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Nigerian married women have gone Haywire: This One Is Unheard Of


Caveat: You don't need to watch the video, I'll summarize and give you even more context.


This is the first time I will hear a Nigerian woman desisting from giving birth to a child in Nigeria because she wants to maintain her shape. In Nigeria of all places where childless women are called barren just after one year of marriage, where they face immense pressure from their family, the man's family, and the society at large. A society where they are shamed and looked upon as having lived filthy lives and, in most cases, nobody ever looks the husband's way, the woman is always the first to be blamed.

Now here, a cult disguised as a club where only married women are members. They are coached on how to prevent themselves from getting pregnant so they continue to look elegant and beautiful. Some, like the lady in this video, did not only rely on pregnancy-preventing pills, she did other forms of family planning just to be double sure she doesn't get pregnant.

The reason why I tag the club a coven is that these women are so wicked that they not only pretend to their husbands to be innocent , they most times initiate the moves to go with him in search of solution. The sucker in this act is that it elicits more trust from the husbands and and blinds them from even reasoning clearly. Imagine one of the women prays 3 hours every night for the fruit of the womb, the man was hooked.

One of the men, on one of their numerous visits to the hospital, was called aside by the doctor who had conducted deep tests on the wife and reliably informed the man that the woman had been consuming something that had been preventing her from taking in. Instead of the man to conduct an independent investigation to ascertain the veracity of the claim, he "subtly" confronted the wife, which of course she denied.

The tragedies is this dilemma is that most of the men are taken to white garment churches amongst other places they were taken to (hospital, churches, native doctors, herbalists, etc), where they are flogged. At least in one case, the couple were flogged mercilessly. This has not mentioned the amount of money the man is made to shell out in the search. Some have flown these women abroad in search of solution.

One wise woman, once her dear husband suggested taking a second wife who will bear them children, she covertly got pregnant immediately and tricked her club members. Disappeared for a while, and after delivery, hired a nanny to take care of the child. Five years later, she took in again, hoping to pull off the same stunt. Mind you, the first child was born 10 long years after their marriage.

Advice to men:
If medicine has proven that both of you are ok and fit to have a child, and you are still childless, do the following:
1. Be observant to see that your wife does not take anything immediately after sex.
2, If there be any medication both of you should be taking for fertility, make sure she takes her own (they are able to deceive the man that they have taken it. If it is tablet, they hide it in their mouth and shift to dispose of it in the toilet. Another said she consumes another substance that looks similar to the concoction they are given. Like when they are given animal urine, she arranges lucozade or wine, or some soda to drink in his presence.)
3. If you are rich. Arrange for abroad treatment. Find a way to make her accidentally lose her luggage (including her handbag), then while abroad guard her like a toddler to ensure she doesn't visit a pharmacy, then make sure you knack her everyday.
4. If you can, also arrange with a good doctor to ascertain that she is not undergoing any form of family planning (especially the one they implant).
5. If you notice your wife belongs to any association, pry in as know exactly what is going on there.
6. Discuss having a second wife. Many of them rely on the fact that the man may get tired and seek to adopt a child, which they will gladly accept. Honestly, the foolishness of these women beat me.
7. Some of the women said they gave in to the invitation because their husband had emphasised on their shape while they were dating and they feared he may leave them if they lose the shape. To this, I advise men to be subtle about this and help their wife stay fit, WOMEN ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO LOOK EXACTLY THE WAY THEY DID AFTER CHILDBIRTH AND BREASTFEEDING, IF YOU GET IT EXACTLY THE SAME BEFORE AND AFTER, NA LUCK.

Advice to Women.
1. If you need to maintain your shape, you know what to do.
2. If you must form a club of married women to war against losing shape, it should be teaching them how to maintain shape after childbirth, don't be foolish and evil. to even think that this club goes about recruiting newly married women is not only self-destructive, it is a crime against the institution called marriage.

Although many things could lead to childlessness, including witches and wizards, village people, God's timing, medical conditions, etc. But this self-inflicted childlessness from women is one thing I do not understand and may never understand. If this is happening in western countries, I won't bat an eyelid. But in Nigeria? Something is definitely wrong. E be many things for these days. These women are worse than the devil. Imagine your wife causing her childlessness, causing you shame, making you spend money unnecessarily, causing you bodily harm, wasting your time, and causing you financial strain. I simply spit.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mMNQltOr2s

Mysterious gender. And a stupid bot monitoring our writings.

Well i am not surprised at this. Nothing musa no go see for gate.

ruffhandu:
Nigerian married women have gone Haywire: This One Is Unheard Of


Caveat: You don't need to watch the video, I'll summarize and give you even more context.


This is the first time I will hear a Nigerian woman desisting from giving birth to a child in Nigeria because she wants to maintain her shape. In Nigeria of all places where childless women are called barren just after one year of marriage, where they face immense pressure from their family, the man's family, and the society at large. A society where they are shamed and looked upon as having lived filthy lives and, in most cases, nobody ever looks the husband's way, the woman is always the first to be blamed.

Now here, a cult disguised as a club where only married women are members. They are coached on how to prevent themselves from getting pregnant so they continue to look elegant and beautiful. Some, like the lady in this video, did not only rely on pregnancy-preventing pills, she did other forms of family planning just to be double sure she doesn't get pregnant.

The reason why I tag the club a coven is that these women are so wicked that they not only pretend to their husbands to be innocent , they most times initiate the moves to go with him in search of solution. The sucker in this act is that it elicits more trust from the husbands and and blinds them from even reasoning clearly. Imagine one of the women prays 3 hours every night for the fruit of the womb, the man was hooked.

One of the men, on one of their numerous visits to the hospital, was called aside by the doctor who had conducted deep tests on the wife and reliably informed the man that the woman had been consuming something that had been preventing her from taking in. Instead of the man to conduct an independent investigation to ascertain the veracity of the claim, he "subtly" confronted the wife, which of course she denied.

The tragedies is this dilemma is that most of the men are taken to white garment churches amongst other places they were taken to (hospital, churches, native doctors, herbalists, etc), where they are flogged. At least in one case, the couple were flogged mercilessly. This has not mentioned the amount of money the man is made to shell out in the search. Some have flown these women abroad in search of solution.

One wise woman, once her dear husband suggested taking a second wife who will bear them children, she covertly got pregnant immediately and tricked her club members. Disappeared for a while, and after delivery, hired a nanny to take care of the child. Five years later, she took in again, hoping to pull off the same stunt. Mind you, the first child was born 10 long years after their marriage.

Advice to men:
If medicine has proven that both of you are ok and fit to have a child, and you are still childless, do the following:
1. Be observant to see that your wife does not take anything immediately after sex.
2, If there be any medication both of you should be taking for fertility, make sure she takes her own (they are able to deceive the man that they have taken it. If it is tablet, they hide it in their mouth and shift to dispose of it in the toilet. Another said she consumes another substance that looks similar to the concoction they are given. Like when they are given animal urine, she arranges lucozade or wine, or some soda to drink in his presence.)
3. If you are rich. Arrange for abroad treatment. Find a way to make her accidentally lose her luggage (including her handbag), then while abroad guard her like a toddler to ensure she doesn't visit a pharmacy, then make sure you knack her everyday.
4. If you can, also arrange with a good doctor to ascertain that she is not undergoing any form of family planning (especially the one they implant).
5. If you notice your wife belongs to any association, pry in as know exactly what is going on there.
6. Discuss having a second wife. Many of them rely on the fact that the man may get tired and seek to adopt a child, which they will gladly accept. Honestly, the foolishness of these women beat me.
7. Some of the women said they gave in to the invitation because their husband had emphasised on their shape while they were dating and they feared he may leave them if they lose the shape. To this, I advise men to be subtle about this and help their wife stay fit, WOMEN ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO LOOK EXACTLY THE WAY THEY DID AFTER CHILDBIRTH AND BREASTFEEDING, IF YOU GET IT EXACTLY THE SAME BEFORE AND AFTER, NA LUCK.

Advice to Women.
1. If you need to maintain your shape, you know what to do.
2. If you must form a club of married women to war against losing shape, it should be teaching them how to maintain shape after childbirth, don't be foolish and evil. to even think that this club goes about recruiting newly married women is not only self-destructive, it is a crime against the institution called marriage.

Although many things could lead to childlessness, including witches and wizards, village people, God's timing, medical conditions, etc. But this self-inflicted childlessness from women is one thing I do not understand and may never understand. If this is happening in western countries, I won't bat an eyelid. But in Nigeria? Something is definitely wrong. E be many things for these days. These women are worse than the devil. Imagine your wife causing her childlessness, causing you shame, making you spend money unnecessarily, causing you bodily harm, wasting your time, and causing you financial strain. I simply spit.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mMNQltOr2s

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Giving birth will sure disfigure her body. Don’t pressurize her to do what she doesn’t want to do. Discreetly look for another woman run am outside.

When she don turn 45, whether she born or not, make she come dey maintain shape for who. A woman, no matter how she put herself in shape, dey begin loose alignment, ball joint, rings and pistons go weak, same as chain and sprockets and plugz go cold. Buttom plate for oil go begin lose nut

No man will allow that. Unless a stupid one. Then the lady is not yet ready to marry. Divorce her immediately

Only a fish brain will trade body shape for the blessing of womb.

Seun. It is not every comments that needs long post.
Please, save us the time of typing meaningless comments.

You forget her parents house? Send her back ASAP, over there her shape will remain same forever.

Noted.
Life is all about choices, everyone will reap bountiful of what they sew.

Everybody with their own choice.. it's lame to judge people who decide what they want to do oth their lives.

I want such a lady now pls





She must be slim with good stuffs o 😉



Dm if interested....... [color=#000099][/color]

This is serious.
Better to know your partner's stand before marriage.

Crazy place the world is currently,one said she only wants ivf because she doesn’t want a father figure for her children

Lol. Most women will size you up and drop absurd conditions
..

If you're unintelligent enough not to set boundaries early... you go really hear am

So nairaland now chooses who to censor for harmless posts and who not to censor for same posts.. Na so the matter they now?? The owner should continue until this platform finally goes into obscurity

Just Send Her to Her Fathers House Without Any 2nd Thought.

2 Men Cant be Lying Together

Desist from most educated women or most expose women, most of them , u can't enjoy them

Na wa ooo. She will opt for being a step mother laslas.

I refuse to believe this. Nope, I will not believe it

Then what's she doing in marriage, when she is not ready to give birth.
Besides tell her to also stop aging too so won't grow old.

Oga uou have no wife.

But wait a minute didn't you date her before marrying her? Because she must have be saying this to you Iver and over but I noticed you ignore it doing love in Tokyo.

Sorry to telll you again you have just wasted your money marrying a pretending feminist who cares about her shape to pleases another man hodding in the shadow.

Young man wake up you re already on ones chance.

Tor left for me you will go to your father's house and maintain that body you Soo much cherished and definitely not in my house

ruffhandu:
Nigerian married women have gone Haywire: This One Is Unheard Of


Caveat: You don't need to watch the video, I'll summarize and give you even more context.


This is the first time I will hear a Nigerian woman desisting from giving birth to a child in Nigeria because she wants to maintain her shape. In Nigeria of all places where childless women are called barren just after one year of marriage, where they face immense pressure from their family, the man's family, and the society at large. A society where they are shamed and looked upon as having lived filthy lives and, in most cases, nobody ever looks the husband's way, the woman is always the first to be blamed.

Now here, a cult disguised as a club where only married women are members. They are coached on how to prevent themselves from getting pregnant so they continue to look elegant and beautiful. Some, like the lady in this video, did not only rely on pregnancy-preventing pills, she did other forms of family planning just to be double sure she doesn't get pregnant.

The reason why I tag the club a coven is that these women are so wicked that they not only pretend to their husbands to be innocent , they most times initiate the moves to go with him in search of solution. The sucker in this act is that it elicits more trust from the husbands and and blinds them from even reasoning clearly. Imagine one of the women prays 3 hours every night for the fruit of the womb, the man was hooked.

One of the men, on one of their numerous visits to the hospital, was called aside by the doctor who had conducted deep tests on the wife and reliably informed the man that the woman had been consuming something that had been preventing her from taking in. Instead of the man to conduct an independent investigation to ascertain the veracity of the claim, he "subtly" confronted the wife, which of course she denied.

The tragedies is this dilemma is that most of the men are taken to white garment churches amongst other places they were taken to (hospital, churches, native doctors, herbalists, etc), where they are flogged. At least in one case, the couple were flogged mercilessly. This has not mentioned the amount of money the man is made to shell out in the search. Some have flown these women abroad in search of solution.

One wise woman, once her dear husband suggested taking a second wife who will bear them children, she covertly got pregnant immediately and tricked her club members. Disappeared for a while, and after delivery, hired a nanny to take care of the child. Five years later, she took in again, hoping to pull off the same stunt. Mind you, the first child was born 10 long years after their marriage.

Advice to men:
If medicine has proven that both of you are ok and fit to have a child, and you are still childless, do the following:
1. Be observant to see that your wife does not take anything immediately after sex.
2, If there be any medication both of you should be taking for fertility, make sure she takes her own (they are able to deceive the man that they have taken it. If it is tablet, they hide it in their mouth and shift to dispose of it in the toilet. Another said she consumes another substance that looks similar to the concoction they are given. Like when they are given animal urine, she arranges lucozade or wine, or some soda to drink in his presence.)
3. If you are rich. Arrange for abroad treatment. Find a way to make her accidentally lose her luggage (including her handbag), then while abroad guard her like a toddler to ensure she doesn't visit a pharmacy, then make sure you knack her everyday.
4. If you can, also arrange with a good doctor to ascertain that she is not undergoing any form of family planning (especially the one they implant).
5. If you notice your wife belongs to any association, pry in as know exactly what is going on there.
6. Discuss having a second wife. Many of them rely on the fact that the man may get tired and seek to adopt a child, which they will gladly accept. Honestly, the foolishness of these women beat me.
7. Some of the women said they gave in to the invitation because their husband had emphasised on their shape while they were dating and they feared he may leave them if they lose the shape. To this, I advise men to be subtle about this and help their wife stay fit, WOMEN ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO LOOK EXACTLY THE WAY THEY DID AFTER CHILDBIRTH AND BREASTFEEDING, IF YOU GET IT EXACTLY THE SAME BEFORE AND AFTER, NA LUCK.

Advice to Women.
1. If you need to maintain your shape, you know what to do.
2. If you must form a club of married women to war against losing shape, it should be teaching them how to maintain shape after childbirth, don't be foolish and evil. to even think that this club goes about recruiting newly married women is not only self-destructive, it is a crime against the institution called marriage.

Although many things could lead to childlessness, including witches and wizards, village people, God's timing, medical conditions, etc. But this self-inflicted childlessness from women is one thing I do not understand and may never understand. If this is happening in western countries, I won't bat an eyelid. But in Nigeria? Something is definitely wrong. E be many things for these days. These women are worse than the devil. Imagine your wife causing her childlessness, causing you shame, making you spend money unnecessarily, causing you bodily harm, wasting your time, and causing you financial strain. I simply spit.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mMNQltOr2s

Then she had no business getting married in first place.

Shape that will still go within a few years is what she's sacrificing her children for

These new generation women sha. Their brains dey work upside down
- u marry u no wan born so u no go lose shape
- same people want a providing man but can't tolerate the man being the head of the home
- they can't cook for any man(husband) but they will make tea and go buy lunch for their male boss
- waste their youthful years looking for Tall Dark and Handsome, using their university days to sleep around with older guys and men the age of their father, then when they approach 30, they start shouting on internet any guy dating a man he's 10 years older than is a pedophile
Confused bunch

These days before you take any girl to the alter, you give her belle first, to be sure of the market you are buying..
The only thing men benefit from marriage is children, if she is not ready for that, then you can cancel the marriage