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My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by richmond500(op): 7:48pm On Jun 11, 2025
Please married people I need ur input on this.
I do two jobs, one govt job that pays me 150k, and another audit firm that pays 250k, making it 400k
My girlfriend has been very supportive though, she cooks and clean at all times, except my laundry cos I do my laundry myself and once a while help in cleaning but I don't cook cos I can't eat food that I cook, I don't even help her in the kichen enter except when I want to microwave food.
Recently she asked me to give her my UBA ATM card where I recieve 150k and I should keep the 250k for myslef that she will manage the money herself but will only give me 15k monthly for transportation, Kai my own money o. She has agreed to buy all groceries and house-upkeep needed for the month except rent.
Her excuse is that it's better since I dont help in house chores.
Though I do give her monthly upkeep for her stress but managing my finance is not something I actually fancy.

I am still contemplating on it and I need input if it's ok to allow her manage the money.
Pls I will prefer married people input and not redpillers abeg
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by MaziObinnaokija: 8:01pm On Jun 11, 2025
.. transfer all the money to the 250k account and leave like 3k in the UBA account. She'll get angry/upset wen she didn't see even 5k there and give u back ur ATM CARD.Once she give u back,change ur PIN.

DASALL wink cheesy
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by olawaleatanda(m): 8:05pm On Jun 11, 2025
richmond500:
Please married people I need ur input on this.
I do two jobs, one govt job that pays me 150k, and another audit firm that pays 250k, making it 400k
My girlfriend has been very supportive though, she cooks and clean at all times, except my laundry cos I do my laundry myself and once a while help in cleaning but I don't cook cos I can't eat food that I cook, I don't even help her in the kichen enter except when I want to microwave food.
Recently she asked me to give her my UBA ATM card where I recieve 150k and I should keep the 250k for myslef that she will manage the money herself but will only give me 15k monthly for transportation, Kai my own money o. She has agreed to buy all groceries and house-upkeep needed for the month except rent.
Her excuse is that it's better since I dont help in house chores.
Though I do give her monthly upkeep for her stress but managing my finance is not something I actually fancy.

I am still contemplating on it and I need input if it's ok to allow her manage the money.
Pls I will prefer married people input and not redpillers abeg
fake stories just to get to frontpage
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by Tenrack: 8:06pm On Jun 11, 2025
richmond500:
Please married people I need ur input on this.
I do two jobs, one govt job that pays me 150k, and another audit firm that pays 250k, making it 400k
My girlfriend has been very supportive though, she cooks and clean at all times, except my laundry cos I do my laundry myself and once a while help in cleaning but I don't cook cos I can't eat food that I cook, I don't even help her in the kichen enter except when I want to microwave food.
Recently she asked me to give her my UBA ATM card where I recieve 150k and I should keep the 250k for myslef that she will manage the money herself but will only give me 15k monthly for transportation, Kai my own money o. She has agreed to buy all groceries and house-upkeep needed for the month except rent.
Her excuse is that it's better since I dont help in house chores.
Though I do give her monthly upkeep for her stress but managing my finance is not something I actually fancy.

I am still contemplating on it and I need input if it's ok to allow her manage the money.
Pls I will prefer married people input and not redpillers abeg
you put her on salary .. ok. How much? Let's start from there
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by RealityKings1:
does she give you her own salary or part of her money too?
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by richmond500(op): 8:07pm On Jun 11, 2025
Tenrack:
you put her on salary .. ok. How much? Let's start from there
I don't put her on salary, it's just upkeep
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by richmond500(op): 8:07pm On Jun 11, 2025
olawaleatanda:
fake stories just to get to frontpage
ok
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by Patented: 8:20pm On Jun 11, 2025
Wisdom is profitable to direct.
richmond500:
Please married people I need ur input on this.
I do two jobs, one govt job that pays me 150k, and another audit firm that pays 250k, making it 400k
My girlfriend has been very supportive though, she cooks and clean at all times, except my laundry cos I do my laundry myself and once a while help in cleaning but I don't cook cos I can't eat food that I cook, I don't even help her in the kichen enter except when I want to microwave food.
Recently she asked me to give her my UBA ATM card where I recieve 150k and I should keep the 250k for myslef that she will manage the money herself but will only give me 15k monthly for transportation, Kai my own money o. She has agreed to buy all groceries and house-upkeep needed for the month except rent.
Her excuse is that it's better since I dont help in house chores.
Though I do give her monthly upkeep for her stress but managing my finance is not something I actually fancy.

I am still contemplating on it and I need input if it's ok to allow her manage the money.
Pls I will prefer married people input and not redpillers abeg
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by HistAfrik(f): 9:45pm On Jun 11, 2025
richmond500:
Please married people I need ur input on this.
I do two jobs, one govt job that pays me 150k, and another audit firm that pays 250k, making it 400k
My girlfriend has been very supportive though, she cooks and clean at all times, except my laundry cos I do my laundry myself and once a while help in cleaning but I don't cook cos I can't eat food that I cook, I don't even help her in the kichen enter except when I want to microwave food.
Recently she asked me to give her my UBA ATM card where I recieve 150k and I should keep the 250k for myslef that she will manage the money herself but will only give me 15k monthly for transportation, Kai my own money o. She has agreed to buy all groceries and house-upkeep needed for the month except rent.
Her excuse is that it's better since I dont help in house chores.
Though I do give her monthly upkeep for her stress but managing my finance is not something I actually fancy.

I am still contemplating on it and I need input if it's ok to allow her manage the money.
Pls I will prefer married people input and not redpillers abeg
Guy you stingy o, all these things you listed she will be doing with the money has reached or even surpassed the 150k in this naija economy. She’s just doing this to feel closer to you and wont really benefit financially.
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by Nnamdipapa(m): 9:49pm On Jun 11, 2025
The biggest misconception is to think you can manage a liability. Never date or marry a liability. Never bear kids with a liability to avoid having low-IQ kids. Dump her asap and do not place any adult who is not your direct family member on a salary.
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by Juliearth(f): 7:27am On Jun 12, 2025
richmond500:
Please married people I need ur input on this.
I do two jobs, one govt job that pays me 150k, and another audit firm that pays 250k, making it 400k
My girlfriend has been very supportive though, she cooks and clean at all times, except my laundry cos I do my laundry myself and once a while help in cleaning but I don't cook cos I can't eat food that I cook, I don't even help her in the kichen enter except when I want to microwave food.
Recently she asked me to give her my UBA ATM card where I recieve 150k and I should keep the 250k for myslef that she will manage the money herself but will only give me 15k monthly for transportation, Kai my own money o. She has agreed to buy all groceries and house-upkeep needed for the month except rent.
Her excuse is that it's better since I dont help in house chores.
Though I do give her monthly upkeep for her stress but managing my finance is not something I actually fancy.

I am still contemplating on it and I need input if it's ok to allow her manage the money.
Pls I will prefer married people input and not redpillers abeg
This doesn't sound right, do not fall for it. Even if she is your wife, asking for such privileges is alot.

How much do you spend on restocking your house and sorting utilities per month? That is the amount you should transfer to her.
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by Kobicove(m): 8:56am On Jun 12, 2025
She's still your girlfriend and not wife therefore what you will do depends on whether you have long-term plans with her or not undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by PantShifter(m): 9:16am On Jun 12, 2025
richmond500:
I don't put her on salary, it's just upkeep
You have been forkking her for free all these years. grin

There is nothing wrong if you give her part of your salary now
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by tanigororo: 9:38am On Jun 12, 2025
richmond500:
Please married people I need ur input on this.
I do two jobs, one govt job that pays me 150k, and another audit firm that pays 250k, making it 400k
My girlfriend has been very supportive though, she cooks and clean at all times, except my laundry cos I do my laundry myself and once a while help in cleaning but I don't cook cos I can't eat food that I cook, I don't even help her in the kichen enter except when I want to microwave food.
Recently she asked me to give her my UBA ATM card where I recieve 150k and I should keep the 250k for myslef that she will manage the money herself but will only give me 15k monthly for transportation, Kai my own money o. She has agreed to buy all groceries and house-upkeep needed for the month except rent.
Her excuse is that it's better since I dont help in house chores.
Though I do give her monthly upkeep for her stress but managing my finance is not something I actually fancy.

I am still contemplating on it and I need input if it's ok to allow her manage the money.
Pls I will prefer married people input and not redpillers abeg
How did she knows about your income?
Wetin concern being girlfriend with my personal finance, you are fried you never know.
Kukuma give her account details for receiving payment she can help budget expenses better.
Girlfriend not wife shebi?
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by TotoSuckker: 10:32am On Jun 12, 2025
Nnamdipapa:
The biggest misconception is to think you can manage a liability. Never date or marry a liability. Never bear kids with a liability to avoid having low-IQ kids. Dump her asap and do not place any adult who is not your direct family member on a salary.
Easier said than done. If her towtow is sweet it will be difficult for you to just dump her like that
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by Starboytwo(m): 11:22am On Jun 12, 2025
richmond500:
I don't put her on salary, it's just upkeep
like how much sir 🤔

You know it's not easy being a girlfriend of someone like you in 9ja.
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by jmoore(m): 11:37am On Jun 12, 2025
You are cohabiting.

You prefer married people to contribute but the girl is not your wife.

Just ask your fellow fornicators to contribute. Nobody go beat you.
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by richmond500(op): 11:45am On Jun 12, 2025
Starboytwo:
like how much sir 🤔

You know it's not easy being a girlfriend of someone like you in 9ja.
Which one is someone like me?
Oga I am a very good guy o.
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by AllBlack: 11:46am On Jun 12, 2025
richmond500:
Please married people I need ur input on this.

Pls I will prefer married people input and not redpillers abeg
You dey do boyfriend but you want married people to give you gist. E be like say you want make your life reduce by 40 years.

You dey show girlfriend your finances wey even my wives no know how much dey my pocket not to talk of bank and you dey find advise abi you dey wyne yourself? . The redpill is not for lizards like you.
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by Negroid001(m): 11:55am On Jun 12, 2025
Give her everything. You won't regret.



Sebi you say you no wan learn
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by ghettochild(m): 12:20pm On Jun 12, 2025
If u had said wife. I for see no problem.
Don’t just try it. Give her certain amount or increase the amount u are giving to her currently.
Don’t try it otherwise una go get misunderstanding so it’s better to avoid it from the start
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by LIVINGICONREBOR: 2:02pm On Jun 12, 2025
E dey do me to give a heavy knock on that forehead of yours.🥱
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by Kobicove(m): 2:21pm On Jun 12, 2025
LIVINGICONREBOR:
E dey do me to give a heavy knock on that forehead of yours.🥱
You wan give am knock for forehead?

Shey you wan kill am? shocked
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by Dyfynezz12(m): 2:23pm On Jun 12, 2025
Chai some guys don't really know women.
Don't worry,no need to advice u cox it's better to test and see
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by gunners160(m): 2:42pm On Jun 12, 2025
richmond500:
Please married people I need ur input on this.
I do two jobs, one govt job that pays me 150k, and another audit firm that pays 250k, making it 400k
My girlfriend has been very supportive though, she cooks and clean at all times, except my laundry cos I do my laundry myself and once a while help in cleaning but I don't cook cos I can't eat food that I cook, I don't even help her in the kichen enter except when I want to microwave food.
Recently she asked me to give her my UBA ATM card where I recieve 150k and I should keep the 250k for myslef that she will manage the money herself but will only give me 15k monthly for transportation, Kai my own money o. She has agreed to buy all groceries and house-upkeep needed for the month except rent.
Her excuse is that it's better since I dont help in house chores.
Though I do give her monthly upkeep for her stress but managing my finance is not something I actually fancy.

I am still contemplating on it and I need input if it's ok to allow her manage the money.
Pls I will prefer married people input and not redpillers abeg
I think this story looks too fake; i dont see any iota of truth in it. However, if it is real, i dnt see any issue in her managing ur funds. However, it depends on the kind of lady you are dating. Is she the materialistic type? does she makes sacrifice for you?Has she ever contributed anything to the growth of the home. Lastly, if you guys are cohabitating, then let r be. Tell r to get her own space. This will enable you to think straight
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by Holluwhakemmy(f): 2:43pm On Jun 12, 2025
Nnamdipapa:
The biggest misconception is to think you can manage a liability. Never date or marry a liability. Never bear kids with a liability to avoid having low-IQ kids. Dump her asap and do not place any adult who is not your direct family member on a salary.
he said he didn't want redpillers input but a matured married one
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 2:53pm On Jun 12, 2025
AllBlack:
You dey do boyfriend but you want married people to give you gist. E be like say you want make your life reduce by 40 years.

You dey show girlfriend your finances wey even my wives no know how much dey my pocket not to talk of bank and you dey find advise abi you dey wyne yourself? . The redpill is not for lizards like you.
OGA the thing tire me o the way some guys behave. That a girlfriend had the guts to tell her guy to hand her his entire salary from one of his two jobs says volumes in how she rates him. That he is even seeking for advice in what to do shows what kind of a person he is. Your eyes go peel!
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by duduade(m): 2:56pm On Jun 12, 2025
Your girlfriend abi cohabitation co mate

She doesn't have her own place she stays ni

Stop being dependent on her

You are a simp
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by TheFreshVanilla: 3:16pm On Jun 12, 2025
You people saying she’s just an ordinary girlfriend really need to use your heads. Na girlfriend go become wife. No to cohabitation, but it works for some people. Some started off living together and ended up in happy marriages. In this guy’s case, it’s obvious they’re already living together, and she’s most likely his "wife".
Re: My Girlfriend Wants All My Salary by Esthered: 3:28pm On Jun 12, 2025
Wetin married people wan talk inside singles matter?
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