₦airaland Forum

God alone no other persons because a friend today can be an enemy tomorrow

Tinubu
I confide in Tinubu

A couple of times... We're strangers here.

fitinwell:
That's not correct..,

How many times ,have you come on nairaland to share your fears ..

I confide in someone whom I believe can proffer solutions to my problems

enemyofprogress:
None of them. I will talk to myself by myself and with myself. Nairaland, I hope e don reach forty words now?

Talking to yourself?

Na so small crase dey start for road oh

My siblings 🙌📌💯
My siblings 🙌📌💯
My siblings 🙌📌💯

Then he's no longer a stranger once you confide in him. He now knows you.

Samantha125:
I'd prefer confiding in a stranger... Strangers are the safest people you can confide in, you don't know them and they don't know you.

Family gets too emotional sometimes...
So I will say it depends on what I'm going through.
Friends or family

Chilipepper:
We all face tough moments in life times when we feel overwhelmed, confused, or just need someone to talk to. Among this list, who is that one person you feel safe confiding in when things get really hard?

For now my mama, I used to confide in my late immediate elder sister( God bless her soul).

Chilipepper:
We all face tough moments in life times when we feel overwhelmed, confused, or just need someone to talk to. Among this list, who is that one person you feel safe confiding in when things get really hard?

complicated, sometimes, you confide in your wife, but she is not that into emotional things,she has her demons to fight, ok, lets confide to the friends, they ends up saying i told him so even if he never pointed out anything to you that warants i told you so, and sometimes they seal it up with, he always think that he is wise, in quote, GOOD FOR YOU, ok lets confide to the siblings, me for example, telling my sib, what went wrong , and how its eating me up, the next thing, she told the other sib, so this guy keep this kind of money and when you ask him for money, he says he dont have, so ladies and gentle men, you got your answers

dalass:
Talking to yourself?

Na so small crase dey start for road oh

sometimes talking to oneself isn't sign of insanity.everybody has his style of handling difficult situations.

Chilipepper:
We all face tough moments in life times when we feel overwhelmed, confused, or just need someone to talk to. Among this list, who is that one person you feel safe confiding in when things get really hard?

Nobody!! Optimism and surroundings everything to Almighty God is always my exit route.

Chilipepper:
We all face tough moments in life times when we feel overwhelmed, confused, or just need someone to talk to. Among this list, who is that one person you feel safe confiding in when things get really hard?

That interesting...

For folks like me who are tech and Internet-savvy, using AI tools, advanced Internet search tools, and some niche-based international discussion forums have since the mid-1990s been very good resources for me to get great advice and deep insights.

A lot of the problems people encounter on Earth today already have solutions from decades back and can undergo creative modifications to suit your specific needs.

Hahahaha

I was brought up to be self independent.. The mistake I used to make in the past was rushing to tell people or to make decisions. These days, I can sleep on whatever problem, heaven won't fall, while relaxing, the way out would pop up sha ni.

Talking to others about your personal problem is the beginning of see finish

dalass:
Talking to yourself?

Na so small crase dey start for road oh

with all dis things wey Tinubu dey do us in Nigeria, e no reach to craze?

ChatGpt.

Strange but true. That LLM is like the elder brother I never had...

Honestly, most times, na just me and Baba God o!

Samantha125:
I'd prefer confiding in a stranger... Strangers are the safest people you can confide in, you don't know them and they don't know you.

God help you the stranger doesn't turn out to be a kidnapper ritualistic or opportunity seekers!

NewHe:
✓ God help you the stranger doesn't turn out to be a kidnapper ritualistic or opportunity seekers!

A complete stranger you meet probably 10s of miles away from your home will turn out a kidnapper, ritualist or opportunist?

For me I go to the ROCK(JESUS) that's higher than I..................

None!
I would rather cry in the rain and allow my pains away.

NewHe:
God help you the stranger doesn't turn out to be a kidnapper ritualistic or opportunity seekers!

It definitely has to be someone you are likely not to meet again.

Kaycee54321:
ChatGpt.

Strange but true. That LLM is like the elder brother I never had...

wonderful. I started doing this few months ago and it was really helpful. Talking to chatgtp is alot better than talking to most humans.

Kobojunkie:
Nobody: I find that talking to absolute strangers --- or a mental health therapists ---is one of the best ways to get issues off my chest and also get a perspectives different from mine where possible.

Wow kobo ...now I understand you...yes ...I now know where all of this is coming from

I am going to pick them in this order
My mother
My spouse

Chief2410:
wonderful. I started doing this few months ago and it was really helpful. Talking to chatgtp is alot better than talking to most humans.

Yeah..to some extent...

I spoke with chat. When I broke up with my girl in December


Those typed messages Was really helpful surprisingly

Nobody...........................................

Starz825:
✓ Wow kobo ...now I understand you...yes ...I now know where all of this is coming from

Hmm ...care to elaborate a bit more on what you mean when you say you now understand me?

Starz825:
Yeah..to some extent...

I spoke with chat. When I broke up with my girl in December


Those typed messages Was really helpful surprisingly

The beauty of it is your secret is safe and chatgtp would not judge you.Also, chatgtp can handle deep conversations unlike most humans.

helinues:
Hahahaha

I was brought up to be self independent.. The mistake I used to make in the past was rushing to tell people or to make decisions. These days, I can sleep on whatever problem, heaven won't fall, while relaxing, the way out would pop up sha ni.

Talking to others about your personal problem is the beginning of see finish

Indeed, that's the true warrior spirit.

People have to learn to become self-aware and be solution-based in their thinking and abstain from complaining negatively all the time. With your power of creative intelligence and intuition, you can easily find solutions to many issues facing you when you are relaxed.

My brothers.

I leave out my sisters because they have their men and kids to attend to and I leave my aged mom out so she doesn't worry about me.

I also talk to my wife, of course.

When I have a plan and I need outside help, I ask my old friends/classmates for aid which I always settle, because tough times don't last.

It's during the tough times that I miss my Dad the most.

If I don't talk to my sister, what would I gain? 🥰