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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by odinson1(m): 12:18pm On Jun 11, 2025
Chief2410:
the ones that are no longer giving is probably because they don't have due to the harsh economy.immediately things become soft they go back to their default state of simping. Na this tinubu government dey reset some men head by fire by force.
Men just too mumu
These idiots cannot understand that they're creating a big problem for the rest of us. You can be talking with a girl today, and she's already thinking she deserves the money in your pockets just because she has a vagina.

Why? Well because other men are always spending on her, so why won't she feel entitled to men's money in general? Na God go punish all the foolish men wey dey for this world
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by ruthieo(f): 12:18pm On Jun 11, 2025
odinson1:
So you didn't even understand the context of the conversation, you just rushed in to accuse men of being stingy?

Now that you understand, do you see why a man has an issue with a random woman being entitled to his money?

You meet a girl today, and tomorrow she's already asking you for money. An educated adult with a working brain... Why did her father even send her to school in the first place?
Men are stingy joor😂
Random woman hmmmmm
God abeg
Dey go dey alright
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by BigDawsNet: 12:21pm On Jun 11, 2025
gigabyte13:
You dey chat girl
She dey tell you say, she no dey fine
You still get mind continue the chat
You get mind oooooooooooo
You get mind like thief

You fit off your phone
Remove the battery first
But phone this days comes with non removable batteries 😂😂😂
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by Chief2410: 12:23pm On Jun 11, 2025
odinson1:
Men just too mumu
These idiots cannot understand that they're creating a big problem for the rest of us. You can be talking with a girl today, and she's already thinking she deserves the money in your pockets just because she has a vagina.

Why? Well because other men are always spending on her, so why won't she feel entitled to men's money in general? Na God go punish all the foolish men wey dey for this world
As in them don spoil things finish for most Nigerian men struggling to make ends meet. My advice for men is stay away from these women for a while and see their brains reset with time.
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by Chief2410: 12:25pm On Jun 11, 2025
ruthieo:
Men are stingy joor😂
Random woman hmmmmm
God abeg
Dey go dey alright
better to be stingy than to be used. You that is not stingy,how many random men have you gifted money?
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by odinson1(m): 12:25pm On Jun 11, 2025
ruthieo:
Men are stingy joor😂
Random woman hmmmmm
God abeg
Dey go dey alright
Are women generous?

The way you're responding, i can tell you can't understand how annoying it is for a random woman to be feeling entitled to the money you sweated for, for no other reason na she having a vagina.
When you have sons, and girls start asking them for money left and right, that's when you'll understand.
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by macphilip: 12:25pm On Jun 11, 2025
The mentality of the average Nigerian lady is to collect money from her man, whether she is working class or jobless.
Is the foolish, cheap ones that start billing from the first day you chat or meet her, avoid them.

Ugly girls can date you for free, but no pretty or sexy Naija girl will take you serious if you don't give her money, working class or not
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by odinson1(m): 12:26pm On Jun 11, 2025
Chief2410:
better to be stingy than to be used. You that is not stingy,how many random men have you gifted money?
If she answer this question, make the world end today grin
They want to reap from where they didn't sow. Bro, imagine another adult human being like yourself who went to school, being entitled to YOUR money. Is that not madness?
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by odinson1(m): 12:27pm On Jun 11, 2025
Chief2410:
As in them don spoil things finish for most Nigerian men struggling to make ends meet. My advice for men is stay away from these women for a while and see their brains reset with time.
Yahoo boys and igbo men. Very foolish set of Nigerian men 🤦
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by franugo(m): 12:28pm On Jun 11, 2025
alizma:
You still dey learn, she go collect the 5k say thank you, next week she go ask the same thing and if you send 5k, she go tell you say watin 5k fit buy self, then you make it 10k, she go say thank you and subsequent week, she go increase to 15k, before you know it, the babe don dey complain say 50k dey small, she go even tell you say your mate dey give 300k or 500k weekly.
grin grin be like them don too run you street
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by ruthieo(f): 12:30pm On Jun 11, 2025
Chief2410:
better to be stingy than to be used. You that is not stingy,how many random men have you gifted money?
For your information
I am not a random girl so I don't even know what you are saying
I have my money ok?
Am not those cheap slots around

Thank you
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by Chief2410: 12:32pm On Jun 11, 2025
odinson1:
If she answer this question, make the world end today grin
They want to reap from where they didn't sow. Bro, imagine another adult human being like yourself who went to school, being entitled to YOUR money. Is that not madness?
serious madness.the last gal I ended things with,I bluntly asked her what extra value she is bringing to me that would make her demand extra. I told her if she wanted more from me,she should be willing to do more for me and that was the end. I no get time to pamper anybody when no dey pamper me.
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by odinson1(m): 12:34pm On Jun 11, 2025
Chief2410:
serious madness.the last gal I ended things with,I bluntly asked her what extra value she is bringing to me that would make her demand extra. I told her if she wanted more from me,she should be willing to do more for me and that was the end. I no get time to pamper anybody when no dey pamper me.
My main issue na girl wey nor even dey date you, go still dey feel entitled to your money

Omo na wah o
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by odinson1(m): 12:37pm On Jun 11, 2025
ruthieo:
For your information
I am not a random girl so I don't even know what you are saying
I have my money ok?
Am not those cheap slots around

Thank you
Madam i don't think you understand what "random" means.
Everybody is a random person to other people. I am a random guy to you, and you're a random girl to me. We don't know each other. We are only talking on a social media platform.

Now if you ask me or any other guy online or even offline for money, whether you know them or not, thinking you deserve it because you have a vagina, then you'll fall into the category of the girls the men on this thread are complaining about.


The keywords here are "deserve" and "because you're a woman". The entitlement, because you're a woman, for money you didn't work for, is the problem.
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by ruthieo(f): 12:38pm On Jun 11, 2025
odinson1:
Madam i don't think you understand what "random" means.
Everybody is a random person to other people. I am a random guy to you, and you're a random girl to me. We don't know each other. We are only talking on a social media platform.

Now if you ask me or any other guy online or even offline for money, thinking you deserve it because you have a vagina, then you'll fall into the category of the girls the men on this thread are complaining about.
Ok thank you
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by odinson1(m): 12:41pm On Jun 11, 2025
ruthieo:
Ok thank you
The keywords here are "deserve" and "because you're a woman". The entitlement, because you're a woman, for money you didn't work for, is the problem.

Next time when men are talking about this entitlement and billing issue, don't put mouth because you can never understand where they're coming from. Random people don't just bill you for money, thinking they deserve it because of the genitals they have under their legs.
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by Ijoba85: 12:43pm On Jun 11, 2025
Most of them see guys as ATM these days , awon werey
ProudlyLagos:
honesly angry I met one sometime ago and I really had good intentions for her till she started seeing the relationship as a means to an end, I had to cut her off angry
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by Hassanmaye(m): 12:43pm On Jun 11, 2025
englishmart:
I met this babe last month. I managed to get her number, and we've been in contact since then. I was planning to propose to her next month, but won't dare anymore after this clip from our recent conversation
Hahahahah bhad guy men have stopped dating liability
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by sylve11: 12:52pm On Jun 11, 2025
Peakdesign23:
Hungry Delilah grin cry
Hahahq grin cool
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by taf4u4me(m): 1:08pm On Jun 11, 2025
SMOGnow:
If dem neva kee one of these able-bodied orphans, the rest no go rest.
I swear...they are everywhere..ALMAJIRI
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by ChybuzzDD(m): 1:13pm On Jun 11, 2025
Eriokanmi:
You caused it. You know the type of a girl she is. Next time don't ask her how is she or what's up again. Just respond...good morning and that's all. If she asked how was your night, tell her , thank God and don't ever ask...and yours? Except you wan hear wetin go vex you grin
Seems they have dealt with you before grin
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by emmaodet: 1:23pm On Jun 11, 2025
SMOGnow:
If dem neva kee one of these able-bodied orphans, the rest no go rest.
grin grin grin
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by jubrilELsudan: 1:44pm On Jun 11, 2025
SHE IS 100% RIGHT IN CALLING YOU A SISI AND READING THE COMMENTS JUST PROVES WHAT SHE SAID

YOU MET HER LAST MONTH AND YOU INTENDED TO PROPOSE TO HER NEXT MONTH MEANING YOU LOVE HER OR DEEPLY LIKE HER

SHOULDN'T IT THEN BE YOUR PRIORITY TO MAKE SURE SHE IS OK AND HAS EATEN AND PROVIDE FOR HER?

Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by spencekat(m): 1:47pm On Jun 11, 2025
shomutuski:
You are a reflection of the quality of women you entertain and/or keep.
Not always.
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by spencekat(m): 2:04pm On Jun 11, 2025
Chief2410:
Where you dey jam all these correct women?mind you,woman fit get millions for Aza,[/b]still dey ask you for 2k oooo[b]
You are right.
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by Eriokanmi: 2:18pm On Jun 11, 2025
ChybuzzDD:
Seems they have dealt with you before grin
It's a common tactic. Not all women do this. Only some cunning and demanding ones do that a lot. I once dated one like that. Later I stopped asking how is she grin cos I had already known what would come afterwards from her response
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by GboyegaD(m): 2:26pm On Jun 11, 2025
ruthieo:
Sure na husband and wife fiancee is what am talking about
Please read muyico view to understand my point
My point is love is not free
You need to spend money
To go to eatery now sef you need to have money
Rather than been pained
I think you should pray that God makes you financially bouyant
What stops the lady from taking the man to the eatery? They can meet and talk in the park or at church. They mustn't eat when they meet to talk.
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by Thundafireseun: 2:48pm On Jun 11, 2025
Chief2410:
just imagine oooo. This thing no be class matter. One babe told me that there is this special joy she gets from eating her boyfriend's money so it's not about having money or not having money.
I understand a girl could say anything she wants….

Not her father calling the boyfriend/ fiancée that his daughter is hungry inside his own house
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by Ferrous(m): 2:54pm On Jun 11, 2025
I escaped this kind of relationship recently. Glory be to God for saving me. I was bold enough to call it quit.😔
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by ruthieo(f): 2:55pm On Jun 11, 2025
Ferrous:
I escaped this kind of relationship recently. Glory be to God for saving me. I was bold enough to call it quit.😔
😂😂😂😂😂funny thread
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by Gerrard59(m): 3:38pm On Jun 11, 2025
ediko5:
I'm always excited when I hear women say that men nowadays are like princesses. It means a lot of men are no longer being used by them.

Gone are those days a lady will tell a man to go and make money before he can date her and the man after making money will return to the same lady for a relationship.
Chivalry is dead, and women killed it.
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Girls Like This? by Opinion77: 3:41pm On Jun 11, 2025
Majority of Nigeria girls does dat and it's very bad.
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