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After spending ₦30m to sponsor her to the UK, she’s now filing for divorce after 6 months” — Nigerian man seeks legal help to protect his interest.

Chilipepper:
After spending ₦30m to sponsor her to the UK, she’s now filing for divorce after 6 months” — Nigerian man seeks legal help to protect his interest.

He spent the money on his own wife to make her his property? There is so much missing that I only wish the man does not actually think we are to draw a conclusion from just this.

William Shakespeare said... "The thief has gone with a lot and a lot to catch the thief...loss upon loss yet no satisfaction"

Maybe before spending heavily to upgrade a woman (girlfriend or wife), we may need to serve them agreement papers to ensure the marriage or relationship lasts atleast 5 to 10 years after sponsorship, otherwise they refund in full the entire cash spent plus 9$ per year interest before breakup/divorce can be served. Every woman must be made to sign such documents before they get a dime from their boyfriend/husband for their upgrade. Universities like ABUAD serve such paper before agreeing to sponsor their staff abroad for further studies. Companies abroad serve same paper before sponsoring a candidate to work abroad (especially those Nclex sponsoring agencies for nurses). Thesame idea must be brought home and applied to marriages. You mustn't confer blind trust on a woman. There is a difference between blind trust and earned trust

This is one area that underscore the lack of creativity amongst black race. The whites invented pre-nuptial to solve their own problems of being taken advantage of. Blacks sit idle, lament and are unable to do something creative to solve this sponsorship scam problem that pervades the nigerian society

Ruke1990:
Maybe before spending heavily to upgrade a woman (girlfriend or wife), we may need to serve them agreement papers to ensure the marriage or relationship lasts atleast 5 to 10 years after sponsorship, otherwise they refund in full the entire cash spent plus 9$ per year interest before breakup/divorce can be served. Every woman must be made to sign such documents before they get a dime from their boyfriend/husband for their upgrade. Universities like ABUAD serve such paper before agreeing to sponsor their staff abroad for further studies. Companies abroad serve same paper before sponsoring a candidate to work abroad (especially those Nclex sponsoring agencies for nurses). Thesame idea must be brought home and applied to marriages. You mustn't confer blind trust on a woman. There is a difference between blind trust and earned trust

This is one area that underscore the lack of creativity amongst black race. The whites invented pre-nuptial to solve their own problems of being taken advantage of. Blacks sit idle, lament and are unable to do something creative to solve this sponsorship scam problem that pervades the nigerian society

Never you upgrade or sponsor any girl/ wife at all

2023, my wife kept disturbing that we should relocate, the disturbance was so much that I had to tell her that if we are moving at all, then we will share the relocation fee 50 50. Bring 20m, I drop 20m then let's start the planning.

I no hear pim again. I told her if you want to relocate, in all honesty and fairness, if you have the money to take care of your journey, you are good to go and I will be coming over to see you. Since then till now, I no hear any relocation wahala again...

In life we either learn the hard way or the smart way.

SINisSIN:
2023, my wife kept disturbing that we should relocate, the disturbance was so much that I had to tell her that if we are moving at all, then we will share the relocation fee 50 50. Bring 20m, I drop 20m then let's start the planning.

I no hear pim again. I told her if you want to relocate, in all honesty and fairness, if you have the money to take care of your journey, you are good to go and I will be coming over to see you.

From then till now, I no hear any relocation wahala again...

She is now making the plans with someone else. Don't just sleep on the matter, be alert and prepare yourself and your mind to lose her.

No, she is not. She can't even try it because na she go carry the consequences if she misbehave. If she wants to leave the marriage, there are some things we need to do in her village before she can sleep with another man.

Imindmybusiness:
She is now making the plans with someone else. Don't just sleep on the matter, be alert and prepare yourself and your mind to lose her.

What do you want us to do? We've always warned you guys not to sponsor your partner or relocate with your partner to any western country but you guys would not listen...... Enjoy your new status as a single man

SINisSIN:
2023, my wife kept disturbing that we should relocate, the disturbance was so much that I had to tell her that if we are moving at all, then we will share the relocation fee 50 50. Bring 20m, I drop 20m then let's start the planning.

I no hear pim again. I told her if you want to relocate, in all honesty and fairness, if you have the money to take care of your journey, you are good to go and I will be coming over to see you. Since then till now, I no hear any relocation wahala again...

God bless you for being a man and being firm. I like

If really you spent that amount of money, don’t bother yourself with any lawyer. Just go to the shrine and wait for their judgement.

Haaa na wah o!

Don't you people know that you need to look very well before you invest that type of money in another person

Samson was fine when he entered a prostitute and God made him more powerful, but it was when he fell in love with Delilah he took for a wife material, was when he fell.

2special:
Never you upgrade or sponsor any girl/ wife at all

But why never?

Not all are the same... Some are still considerate.

Spend 30m to send someone to UK,if you want to send the person to heaven how much will you spend ?,maybe 10b

We all get the love we deserve. This man is a weak man.

OK


some people are born EV!l

we hope the story is true

but whether true or not

it is not good
we are sure that she will be pretending all this while to love the man ,



EV!l Lady.


Princess Faith Chukwuamaka

Imindmybusiness:
She is now making the plans with someone else. Don't just sleep on the matter, be alert and prepare yourself and your mind to lose her.

And so what if she's preparing to relocate with someone else?

Will his life end if she does that?!

Chilipepper:
After spending ₦30m to sponsor her to the UK, she’s now filing for divorce after 6 months” — Nigerian man seeks legal help to protect his interest.

This is a story of maga catch mugu later mugu con catch maga, oh kangaroo.

Na men with no game dey buy woman love. You can only buy a woman heart temporarily if she’s greedy or come from poverty.

No loyalty she will do her heart desire eventually eg Eve

Foolish man!
A woman is only grateful to you if you helped her without collecting her kpekus
Once a woman has given you her kpekus, anything you do for her has been earned by her. You didn't do her a favour

There are tell signs that most men ignore.


Women don't just change overnight, there must be obvious signs you are married to an unreliable woman or you have been maltreating her and she has been praying for an escape route via migration abroad.


No sensible woman wakes up one day and initiate divorce with her husband just because they migrated abroad; it doesn't work that way.

The truth is, most Nigerian men oppress and maltreat their wives in Nigeria just because they are the breadwinner.

Your wife and children are always in fear the moment you step into the house; that's a sign that you are a failed husband and father, and if by mistake you relocate abroad with that woman, she will so deal with you eh lol



And to the men that enjoy extramarital games, continue playing it openly without remorse, continue splashing it to her face thinking she doesn't care, she cares oh, she is burning inside oh, she is only keeping quiet and pretending that all is well simply because Nigeria have no laws that protect married women and because she is not yet financially buoyant to live her dream life without your money, once she gets financially liberated through migration abroad, just count yourself a single man, it doesn't matter how many millions you spent sponsoring her abroad.



What do I even know? Let me go back to Tel Aviv from there will make a stop at Tehran to see if Ali Khamenei was smuggled out of Iran some days ago or not, see you guys tomorrow

Maxzyx:
If really you spent that amount of money, don’t bother yourself with any lawyer. Just go to the shrine and wait for their judgement.

Shrine is a scam. Your carved creatures can't do nothing.

Chilipepper:
After spending ₦30m to sponsor her to the UK, she’s now filing for divorce after 6 months” — Nigerian man seeks legal help to protect his interest.

Smh. Someone who can dash N30 million in this manner doesn’t seem like one who needs advice. You need a motivational speaker

Chilipepper:
After spending ₦30m to sponsor her to the UK, she’s now filing for divorce after 6 months” — Nigerian man seeks legal help to protect his interest.

A person who has 30m disposable income to sponsor babe to UK will not be looking for a lawyer on Twitter

That is all

Kobojunkie:
He spent the money on her to make her his property.

Hope u know your comment only proves alfa males right.... u are making it even worse for women

Chilipepper:
After spending ₦30m to sponsor her to the UK, she’s now filing for divorce after 6 months” — Nigerian man seeks legal help to protect his interest.

U mean with all d things happening u mo learn wen u deygive herv30m u no consult anyone think8ng u are wise. Wen u c online dat women no love they only love wat u can prove and if oppcome dey move u think that not my portion.

Oboy just cputv30m as losses and move on u will be wise not not like mugu

We have heard these sort of issues here many times recently.

I do not think we need to be bringing to FP again. It's really stale.

Enough guys have been warned here about these sort of practices, they should bear the consequences.

Kobojunkie:
He spent the money on her to make her his property.

I think I need to block you right away! I don't ever want to see your posts again.

really quite disappointing, but now a normal thing for ladies

Good for you.
How much have you spent in helping your siblings?