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Single men, what is the most ridiculous excuse a lady gave for not dating/marrying you?

If she had known that the boy will be a very original Niger dan dada, The boy is so okpotokpo now,, Obula hamati wei

So, I have a register for the ladies to sign

Well I was talking to my single friend few months ago, and I asked about his ex, he said aunty told him. “ I can’t marry you cause we are not from the same state.

Girl is from Enugu baba is from Imo. Baba said he’s engaged now, hanty is still running from pillar to post.

Note: She came back wanting to rekindle the relationship but my friend was long gone. Hence my pillar to post statement. If you can’t marry outside your state then why bother dating outside your state.

Some years back, that she don't want to get pregnant.. But she got pregnant the next month..

hosemujica:
Well I was talking to my single friend few months ago, and I asked about his ex, he said aunty told him. “ I can’t marry you cause we are not from the same state.

Girl is from Enugu baba is from Imo. Baba said he’s engaged now, hanty is still running from pillar to post.

The way you say she's still running from pillar to post implies that she missed a big jackpot by not marrying your friend.

When people go into relationships they usually have a list of deal breakers in their minds therefore the fact that a lady opted out of a relationship due to state of origin is a very valid reason, you have no right to make fun of her because of that!

Trust me, once a woman gives you one stupid reason whatsoever for not wanting you to be her husband just know that she is just using you and she has someone better. Apart from genotype, madness in the family and perhaps someone that's not thinking straight for the betterment of the future, I see no reason. Men are gold.

Obierika:
The way you say she's still running from pillar to post implies that she missed a big jackpot by not marrying your friend.

When people go into relationships they usually have a list of deal breakers in their minds therefore the fact that a lady opted out of a relationship due to state of origin is a very valid reason, you have no right to make fun of her because of that!

I said that cause she eventually wanted back in and my friend already moved on. Hence, my ‘pillar to Post’ statement.

If she’s allergic to suitors from other states then she should not date anyone from outside her state at all .

After parting with my ex due to genotype incompatibility. The first question she asks every potential date from the get go is “what is your genotype ?”

There are so many reasons why a relationship will fail ,why delve into one you know will certainly crash.

Peakdesign23:
Trust me, once a woman gives you one stupid reason whatsoever for not wanting you to be her husband just know that she is just using you and she has someone better. Apart from genotype, madness in the family and perhaps someone that's not thinking straight for the betterment of the future, I see no reason. Men are gold.

You are absolutely right . There are good reasons and there are confused people.

Obierika:
The way you say she's still running from pillar to post implies that she missed a big jackpot by not marrying your friend.

When people go into relationships they usually have a list of deal breakers in their minds therefore the fact that a lady opted out of a relationship due to state of origin is a very valid reason, you have no right to make fun of her because of that!

Na big jackpot, men are the prize 🏆 unfortunately she missed hers

She said I was a friend of her twin sister's husband...

As a member of the CRA (Comment Reading Association), I'm here only to read lies ah sorry I meant comments. Please keep the comments short and simple. We do appreciate your typing efforts. Also please be careful for your spellings. Thank you and have a great day!😆

Sucre6:
As a member of the CRA (Comment Reading Association), I'm here only to read lies ah sorry I meant comments. Please keep the comments short and simple. We do appreciate your typing efforts. Also please be careful for your spellings. Thank you and have a great day!😆

Don't always assume that everyone tells lies like you!

I was really broke back then she wasn't taking me serious until things started changing for good after some years then she started giving me attention I don't need her anymore because I'm very busy now. Because she's an old evening news paper now not my type of woman anymore.

My immediate Ex,she said I was too calm for her........But I knew she was only giving me that silly excuse cuz I was so broke but wasn't bold enough to say that to my face

The native hen later got married to an old man . She even had the effrontery to send me an I.V About 4 months later,she called me to apologize for the way she treated me but I no really send her papa again cuz I had already moved on and was already enjoying my new banny to the fullest

SamuraiXXX:
Don't always assume that everyone tells lies like you!

For you to quote me when I didn't refer to you directly means you own lie nah grade one 😂

Sonnobax15:

My immediate Ex,she said I was too calm for her........But I knew she was only giving me that silly excuse cuz I was so broke but wasn't bold enough to say that to my face

The native hen later got married to an old man . She even had the effrontery to send me an I.V About 4 months later,she called me to apologize for the way she treated me but I no really send her papa again cuz I had already moved on and was already enjoying my new banny to the fullest

Even until now you're still broke and bitter!

That we are not from the same state.

Relationship of 3 years , after spending a lot on her.

Ericmaestrooffi:
That we are not from the same state.

Relationship of 3 years , after spending a lot on her.

Why are you lamenting about how much you spent on her?

Did you not for.rkkk her a multiple number of times while you were together.

Somebody's future wife is who you for.rkkedd for 3 long years yet you're here complaining because of ordinary money.

Is the money enough to repair the expansion you caused to her engine.

Look please don't get me started this afternoon!

Obierika:
The way you say she's still running from pillar to post implies that she missed a big jackpot by not marrying your friend.

When people go into relationships they usually have a list of deal breakers in their minds therefore the fact that a lady opted out of a relationship due to state of origin is a very valid reason, you have no right to make fun of her because of that!

how can that be a very valid reason? I hat era are we? Oh, so why coming back then ? the state of confusion some people have submerged themselves in ehnnnn..ordinary state of origin which doesn’t even define them who one is? Olojoro everywhere.. like people from her state didn’t marry Oyibo power to get stay in another man’s land.. if you’re not interested, just say so.

That she cannot marry an only child

She said what if she has delays in child bearing

That she can’t take the pressure

Obierika:
The way you say she's still running from pillar to post implies that she missed a big jackpot by not marrying your friend.

When people go into relationships they usually have a list of deal breakers in their minds therefore the fact that a lady opted out of a relationship due to state of origin is a very valid reason, you have no right to make fun of her because of that!

It funny for her running back for reunion

Most ladies are confused, so silly and foolish excuses should be expected.

Chilipepper:
Single men, what is the most ridiculous excuse a lady gave for not dating/marrying you?

They should go ask their grandfather


this is a nonsense question

That you are her friend.

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I too hans

Her mum went to a spiritualist to check my future and the spiritualist told them that i don't have a bright future

*You are not my type.
* I can't wait for you.
*my family won't agree with me to marry you.
*you are too short and your palm be like sand paper 📜cuz dat time I was a chronic farmer so farm tools implement makes my palm strong like that of gorilla . I cried that day like mad man

1. It is not you, it's me
2. You are such a nice person to deserve someone like me.

She sees me as a brother

I was actually a simp, taking care of her needs then, but she really cried when i moved on and all efforts to come back failed!