQ:
Most women think same. They like deceiving themselves cheesy
E pain u. Stop tagging me to ur misery.
Re: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by QuinQ: 6:44pm On Jun 09, 2025
saphiere:
E pain u. Stop tagging me to ur misery.
Why are you responding to a statement that didn't mention you? You get time o
*Oh ok, the op mentioned you

stevups:
I'm too reserved like my father. Then my son is copying what I did when I was small. Scrubbing my pen*s. How do I correct him? Can someone help?
Scrubbing your penis?

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