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My favourite thread of the year

This is Africa. Everyone must marry o.

Stop boyfriend or girlfriending or dating based on the economy design.
Never shy away. Just face the responsibilities squarely.

Be bold to have a spouse and children as early as possible. Be responsible always. Forget comfort and white man nonsense

richie240:
He has told u the truth there, whether u accept it or not is irrelevant.

The average woman, in her thirst to be married can agree to marry a mechanic just to get that 'Mrs' title, but just know say he be 'stop-gap measure' to her. It's like somebody who's starving, e go manage garri until e see d tin wey e really want chop!
She'll still be managing him till she finds the man of her dreams or at worst the man that is better than her current husband.

Marriage nor is not a tea party.

Listen to this advice, everyone, and those who are deluded up there. When a woman feels she is bigger than you, she will look up to a man that is bigger than her. And that's why you have to be steps ahead of her.

Burgerlomo:
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Pheeew!!

Any godly lady here from 30 years should check my profile and chat with me or drop her details.

You will know a good one when she understands humility.

Good luck to the eligible ladies here

casualobserver:
if you have to teach a woman of 30+ how to find a husband, it means she is fundamentally not wifeable!

Some people can be late bloomers. Or struggling with a personality complex. Or has a physical deformity. Or under a magic spell or hex. Or just generally unlucky.

Adanambra1

You need to calm down. It's not the fault of those ladies that they are still single. I am not in any way suggesting that you blamed them for it. That stated, I just want to let you know that many ladies are single because Nigeria is in a big mess. A guy has to be financially stable to take care of himself well enough before thinking of getting married.

Interestingly, some ladies who are comfortable are always hypergamous. They would rather keep waiting for a suitor who is more comfortable than them than supporting a struggling man who likes them to become financially stable. With the way things are going, many ladies will start resorting to being single mothers and raising their own children.

Hello...

Iamzik:
Hello Samantha!

Sure...

TrendXplainer:
Can I take seat next to you Samantha?

RESPECT!!! And be feminine ! Thats mostly what you need to get a man ! You see put aside that your interpretation of love and know that Respect is love for a man . Just take time and study how to be respectful to a man no matter how useful or useless he is .

Then say yes to the one that naturally does most of what you want in love .

Maitunbi:
Some people can be late bloomers. Or struggling with a personality complex. Or has a physical deformity. Or under a magic spell or hex. Or just generally unlucky.

Nothing like late bloomer or unlucky. you either have it or you dont. you were either raised right or you werent, you either have the right values or you dont, you either have the right attitude or you dont. You either have the qualities a man wants in a wife or you dont. The reason a woman is unmarried at 30+ and needs help to find a man is that the kind of men she is looking for have crossed paths with her in the 30+ years of her life and all have concluded that she doesnt have what they are looking for. No man sees a good woman and lets her go, if he is not in need of a wife he will have a good friend who does!


The kind of things that a good man seeks in a wife are not the kind of things you can teach at 30 when charactyer, habits, mindset have already been formed. Those few women 30+ who are wifeable but for some reason are single dont need to be taught because they have the qualities and stand out amongst the single women of her age group.

Thread for evening punch/vanguard on how to get married in 2025.

Any guy man that married any lady above 25yo is not a real man. Na broke men wey dey find "support" dey do that one. No enjoyment in marrying oldies in the name of wife.

Real niggas go for young and new chasis

I'm a man that need a serious lady for marriage ..Osun State or willing to relocate to Osun ..I have a job and got a house of my own .. I'm capable of taking care of my Nuclear family... You can send a DM for us to take it from there

autoez:
Make una leave space for the women to comment na

Leave the agbayas.

Three pages and not a single "F" comment. It's not every thread one should have an opinion, especially when you're not the target audience.

The blame lies on the moderator who pushed the thread to the front page without the OP's strategy. Also, the OP is to be blamed. When you state that you have a method to explain, you do so at once even if it means creating this thread at a much later date.

For ladies that are not ready

The best advice for ladies in this category is that they should flee away from their pastors

bukkani:
I'm a man that need a serious lady for marriage ..Osun State or willing to relocate to Osun ..I have a job and got a house of my own .. I'm capable of taking care of my Nuclear family... You can send a DM for us to take it from there

Eleyi wa eni to o ma do. Bad guy. My guy..

No allow any guy to lead you on....

Be intentional about what u want...

Don't be desperate, what is urs will definitely be urs

Any phone convos with a guy wey don dey pas 2-3min, find ways to end it, u are not in ur 20's

Embrace the things u love doing more

No allow people or society pressure you

Eat and exercise well

Read and catch some movies

Socialize with sense

Marriage wey u Wan enter, some dey run comot am like sey na volcano, prep ursef up on how u gonna tackle some issues u might face when u are in coz it's definitely not a bed of roses

Everything God create, he creates well, so, he won't choose for u, pray for his guidiance...

If the right person finally show, no 4get to tag me for wedding rice....

I'm here to read comments from Mynd44

ebexy:
Any godly lady here from 30 years should check my profile and chat with me or drop her details.

PM Iyangbali. She is single and searching. Ajepako is her friend, she can help you to talk to her.

Anyways I'm single and searching should incase you are a female single girl, I'm here for you. Let them celebrate us here on NL

Whoever is teaching you how to get married should also teach you how to keep your home.

Women don't need marriage, close the thread

twosquare:
Not advisable...25 and above still makes sense...as for that age range, they will take back their youth from you, and your eyes will peel when they are done blaming you from marrying her. Learn or perish.

That's not true! Pick girls in that age bracket from humble background and you'll enjoy marriage!

This is how some of you make up unfounded claims just to follow the herd mentality of the woke generation! If I must tell the truth, I'll rather marry a girl in that age bracket even if she's from a poor background than marry all these our evening newspaper feminists! Let the girl just come from a good home with great moral values!

Perpetually obsessed.
Marry the U30s first.

Jman06:
That's not true! Pick girls in that age bracket from humble background and you'll enjoy marriage!

This is how some of you make up unfounded claims just to follow the herd mentality of the woke generation! If I must tell the truth, I'll rather marry a girl in that age bracket even if she's from a poor background than marry all these our evening newspaper feminists! Let the girl just come from a good home with great moral values!

But you got one and you said it yourself here that you are detaching because you don't have sexual urge around her. You said you are hoping she gets the message and breaks up with you. So if she is unfortunate to meet another confused redpiller like you, wouldn't she end up single at 45?

Samantha125:
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Are you still single or looking?