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You dey chat girl
She dey tell you say, she no dey fine
You still get mind continue the chat
You get mind oooooooooooo
You get mind like thief

You no fit off your phone
Remove the battery first

mymen:
Only in Africa

even western world, asking a lady out on a date, u tot eatery is free Abi?

Ijoba85:
They are losing good guys because of their greed and stupidity

honesly I met one sometime ago and I really had good intentions for her till she started seeing the relationship as a means to an end, I had to cut her off

You are a reflection of the quality of women you entertain and/or keep.

EvilMerodack:
He is right tho

Be specific about the kind of girls you roll with. I use their profession/work place to save contact. If you dey work for big firm or you dey very very succesful in business, i go save am. I no dey do corpers, students and random street ladies



I have never sent Data or Airtime to a lady in 5years. There are also ways you psyhce women in your first few convo that they will be scared to say shii like this

Plus, if woman see say you fit pull higher value women with substance, she no go follow you dey discuss hunger matter

Where you dey jam all these correct women?mind you,woman fit get millions for Aza,still dey ask you for 2k oooo

bantilosha:
what stupid circle?

Person appears hurt ooo

englishmart:
I met this babe last month. I managed to get her number, and we've been in contact since then. I was planning to propose to her next month, but won't dare anymore after this clip from our recent conversation

You met someone last month and planning to propose next month?? Una dey take risk o

Nazgul:
Bro leave this change your cycle talk.

In Nigeria today it's almost impossible to maintain communication with a girl for at least one month without her requesting anything from you. Regardless of whether she a working class or a jobless girl. One need must come up provided you've decided to take her seriously.

I once chatted with a girl who works as an accountant with a multinational firm, she earns well, yet we can barely finish a conversation without her telling me to order food for her from glovo. I ended up letting her go.

So remove cycle from your mind. Most girls these days are just greedy.

That is the point... it's not the issue of circle or class...The entitlement mentality nature is ingrained in our Nigerian gals.its something that they are trained to become by mothers and society at large.The solution is avoid Nigerian gals completely if you can or go for foreign gals if you can.

Chief2410:
That is the point... it's not the issue of circle or class...The entitlement mentality nature is ingrained in our Nigerian gals.its something that they are trained to become by mothers and society at large.The solution is avoid Nigerian gals completely if you can or go for foreign gals if you can.

Oga the men are the root cause. When you have foolish yahoo boys and rich igbo men splashing money on different girls, why won't girls become entitled and expect everyman to just be giving them money for existing?

Thundafireseun:
2020 when I had my daughter….

I was sending my baby mama 15k every month….
5k for pampers
5k for medicine
5k for Miscellaneous expenses….. don’t forget Nigeria was still very ok

Her father called me that why am I not sending money for feeding to his daughter?
A graduate that was inside his own house…. Under his own roof 😩

just imagine oooo. This thing no be class matter. One babe told me that there is this special joy she gets from eating her boyfriend's money so it's not about having money or not having money.

odinson1:
Oga the men are the root cause. When you have foolish yahoo boys and rich igbo men splashing money on different girls, why won't girls become entitled and expect everyman to just be giving them money for existing?

yes you are very correct.if you don't give them,other men will give them. So it's either you join them in simping or you avoid these gals completely.

ruthieo:
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Una dey find woman
Una no wan spend

Nigeria my country🤣🤣
Woman don suffer for this world o
What's there to spend
Women spend on theirselves too

Women don suffer because men don't want to spend their hard earned money on equally educated and capable adults as themselves? People who feel entitled to another person's money just because they have a vagina.

And if women spend on themselves too, then why the hell are they feeling entitled to a man's money and expecting him to spend on her? Is she not an educated adult? Why should she be entitled to the money of any man?
Women should continue spending on themselves and stop being entitled to another person's money.

Anyway, I won't blame them. It is the foolish igbo men and yahoo boys who created this entitlement problem in our Nigerian girls.

EvilMerodack:
He is right tho

Be specific about the kind of girls you roll with. I use their profession/work place to save contact. If you dey work for big firm or you dey very very succesful in business, i go save am. I no dey do corpers, students and random street ladies



I have never sent Data or Airtime to a lady in 5years. There are also ways you psyhce women in your first few convo that they will be scared to say shii like this

Plus, if woman see say you fit pull higher value women with substance, she no go follow you dey discuss hunger matter

What of your fiancee?

Chief2410:
yes you are very correct.if you don't give them,other men will give them. So it's either you join them in simping or you avoid these gals completely.

Men are stopping these days now sha. Women are always complaining online about how men are stingy and "broke", just because they refused to give them money o

odinson1:
Men are stopping these days now sha. Women are always complaining online about how men are stingy and "broke", just because they refused to give them money o

the ones that are no longer giving is probably because they don't have due to the harsh economy.immediately things become soft they go back to their default state of simping. Na this tinubu government dey reset some men head by fire by force.

You want to propose to a girl you met in a month? Some ladies like testing their man, to know if he's capable of taking care of them

odinson1:
Women don suffer because men don't want to spend their hard earned money on equally educated and capable adults as themselves? People who feel entitled to another person's money just because they have a vagina.

And if women spend on themselves too, then why the hell are they feeling entitled to a man's money and expecting him to spend on her? Is she not an educated adult? Why should she be entitled to the money of any man?
Women should continue spending on themselves and stop being entitled to another person's money.

Anyway, I won't blame them. It is the foolish igbo men and yahoo boys who created this entitlement problem in our Nigerian girls.

🤣🤣🤣 don't be a stingy man bro
It's not easy to be a man
Man up
Nothing bad to spend
Men of those days see nothing wrong in spending
Love is an action word
Well I no get strength to dey talk much
Everyone go dey alright las las
You can choose to be with a woman you don't want to spend on
Na choice
Na people like una nogo fit take care of their wives
One more time don't be stingy bro
It's not that deep
Life no hard like that

Most Nigerian girls are ovans

Actually one girl I just met did that to me yesterday, and I sent her 5k. I'm married already and not looking for love, of course I know it doesn't exist.
5k is not too much for a side chic

Rexymania:
You want to propose to a girl you met in a month? Some ladies like testing their man, to know if he's capable of taking care of them

Exactly
This is my best comment here
How can you be with someone's daughter and you can't nuture her.?
Is labour room your mate or is menstrual cramp your mate
Talkless of pregnancy.?
Let's be compassionate

ruthieo:
🤣🤣🤣 don't be a stingy man bro
It's not easy to be a man
Man up
Nothing bad to spend
Men of those days see nothing wrong in spending
Love is an action word
Well I no get strength to dey talk much
Everyone go dey alright las las
You can choose to be with a woman you don't want to spend on
Na choice
Na people like una nogo fit take care of their wives
One more time don't be stingy bro
It's not that deep
Life no hard like that

If love is an action word, what is the woman doing to prove her love to me?

We're talking about random girls asking random men for money, NOT husband and wife matter. A man provides for his family, NOT a random girl who feels entitled to his money. Do you understand the difference between a random girl and a wife?

And why are men the ones expected to not be the stingy ones? If women work and take care of themselves, why shouldn't they be expected to be generous to random men and give them money?

Nazgul:
Bro leave this change your cycle talk.

In Nigeria today it's almost impossible to maintain communication with a girl for at least one month without her requesting anything from you. Regardless of whether she a working class or a jobless girl. One need must come up provided you've decided to take her seriously.

I once chatted with a girl who works as an accountant with a multinational firm, she earns well, yet we can barely finish a conversation without her telling me to order food for her from glovo. I ended up letting her go.

So remove cycle from your mind. Most girls these days are just greedy.

Lol, Nazgul biko there are still exceptions.

muyico:
even western world, asking a lady out on a date, u tot eatery is free Abi?

God bles you muyico

Lazy and poor nigeria youths everywhere
They think love is cheap
With this expensive economy
If you don't have the capability to take care of a lady
Remain single
Is not by force

SmartPolician:
Look for ladies who have jobs or are doing businesses. Those ones will be too ashamed to tell you they are hungry. Stop going to malls, seeing pouting ladies and asking for their contacts. Those ones are liabilities.

Join groups in church or societies where people with jobs and businesses connect. That's the best place to meet reasonable ladies. Anything outside a working lady or someone who can afford to take care of herself without support, you are bringing liability upon yourself.

All of you wey hold this belief just dey play.
An average woman will ask you for money even if she has.

odinson1:
If love is an action word, what is the woman doing to prove her love to me?

We're talking about random girls asking random men for money, NOT husband and wife matter. A man provides for his family, NOT a random girl who feels entitled to his money. Do you understand the difference between a random girl and a wife?

And why are men the ones expected to not be the stingy ones? If women work and take care of themselves, why shouldn't they be expected to be generous to random men and give them money?

Sure na husband and wife fiancee is what am talking about
Please read muyico view to understand my point
My point is love is not free
You need to spend money
To go to eatery now sef you need to have money
Rather than been pained
I think you should pray that God makes you financially bouyant

veeveanO:
Lol, Nazgul biko there are still exceptions.

The exception doesn't make or disprove the rule.

ChybuzzDD:
All of you wey hold this belief just dey play.
An average woman will ask you for money even if she has.

Gbam
There is this joy a woman derives when her man gives her money

Nazgul:
Bro leave this change your cycle talk.

In Nigeria today it's almost impossible to maintain communication with a girl for at least one month without her requesting anything from you. Regardless of whether she a working class or a jobless girl. One need must come up provided you've decided to take her seriously.

I once chatted with a girl who works as an accountant with a multinational firm, she earns well, yet we can barely finish a conversation without her telling me to order food for her from glovo. I ended up letting her go.

So remove cycle from your mind. Most girls these days are just greedy.

Exactly

ruthieo:
Sure na husband and wife fiancee is what am talking about
Please read muyico view to understand my point
My point is love is not free
You need to spend money
To go to eatery now sef you need to have money
Rather than been pained
I think you should pray that God makes you financially bouyant

If to love is to spend money, why is the man the only one expected to spend? Abi women aren't capable of loving?

We're not talking about marriage here. We're talking about random girls feeling entitled to a man's money just because they have vaginas. That's what the conversation on this thread is about, NOT wife and fiancee.

odinson1:
If to love is to spend money, why is the man the only one expected to spend? Abi women aren't capable of loving?

We're not talking about marriage here. We're talking about random girls feeling entitled to a man's money just because they have vaginas. That's what the conversation on this thread is about, NOT wife and fiancee.

Better o
As for random girls I don't know that one because am not one
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

ruthieo:
Better o
As for random girls I don't know that one because am not one
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

So you didn't even understand the context of the conversation, you just rushed in to accuse men of being stingy?

Now that you understand, do you see why a man has an issue with a random woman being entitled to his money?

You meet a girl today, and tomorrow she's already asking you for money. An educated adult with a working brain... Why did her father even send her to school in the first place?

SMOGnow:
Na you dey feed her before?

You sef na one of them. Hungry girls everywhere.