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Everything I've tried to earn money legitimately both offline and online has failed terribly. I know pastor said money is never a determinant of how successful a person is but even the Bible says money answereth everything. Do you know how it feels to wear the same clothes and shoes for years or having to eat just once a day?? I don't want to kill myself but life is giving me reasons to. I've lived a frustrated and depressed life for most part of the last 10 years.

Sorry, keep the hope high.. Keep learning something

Don't give up.
Maybe what you need is to evaluate the things you've been doing do make money legitimately both online and offline - is there a demand for it?

So, if you're open to really discussing and possibly get advice from people who have been there and done that, answer these:
1. What are your current skills?
2. What actions have you been taking to earn online?
3. How long have you been taking these steps?
4. For the online hustle, what training did you undertake?

Goalnaldo:
Everything I've tried to earn money legitimately both offline and online has failed terribly. I know pastor said money is never a determinant of how successful a person is but even the Bible says money answereth everything. Do you know how it feels to wear the same clothes and shoes for years or having to eat just once a day?? I don't want to kill myself but life is giving me reasons to. I've lived a frustrated and depressed life for most part of the last 10 years.

Now you have realised the truth yourself⚠️

In Nigeria, no rich person makes money legally.... that's why over 90% of the population are in abject poverty.

Every rich person based in Nigeria is either a thief(drug or kidnapper) or a ritualist. Take it or leave it

tochez240:
Now you have realised the truth yourself⚠️

In Nigeria, no rich person makes money legally.... that's why over 90% of the population are in abject poverty.

Every rich person based in Nigeria is either a thief(drug or kidnapper) or a ritualist. Take it or leave it

Haba naaa! This is very wrong guy! Yes, you may not be Politician-rich, but there are people living their dream life.

If you put in the work, you'll earn the riches.

Brother, i wil say don't give up . Just try get things happening, like the little you do to eat for now while you look for more opportunities.. trade your shyness, ( don't say I'm too big for this kind of work or job ) just try do the little that comes, lives within your plan , means for the meantime, during this time discover yourself, ask yourself [/b]how can I solve people's problem[b] because that is one of the fastest way to riches or wealth creation.. do not look at your one clothe for 1year .. my brother , I've gone through this phase infact more serious than you could imagine .. I'm still battling it , striving.. I engaged in work that I've never for once prayed for . But I do it in a way that people keeps coming to me and little by little I start earning .. [/b]if hunger is taken care off in ones live , the remaining are becoming easy[b] ( do not mind my English) .. please 🙏 , do not give up , I beg you ...you won't believe , I was so poor that , some friends that I do run erand for were the ones giving me some leftover things like clothes , food and little change ( money ) then .. ( matter full one Kobo book ) .. please I beg you .. I go too happy for you if you if you no give up .. because I don't give up too ..

TossTos:
Brother, i wil say don't give up . Just try get things happening, like the little you do to eat for now while you look for more opportunities.. trade your shyness, ( don't say I'm too big for this kind of work or job ) just try do the little that comes, lives within your plan , means for the meantime, during this time discover yourself, ask yourself [/b]how can I solve people's problem[b] because that is one of the fastest way to riches or wealth creation.. do not look at your one clothe for 1year .. my brother , I've gone through this phase infact more serious than you could imagine .. I'm still battling it , striving.. I engaged in work that I've never for once prayed for . But I do it in a way that people keeps coming to me and little by little I start earning .. [/b]if hunger is taken care off in ones live , the remaining are becoming easy[b] ( do not mind my English) .. please 🙏 , do not give up , I beg you ...you won't believe , I was so poor that , some friends that I do run erand for were the ones giving me some leftover things like clothes , food and little change ( money ) then .. ( matter full one Kobo book ) .. please I beg you .. I go too happy for you if you if you no give up .. because I don't give up too ..

It's not easy bro! But we keep pushing. Forget English. Anyone struggling and heed to this your advice, with time, he would see light at his tunnel's end.

If someone told me I would wash people's clothes (Dry cleaning), I wouldn't have believed that. But, thank God I did and that gave me confidence to enter offices (removed inferiority complex from me). No bank I never entered in Minna talking to people about doing their laundry including CBN.

If someone told me I would do POS business by myself, I wouldn't have believed it. But thank God I did, na there I get money buy wetin in use dey run the below business.

Again, If someone had told me I would drive Keke, I wouldn't have believe it. But, thank God I'm doing it. Today, I no rich but to the glory of God, I'm not begging for succor upanda. Let me not talk so it 'll not sounds as if I dey braggadocios.

Don't give up...i know what i am sayng.


If u need to change ur environment pls,do.

Give up for what? People have bigger issues than all this trivial you mentioned. They are still thankful to God for life facing thier challenges with hope.

Your challenge is proverty, it's no big deal, many people are facing it.
Change your environment or friends for a start, mix with people doing much better than you, (if you can't find them, then change Ur worship centre, cost you little to nothing to pray in a new environment and meet new people).
you will be surprised with the results. Goodluck.

Like the other posters mentioned, also try solve people's problems, unless you feel there are some jobs beneath you. Alot of people complaining about being broke would rather beg than do some work like cleaning, washing which rakes in over 100k in a short time monthly if you position yourself well.

Go and ask those who have made it to tell you their own gory stories. If they had given up, they wouldn't be where they are today

Life is not fair to anyone, we just have to learn how to deal with it

Goalnaldo:
Everything I've tried to earn money legitimately both offline and online has failed terribly. I know pastor said money is never a determinant of how successful a person is but even the Bible says money answereth everything. Do you know how it feels to wear the same clothes and shoes for years or having to eat just once a day?? I don't want to kill myself but life is giving me reasons to. I've lived a frustrated and depressed life for most part of the last 10 years.

this your post will change nothing.
your chances of getting actual help from anyone that reads this is close to zero.
In the grand scheme of things, it wouldn't matter if you give up or keep fighting.
it is all on you.

Do you know the rich also cry, life is unpredictable, today is pregnant...........
Someone borrowed money from the bank, using his house and car as collateral, after 3 months full load of truck, with goods fell into the river, only the truck was retrieved, all the goods perish, this person is begging to eat now, with no place to stay, no money, someone that control over 20 million less than a month ago.............

Be grateful for where you are, and the life you are living, everyday is an opportunity to start afresh,
Nothing is worth dying for, 10 million naira today will be like 100k in 20 years time....
Look within you, there is an inner energy, Activate it

EDOSBROWN:
Do you know the rich also cry, life is unpredictable, today is pregnant...........
Someone borrowed money from the bank, using his house and car as collateral, after 3 months full load of truck, with goods fell into the river, only the truck was retrieved, all the goods perish, this person is begging to eat now, with no place to stay, no money, someone that control over 20 million less than a month ago.............

Be grateful for where you are, and the life you are living, everyday is an opportunity to start afresh,
Nothing is worth dying for, 10 million naira today will be like 100k in 20 years time....
Look within you, there is an inner energy, Activate it

Motivational speaker don drop lie quote

Be bold, put on your entrepreneurship attitude and become a marketer, something people need or become a middleman. This is the pathway people who’re completely down rise to the next level, then you spot opportunities in your environment from there

Stephen0mozzy:
Haba naaa! This is very wrong guy! Yes, you may not be Politician-rich, but there are people living their dream life.

If you put in the work, you'll earn the riches.

Lets be realistic here..Have you ever sold something of 100Naira for 200naira?..

Dzzzz:
Lets be realistic here..Have you ever sold something of 100Naira for 200naira?..

A bottle of water is sold for #200 in Traffic,
Sold #300 in a Buka
Sold #500 in a fancy Eatery
Sold #2500 in a 5 star hotel.

Yes, I've sold luxury + quality before.

Stephen0mozzy:
A bottle of water is sold for #200 in Traffic,
Sold #300 in a Buka
Sold #500 in a fancy Eatery
Sold #2500 in a 5 star hotel.

Yes, I've sold luxury + quality before.

Bros you going too far..Have you ever sold something of 100 for 200 to someone else?

Stephen0mozzy:
A bottle of water is sold for #200 in Traffic,
Sold #300 in a Buka
Sold #500 in a fancy Eatery
Sold #2500 in a 5 star hotel.

Yes, I've sold luxury + quality before.

Have you ever inflated the price of a goods knowing the actual price is lower?

Dzzzz:
Bros you going too far..Have you ever sold something of 100 for 200 to someone else?

Bros na you norva understand the analogy you're trying to use to prove a "point".

I build websites, there are people who will do a website for free (that's as low as low price can be). But I have never sold a website to my clients for free. Does it now make me evil?

I have been there too bro. Today things have changed for better. Anytime you are overwhelmed just pray and have faith in God. This year is your year no matter what it looks like now.