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Happy sunday everyone!!!
In this context, i am referring to a single mom that has never been married and probably has one child.

As a young man, what are your take on single mothers?

As a lady, will you allow your brothers to marry a single mother?

As a parent, will you support your son to marry a single mother?

No harsh words please

Pls for your information any body can be married, you only need your match..

The truth is very bitter. Just try your luck, it might work for A but it might not work for B.

On a general note, a man who has not fathered a child should patiently search for a good girl and marry her instead of rushing to marry a single mother. A man who has fathered a child whether in marriage or outside wedlock should not hesitate to marry a good single mother that comes his way. The problem is that men that have children want to marry girls that are not yet mothers, and single mothers want to marry men that have not fathered children. This one is selfishness. Admit your status and look for your match. Do not eat your cake and want to have it. Even if it was by a mistake or accident that you had a child, face the consequence. You create more problems for the society when you try to avoid the inevitable consequences of your actions.

To answer the question, I will support my brother or son to marry a single mother if that brother or son of mine is already a father. It is the same way I will support a daughter or sister of mine to marry a single father if that sister or daughter of mine is already a mother.

We hardly talk about single fathers who get rejected by women just because those men already have children. Why is he that men's problems are denied or trivialised but every little problem faced by a woman receives so much attention?

But every man should struggle to improve on psychology. If you evaluate people psychologically, you should be able to tell whether they are presently good or bad, irrespective of their past. Every sinner has a future and every saint has a past. A girl who appears to be good now may letter become worse than the single mothers you know now. A single mother you know now may let her change for good and become better than the good girls you know now.

It all depends on your ability to identify someone's true colour at each moment. A girl may be very bad and deceive you with pretence. A single mother can also be bad and deceive you with pretence. A girl may be good and you will fail to understand it. A single mother may be good but you will be unable to detect it. Don't focus on whether the person is a single mother or not. Focus on ascertaining the person's true character at each moment.

As a lady, will you allow your brothers to marry a single mother?

na this question important pass but e sure say woman rather jump enter crocodile water than to answer the question.

Some single mothers are way better than ladies who are still single & yet to be married. The perspective some of us have towards them ehen! Some single mothers are just so unlucky to find themselves in situations to be called a single mother. I have dated both single mothers & single ladies I can tell you for free that some single mothers are just so unlucky to be in that position. Some are caring, loving and supportive. Being a single lady doesn’t guarantee good marriage and also being a single mother doesn’t mean you won’t get it right again. My own cent

Bia, na which kind talk be this this early morning 😏

How many times will you people flog this topic?

Being a single mother is not a crime

And what's wrong in being a single mom?

I know someone that married a single mother, bro enjoys first hand respect and love from the woman.. Today he's in Canada coursty of the woman..
Don't say he married her because of her money... They started off having nothing and life favoured the woman eventually

OredoPikin:
Happy sunday everyone!!!
In this context, i am referring to a single mom that has never been married and probably has one child.

As a young man, what are your take on single mothers?

As a lady, will you allow your brothers to marry a single mother?

As a parent, will you support your son to marry a single mother?

No harsh words please

I see nothing wrong with making a single mother... But, a single mum of more than 1 child who has never been married is a red flag for me.

Obierika:
How many times will you people flog this topic?

Being a single mother is not a crime

99 more times plus one.

I am sure someone will open another one before Tuesday.

OredoPikin:
Happy sunday everyone!!!
In this context, i am referring to a single mom that has never been married and probably has one child.

As a young man, what are your take on single mothers?

As a lady, will you allow your brothers to marry a single mother?

As a parent, will you support your son to marry a single mother?

No harsh words please

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This topic has been posted severally on nairaland. There is no issue marrying a single mother. The main concern is if her kids father is still present in their lives.
He can always nack if he wants. So can anyone bear such situation?

Yet to see a single mother that rejects a good man advance..cos life don show them. They dont joke with tender love and care even if dey have to give opu3h 247.