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“I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Akinblogdotcom: 4:41pm On Sep 24, 2021
A Nigerian lady has empathized with men over how they survive whenever they are financially incapacitated.



The young woman wondered how men get money for food whenever things are terribly bad as she never experienced some of the struggles they complain about no matter how broke she was.

Taking to Twitter via her handle Udara @Caviarpurple, The Nigerian Lady expressed deep concern while recounting stories of male students drinking garri, and trekking to and fro class due to brokenness.

She wrote; ”I always wonder how men survive when they are broke.

Who gives you money? How do you feed?

Who holds you down till things get better?

Back in University, you’ll see boys soaking garri for hours, mixing pap with garri to make it thicker, combining leftover meals (beans and indomie) etc.

Some will tell you how they trekked to & fro classes.

Some never held or used latest phones

Used to make me worry

Because regardless of how broke I was in school, I never experienced all this.

Now that we are all grown and working, I’m just thinking about the ways y’all survive now.”
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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Niyeal(m): 4:43pm On Sep 24, 2021
Capital G O D

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by philiancoop(m): 4:47pm On Sep 24, 2021
Ladies were the only immune ones

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Lavisha(f): 4:48pm On Sep 24, 2021
M A N means Morning, Afternoon, Night.

To be a MAN, you mustn't quit hustling.

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by dammie4j(m): 4:52pm On Sep 24, 2021
Sometimes the smile can be masked. I’ve always promised to support my fellow bro at the slightest opportunity whenever there is a genuine need. I’ve been there honestly.

P.S: Guys, learn to help your fellow gees rather than lavish to impress who will not care sighting a better offer on the table wink

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Blessing185(f): 4:54pm On Sep 24, 2021
Whether na pride I go say or dignity or frustration or manliness no dey even make some of us voice out say we broke. We go just fem begin look up to God.. imagine going out and not eating but thinking of wat family at home will eat and u re all dey depend on..e no easy dats y most men die earlier dan their appointed time.

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by ESANMEA(f): 4:54pm On Sep 24, 2021
Lol.. Cow wey no get tail, na GOD dey pursue flies from hin back..

In all honesty, most men dey try sha.. Even amongst the so called broke ones, they still squeeze out something to give their women..

Respect!

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Magnoliaa(f): 4:59pm On Sep 24, 2021
dammie4j:
Sometimes the smile can be masked. I’ve always promised to support my fellow bro at the slightest opportunity whenever there is a genuine need. I’ve been there honestly.

P.S: Guys, learn to help your fellow gees rather than lavish to impress who will not care sighting a better offer on the table wink

Thank you for the last sentence, especially. What this lady said and your advice is actually an indictment to you men yourselves. You people can form bro codes, and band together to insult women, and call women their own worst enemies, and sleep on a dirty bed, sharing boxers together and bla bla bla (that women typically do not do) and because of that declare that you love each other, because you're all supposedly banging a single girl, but your so-called affinity is only skin deep. You DON'T feel a single thing for each other. And this is not even because you don't have the money. A broke boy can still, any how, whichever way find money to give to his girlfriend, but to give his broke guy friend?

Instead of speaking to yourselves to change your attitudes, you'll rather hate on the girls ''whyning'' your friends' brains. At least a broke partying babe that is being bankrolled will still take the gifts and monies she get from men to share with her friends. The genuine sharing spirit is there.

That men are broke in huge numbers and women are cashing out (typically) only points more to the fact that men do not help one another rather than the manipulation of women y'all cry wolf about.

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 5:03pm On Sep 24, 2021
Salute for Nigerian men.
Fathers of tomorrow

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by yuping(m): 5:04pm On Sep 24, 2021
For ones a Nigeria Lady put herself in men shoe. My dear is not easy ooo, that why when we finally make it we behave arrogant and proud. Because no one was their when it rough. I pray we all make it.

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Intersexxsherry(f): 5:06pm On Sep 24, 2021
Men always give me money.. I don't know how they make the money.
However, i think men share among themselves.

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by 1onebigman(m): 5:08pm On Sep 24, 2021
dammie4j:
Sometimes the smile can be masked. I’ve always promised to support my fellow bro at the slightest opportunity whenever there is a genuine need. I’ve been there honestly.

P.S: Guys, learn to help your fellow gees rather than lavish to impress who will not care sighting a better offer on the table wink
I just followed you because of your maturef way of reasoning,I wish many people will also see d need

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Intersexxsherry(f): 5:08pm On Sep 24, 2021
But seriously women stopped helping men because most of them don't appreciate a good woman.. cool

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Kondomatic(m): 5:21pm On Sep 24, 2021
We work

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Sonnobax15(m): 5:43pm On Sep 24, 2021
lipsrsealed
Abeg make God help me to bless men like Mr. Frowland and his fellow philanthropists wherever they are because it's not easy to find a man who has got a kind heart to the extent of dashing his fellow man money when they're broke cheesy

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Pk01(m): 5:45pm On Sep 24, 2021
My Bae... Ask me this same question.. This early morning

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Babara1994(m): 5:45pm On Sep 24, 2021
Magnoliaa:


Thank you for the last sentence, especially. What this lady said and your advice is actually an indictment to you men yourselves. You people can form bro codes, and band together to insult women, and call women their own worst enemies, and sleep on a dirty bed, sharing boxers together and bla bla bla (that women typically do not do) and because of that declare that you love each other, because you're all supposedly banging a single girl, but your so-called affinity is only skin deep. You DON'T feel a single thing for each other. And this is not even because you don't have the money. A broke boy can still, any how, whichever way find money to give to his girlfriend, but to give his broke guy friend?

Instead of speaking to yourselves to change your attitudes, you'll rather hate on the girls ''whyning'' your friends' brains. At least a broke partying babe that is being bankrolled will still take the gifts and monies she get from men to share with her friends. The genuine sharing spirit is there.

That men are broke in huge numbers and women are cashing out (typically) only points more to the fact that men do not help one another rather than the manipulation of women y'all cry wolf about.
Men actually help themselves more than you stingy hoes. Send me ur savings and I'll buy all my gees drinks and food with it!

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Babara1994(m): 5:47pm On Sep 24, 2021
When men are broke, we borrow or commit suicide!

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Iamagoodgirll: 5:56pm On Sep 24, 2021
Honestly to be a man is not easy there's no help anywhere but a lady can easily get help from a stranger.
May God bless ever hardworking men out there. You're all the real MVP

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by siofra(f): 6:02pm On Sep 24, 2021
Me I'm a woman, no man dey dash me money o
Not even my own father. cry

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Magnoliaa(f): 6:04pm On Sep 24, 2021
Kondomatic:
We work

But this is not always the case at all times. So what happens then? If men work for money and they see the money, then they would not be broke and this would not even be a thing. At the point where they are broke, where do they see money?

Babara1994:

Men actually help themselves more than you stingy hoes. Send me ur savings and I'll buy all my gees drinks and food with it!

Oya, say it without crying. grin So why does it pain so much if y'all help yourself? You don't get it, do you? I understand. It is beyond your comprehension. If this lady was lying, y'all will be here calling BS on her post. But the fact and truth remains:
-You're broke
-You don't have money
-You don't have money
-You're broke

That's reality. So tell me how you survive, without bringing women into it.

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by bigcee(m): 6:10pm On Sep 24, 2021
siofra:
Me I'm a woman, no man dey dash me money o
Not even my own father. cry
Hello
Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by siofra(f): 6:11pm On Sep 24, 2021
bigcee:

Hello

Do you want to dash me money?

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by techWriter3: 6:15pm On Sep 24, 2021
M A N virtue Morning, Afternoon, Night. To wanna a MAN, you mustn't resign hustling.

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Judybash93(m): 6:33pm On Sep 24, 2021
Intersexxsherry:
But seriously women stopped helping men because most of them don't appreciate a good woman.. cool

When did this happen? When?

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Judybash93(m): 6:34pm On Sep 24, 2021
siofra:
Me I'm a woman, no man dey dash me money o
Not even my own father. cry

That's how it should be... Double your hustle.. Krishna gat u

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 6:36pm On Sep 24, 2021
Men don't have va.gina to do a trade by barter.

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by JovialJune(f): 7:14pm On Sep 24, 2021
Magnoliaa:


Thank you for the last sentence, especially. What this lady said and your advice is actually an indictment to you men yourselves. You people can form bro codes, and band together to insult women, and call women their own worst enemies, and sleep on a dirty bed, sharing boxers together and bla bla bla (that women typically do not do) and because of that declare that you love each other, because you're all supposedly banging a single girl, but your so-called affinity is only skin deep. You DON'T feel a single thing for each other. And this is not even because you don't have the money. A broke boy can still, any how, whichever way find money to give to his girlfriend, but to give his broke guy friend?

Instead of speaking to yourselves to change your attitudes, you'll rather hate on the girls ''whyning'' your friends' brains. At least a broke partying babe that is being bankrolled will still take the gifts and monies she get from men to share with her friends. The genuine sharing spirit is there.

That men are broke in huge numbers and women are cashing out (typically) only points more to the fact that men do not help one another rather than the manipulation of women y'all cry wolf about.


Word!!!

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Demigod22: 7:37pm On Sep 24, 2021
Food for thought. Men are going through a lot, especially in Nigeria that our ladies have commercialized relationship. The entire family is looking up to the man, his girlfriend, his own needs.

In every little way you can, in every little opportunity you have, please help a man. We are taught to swallow our pains, that's why many men are not complaining. Every man out there, trying to live up to responsibility, may good Lord bless you abundantly.

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by heniford2: 7:50pm On Sep 24, 2021
Well said

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Nonexisting1: 7:53pm On Sep 24, 2021
To be man, one must not stop hustling, so that and God provide for us. I am proud of my gender.

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Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by Emmadoc: 8:09pm On Sep 24, 2021
Magnoliaa:


But this is not always the case at all times. So what happens then? If men work for money and they see the money, then they would not be broke and this would not even be a thing. At the point where they are broke, where do they see money?



Oya, say it without crying. grin So why does it pain so much if y'all help yourself? You don't get it, do you? I understand. It is beyond your comprehension. If this lady was lying, y'all will be here calling BS on her post. But the fact and truth remains:
-You're broke
-You don't have money
-You don't have money
-You're broke

That's reality. So tell me how you survive, without bringing women into it.

You are so so right.

I've helped a lot of niggas, friends, but I found out, I was being taken advantage of.

There was friend I helped when he was in school, nigga called me, that he needed some cash to tidy up some schools stuff.

I sent him the money, he couldn't pay back, so I told him to pay me whatever he has with him.

He gave me half of the funds I borrowed him, as a real nigga, I told him to keep the rest.

There was a time we were having a conversation about his school, and the idiot told me the money I borrowed him, he never used it for school stuffs, he told me he gave it to his girlfriend...

After sometime, I went to this same guy to borrow me some cash, because he was doing well, I even promise to pay back with interest, men the nigga stopped picking my calls till date.

Before I help such friends in my life again, you must have a collateral, something of value for that money, else I won't give you 1kobo.

Bro code my foot, and he is not the only one, because of people like him I stopped making friends, except na for business.

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