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| Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by cutecommend(op): 7:25am On Jun 11, 2025 |
There may be office situations that are pressing or with pressure: and this may warrant shouting at those or whoever is at fault. Now, if a married staff has done something wrong or did not deliver properly, do not shout or openly complain when his or her spouse is present in the office: maybe for a visit or whatever. You may have to wait for the spouse to leave before you may do such if it warrants it. If the issue is big, you also need to follow due process instead of making a married staff probably looking low in the presence of their spouse. 30 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by thesicilian: 7:33am On Jun 11, 2025 |
This should be common courtesy, but a lot of bosses allow their office to get into their heads so much that they even take pride in humiliating their staff in front of the spouses and sometimes even children. 82 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by EmperorIsaac(m): 7:38am On Jun 11, 2025 |
Only beasts would say otherwise! 27 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by SirWhiteFish: 7:46am On Jun 11, 2025 |
Why would any reasonable person raise his voice on a staff in a corporate setup 40 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by Peakdesign23(f): 7:52am On Jun 11, 2025 |
As courtesy demands. I love the idea. 4 Likes |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by GanagiBitrus: 7:53am On Jun 11, 2025*. Modified: 2:59pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
One of the reasons many companies don't encourage husband & wife in same company, especially same branch or department. A little argument or misunderstanding with a colleague in the office can escalate if the spouse is present. 13 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by OlaOfLagos(m): 8:06am On Jun 11, 2025 |
Na that moment some so called boss will exercise their power. Mtcheeewwww 2 Likes |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by Thundafireseun: 8:43am On Jun 11, 2025 |
Just imagine a solider slapping a married man in front of his wife and children 😆😆😆 5 Likes |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by Novelty28: 12:46pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
Thundafireseun: |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by Kobicove(m): 12:47pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
This is common sense...although common sense is not so common  4 Likes |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by Chucks13: 12:47pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
Why would you shout on your staff in the first place when you are a garage tout? 7 Likes |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by Kobicove(m): 12:49pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
Thundafireseun:Anything the soldier sees he should accept it in good faith  9 Likes |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by codemaster2much: 12:49pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
I’ve worked with both bosses who shout and those who don’t. Having held senior roles for years with people reporting to me, I can confidently say that shouting is a personal choice. Choosing to treat others with basic human dignity is always within our control—it’s a reflection of character, not circumstance. 14 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by Kobicove(m): 12:50pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
Chucks13:Some staff get coconut head, they can frustrate you to the extent that you will loose your temper  3 Likes |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by Algold: 12:50pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
Have you ever noticed that multinational companies and banks don't allow its staff to marry each other. They so discourage it. If it eventually happens they don't stay in same environment. During training for the job description. The PR insert it to let you know that if you must go far in your work. You have to avoid it 2 Likes |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by Guyman02: 12:50pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
Its common sense expected behaviour, when you denigrate a staff in front of their spouse you inadvertently could create crisis for them at home. They will use it against each during minor quarrel which could escalate if any of them makes reference to how the other was treated in the office and they will tell their partner they deserve same level of respect given to the boss from their spouse which is not how marriages work. Please allow the spouse to be out of sight before scolding your staff Thundafireseun:Military don't disrespect spouses of service men and women, that's why during their promotion spouses are invited to wear the new rank insignia on their spouses because it's assumed that the spouse is one rank above the officer, it means that if you are a Brig General, your wife is a Major General. See picture below of IGP decorating an officer, after putting the new rank he has to turn to his wife and give her a senior officer salute 4 Likes
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| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by olaJako(m): 12:51pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
Tell such to the Military and wait for their response 1 Like |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by Kobicove(m): 12:52pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
OlaOfLagos:It is usually a person who has low self esteem that will deliberately try to put another person down in public in order to feel good with himself 4 Likes |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by idalex: 12:53pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
ok |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by Fatbam005: 12:53pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
Some boss like to show say Dem be boss meanwhile Dem no get the stamina spiritually 2 Likes |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by LZAA: 12:54pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
Why would a couple be working in the same firm? Before itks come o. Yes it happens but it's not ideal 1 Like |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by Kobicove(m): 12:54pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
LZAA:It is strongly discouraged in most standard corporate organisations including banks but I hear it happens a lot in the public sector especially in federal or state owned universities 1 Like |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by iHart(m): 12:54pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
Thank you |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by Cj4charles(m): 12:54pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
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| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by qtx(m): 12:54pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
Thundafireseun:Soldier na spirit? Omo soldier na human being too, him go must collect, anything wei wan happen make e happen. |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by pharmagba: 12:55pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
As a rule if a parent disappoint me I don't talk down on them in front of their children. I ensure the child is not there before lambasting the person wella! |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by AllBlack: 12:56pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
Chucks13:NOT |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by LZAA: 12:59pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
Kobicove:Exactly |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by slimmax: 12:59pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
Them no dey try am with me, na to give am back wotowoto, Wetin happen to sending an official mail? Who be pikin for office 1 Like |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by Helloworld123: 12:59pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
What about do not shout at anyone. 2 Likes |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by chatinent: 1:00pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
Whether married or not, you don't have to shout at people who work! You aren't doing them a favour! It's trade by barter! 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by Lezzlie(m): 1:00pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
cutecommend:married women are not supposed to work under any man. They should do business ideally. 1 Like |
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