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Simple biology though brutal. Men are in love, women are in business

I once dated a babe with Car when I had no car. Whenever we meetup, she gives me the Car keys and seats on the passenger seat..there was no fuss about car or no car.. when we go out, I drive to my house, she drives the car from my house to her house.

It's okay because you are doing well, just continue finding it hard to date a guy who has no car it's fine...

Hahahaha. And 90pct of women are like her.

Always hypergamous. But they don't want polygamy.

suckprick:
If only men can return this energy, more than 90% of ladies will remain single. Nonsense and ingredient.

But na wa o. Na one finger you take dey hold rail now too?

I keep saying, these girls are up to something.

Chilipepper:
Since I bought a car, I started finding it very hard to date a man who does not have a car - Anthonia Umerah reveals.



https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1C3wdKMDRB/

Your car is still driving you, just wait till it brakes down on a lonely road, your head will reset.

Dey play

I keep getting amazed how some Nigerian women disguise prostitution as dating. Once you have dated more than 5 men na olosho work you dey do be that.

MoneyMan5:
It is simply her hypergamy kicking in, only men date down.

Desiring the man have at least a car, just as she does, is not hypergamy

Your insight is spot on. Many don't see beyond the surface....

advanceDNA:
so what will happen after marriage and the guy loses his job and doesn't have a car anymore....?? She should leave again naaa....and go marry her standard..... Y'all just base standard on temporary superficial nonsens£...that's why marriages don't last more than 2 minutes these days

Babygirl just keep gbasking; time is still on your site. Have all the attentions and hope you get what you are looking for before menopause hit you hardly. Na Nigeria you dey, you need to have family, no safe net for you at old age without you owning children because Nigeria has no nursing homes or social security they gonna offer you.

Chilipepper:
Since I bought a car, I started finding it very hard to date a man who does not have a car - Anthonia Umerah reveals.



https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1C3wdKMDRB/

Still dey find the pretty..even with car, I no sure say they really want you like that..they just want to hit n run

Why do you call all women on the internet "pretty lady"?

femi4:
Still dey find the pretty..even with car, I no sure say they really want you like that..they just want to hit n run

Na the question I just ask myself. Where the pretty dey for her body?

Serial dater.. Continue your car owners dating.... I'm sure na man still buy the so called car wey she dey claim she bought

McLizbae:
I don't think that is abnormal or the lady is abnormal. As a man, one of the fine ways to provide a necessary comfort to your lady is to drive her in your car if you have one. But siting beside her when she drives her own car is somehow not dignifying.

I think it's okay for a woman to potentially dignity her future man by setting standards, and setting them at her level or above hers.



So what is it in life that is not temporary? Even life itself is temporary.

At least there will be a record of good times for the guy with a car that turn broke in marriage and lose his car. What if the guy that is not successful enough to buy a car for himself when single, never become successful enough to buy one even in the marriage also?

A single lady that grinds and get herself a car because she feels it is a necessity or desired luxury, should never be advised or coerce to date or marry a guy that is lower than that class, else the marriage will also not last.

For guys mentioning and asking about men setting same standards: Yes! Various men do set their own standards! It is just unfortunate that the standards that most men set do not go beyond body shapes and sizes. Some men even set financial/career standards for their women to remain below theirs, to sustain their lordship, security, and leadership. There have been stories of men who made remarkable moves to make sure that there women never gets to financial/career levels that are higher than theirs. All these happen here in our typical society, and here we are being all hypocritical.

Men should also set high and reasonable standards for their type of ladies! The result will be great for our society, as our ladies will be more focused on doing something productive to attract men, and not just investing on boobs, bums, makeups, and artificial hairs.

Seriously, I don't know how guys beat it and walk up to a girl that obviously outclass them, for chyking. I was never fit for such. Always in my class.

how would you know a lady that outclasses you without engaging them in a convo. Or are you referring to perception and packaging?

Which kain car you buy first or it means even I dey drive beetles I still dey game?

McLizbae:
I don't think that is abnormal or the lady is abnormal. As a man, one of the fine ways to provide a necessary comfort to your lady is to drive her in your car if you have one. But siting beside her when she drives her own car is somehow not dignifying.

I think it's okay for a woman to potentially dignity her future man by setting standards, and setting them at her level or above hers.



So what is it in life that is not temporary? Even life itself is temporary.

At least there will be a record of good times for the guy with a car that turn broke in marriage and lose his car. What if the guy that is not successful enough to buy a car for himself when single, never become successful enough to buy one even in the marriage also?

A single lady that grinds and get herself a car because she feels it is a necessity or desired luxury, should never be advised or coerce to date or marry a guy that is lower than that class, else the marriage will also not last.

For guys mentioning and asking about men setting same standards: Yes! Various men do set their own standards! It is just unfortunate that the standards that most men set do not go beyond body shapes and sizes. Some men even set financial/career standards for their women to remain below theirs, to sustain their lordship, security, and leadership. There have been stories of men who made remarkable moves to make sure that there women never gets to financial/career levels that are higher than theirs. All these happen here in our typical society, and here we are being all hypocritical.

Men should also set high and reasonable standards for their type of ladies! The result will be great for our society, as our ladies will be more focused on doing something productive to attract men, and not just investing on boobs, bums, makeups, and artificial hairs.

Seriously, I don't know how guys beat it and walk up to a girl that obviously outclass them, for chyking. I was never fit for such. Always in my class.

too many words, but no single sense or meaning.

This girl is very easy to get ..I repeat very very easy to get even without a car as a guy man.
I guess the men she's meeting are insecured..

In my days, I can't just run after a complete stranger too. If I have seen and admired a lady in my territory, I must take sometime to actually know her from afar as much as possible before proceeding to even make her feel am interested in her. I don't believe in love at first sight too.

However nowadays, where it is normal to engage a complete stranger, if she packaged herself to clearly give me a perception that she outclass me, fine, I will rather move even farther from her. Na those types go dey dangerous pass!

njelrapheal:
how would you know a lady that outclasses you without engaging them in a convo. Or are you referring to perception and packaging?

That's the same way a mad man sees the activities of the sane people around him

Fuckyoumod:
too many words, but no single sense or meaning.

Is not about to own a car though.

If you awe or inspire her in other aspects, she can still allow a man.

There are different ways to it. But the bottom line is, you must also make sure to have your own account balance(career path). Not necessarily a car!

anonimi:
I am even trying to see what is dateable in her excess luggage lump of a body that is struggling to fit into the tight clothes.

Mtcheeeewwwewe

so you sef dey Sabi yab..
I been think say na only politics you Sabi

That's i said men should have no pity for these scumbag called ladies....apart from a mother to a child, all this small small girls are useless......imagine what the idiot just said '' would she give her car key to a man'' .....any body that date this one has dated liability in the highest form.

thats a nigerian gyal for you once they see somall success they become too prideful

Typical Nairaland headline always prefixed with “Pretty” and then when you see the picture, it is clearly hyperbole.

pansophist:
Car is even too much.

Me I have an iphone 16 pro mac and cant date a girl that doesnt use at least an iphone 12

Funniest part is you’ll still be the one to change it for her. Hypergamy doesn’t lie😁

I bet you will date one who offers to buy fuel for you even if he lacks a car.

Laughter wá finish person For Here.

This your advise is one in a million 😂

ecomalchemisttt:
You can marry your car and give birth to DANGOTE fuel.

Make we hear word , abeg.

You village people have eventually catch up with you. They have finally set what will make you stay single all the rest of your life. You better deliver yourself from this poverty and backward mentality. Owning a car is not a mark of success in life talkless of it serving the basis of relationship. Receive sense.